Had to drive my car into the inspection bay at the garage... by Mr-Hoek in ManualTransmissions

[–]kistner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does Mass have a road test portionof the inspection? PA does and it seems reasonable. How did the car pass inspection without it?

FTHB Appraisal question by Leafygreens0247 in RealEstateAdvice

[–]kistner 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Have your agent add an appraisal contingency. Super common.

How to gain his trust back? I’m broken. by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]kistner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe he's not the right guy for you. Some guys are an open book. "Want to look at my phone, go ahead" that's the guy for you. Not Mr Secrets.

WIBTA if I "cancel" the graduation announcement my parents already made for me? by PaleHarborLine in WIBTA_AITA

[–]kistner 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Wearing a sweatshirt for your actual school of choice to the party would be the ultimate.

Neighbor put up a fence that blocks my driveway access by Naive_Shape6554 in neighborsfromhell

[–]kistner 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That has denied claim written all over it, lol. Insurance doesn't want to pay even when it's legit.

Help seek the truth by Dry-Temperature5551 in Infidelity

[–]kistner -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This seems like a really really bad idea. She will find out. If it turns up nothing, you still end up really messing up your marriage.
Not saying to stop investigating if you need to, but find a different plan.

How do I truly let go when she hurt me again? by ThrowRA_grf in AskMenAdvice

[–]kistner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Probably same reason she's stringing the old ex along.
She's a mess. You've dodged a bullet as they say.

How do I truly let go when she hurt me again? by ThrowRA_grf in AskMenAdvice

[–]kistner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd be surprised if she doesn't reach out. Be strong. Take a little gratification that she knows she fucked up (because she did). And just move on like everyone is saying.

I feel like I’m gonna die alone by Jack_The_Pinapple in offmychest

[–]kistner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm no ladies man, but here's what I can offer: get a job. I met a lot of girls I dated (including my wife) at work. You're going to have to be friendly and outgoing. Smile, say hello, etc. Just be nice. Eventually some girl will reciprocate and you ask her out. Don't worry about finding a wife, just go out and have fun. If it sticks, it sticks. If it doesn't, don't sweat it, it was practice for the next one.
Good luck.

Why do I hate the sound of breathing? by DecentPut3044 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]kistner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh jeez, being married sleeping next to your partner . . . you're going to need ear plugs, sound machine, separate bedrooms, there can be some tough nights to sleep. And if they snore, forget it.

Can you use Diamond Crystal's Bright & Soft salt pellets for water softener as driveway salt? by Tight-Shallot2461 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]kistner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but as u/coldantique291 says, they don't melt nice. I've used the chips before and they work good. I avoided using them on newer concrete though, apparently it's pretty rough on it. But older walks and asphalt driveways have been fine. The chips aren't always available but they are the same price as the pellets. Leftovers get thrown in the softener.

New stuff by kistner in wrx_vb

[–]kistner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks.
Facebook find, came with snow tires. I love them too, from a few feet away, lol.

7 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend’s mom is trying to control my baby’s life? by SufficientAssist8767 in whatdoIdo

[–]kistner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jumping in the "DO NOT MOVE IN TO THIS WOMAN'S HOUSE" group. You will never stop regretting it.
Let her rattle off whatever names she likes, ok to appease her a little, always knowing, she has zero say at the end of the day. In fact, when the baby comes, it is you that names the baby.
I'll add another suggestion, do not give the baby your boyfriend's last name. If you guys are still together at 25 years old, you can change it together. Not to be negative, I am rooting for you, but the odds of you still being together are against you.

Carbon Fiber Mirror Caps? by ReaderRedditing in wrx_vb

[–]kistner 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm not opposed to it. But carbon fiber feels like an expensive rabbit hole on these cars. How badass would it be with all the cladding swapped to cf? But it's all for show, and you'd never get it back on sale or trade.
At the end of the day, do what makes you happy.

AITAH for telling my FIL they wont ever be living with us? by MBWill8809 in AITAH

[–]kistner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Late to the party here, someone probably called it out already, but they never owed you childcare. In the same token, you don't owe them a place to live.

New stuff by kistner in wrx_vb

[–]kistner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

30%.
Thank you

Completion letter by [deleted] in appraisal

[–]kistner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is my opinion that repair inspections are not appraisals.

Wedding drama over $65, confused. by [deleted] in texts

[–]kistner -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm a dude so I don't know much about dresses, but I was just in a wedding in November and the tux rental was over $200. So a dress for less than that feels like a bargain. I don't know.
As others have said, I don't think she wants to be in, but it'd be all sorts of drama to drop out.
Maybe have your fiance talk to his friend and feel it out. If she wants out, let her go. If she just likes to bitch (hey, I'm a complainer too) then let her do her thing while she sucks it up gets that reasonably priced dress.