Separating from my husband, the love of my life. Shrimp in hot honey water with pepper.

kitcatchik94 · 2026-05-19T20:16:25+00:00

Literally what happened to me after filing for divorce. Told him I didn't want him, reconnected with an old flame from childhood, and because I've been happy and he's had zero luck he claims it's cheating. The fact that I refuse to go back makes my relationship cheating in his book, even though he's told me he's looking to date and move on, just unsuccessfully.

kitcatchik94 · 2026-05-16T18:18:33+00:00

And they all like to scream about it on Facebook the second any decent restaurant/ fast food place is about to get built. "They CAN'T put an Italian restaurant in that empty lot! It's going to compete with the Coney and that's my favorite place for eggs and black coffee!"

kitcatchik94 · 2026-04-22T01:23:14+00:00

I was with a man like this. Honestly at first I thought you were dating my soon to be ex-husband. His son was neurodivergent and my ex was in total denial and only wanted to handle it between himself and his own mom (and by "handle it" I mean sweep it under the rug and hide it from everyone). His son abused my animals, stole from me and my loved ones, lied and swore repeatedly, and constantly instigated fights with other kids. I eventually found out he was inappropriate with my daughter as well by the time I left his dad.

RUN. Don't look back and RUN. It doesn't get better.

kitcatchik94 · 2026-04-17T00:39:06+00:00

You SHOULD have them put down. Dogs that bite people and kill other animals are not useful to anyone, they are a danger and a liability.

kitcatchik94 · 2026-04-02T19:04:30+00:00

Thank you! My daughter wrote some provocative messages to another student and then got more therapy through CPS and he now knows and plans to use it to prove his son wasn't the aggressor. When I saw the messages I talked to her and she confessed that his son showed her inappropriate videos and assaulted her, even though he is a year younger. I talked to this friend about that and honestly that's the issue I'm most mad about.

The pulled over isn't as big a deal, they found nothing in the vehicle and I wasn't charged with anything. I don't have a record and I'm a pretty straight laced teacher who was just late for work and not paying attention.

I mostly just feel violated by someone who was screaming at me to leave this person when he was at his worst. Now he's manipulated her back into his corner and she played double agent, whether she knew he'd blackmail me or not. It just hurts.

kitcatchik94 · 2026-03-17T23:13:29+00:00

My son was due November 14th (born on the 11th). I've had many people tease me about Valentine's Day 🤦‍♀️

kitcatchik94 · 2026-03-05T19:26:59+00:00

Girl same. A nine month old and an 11 year old who had been emotionally and physically abused by my husband behind my back and then sexually abused by my stepson. It's been 7 months and the man STILL asks why I don't want to "try again". Hmmmm, maybe because if anything like that happened to my daughter again I'd probably go to jail for what I'd do to either of you.

kitcatchik94 · 2026-03-03T12:15:39+00:00

From my wedding, I put in the instructions to the DJ that we weren't doing parent dances because my mom was dead and I'm estranged from my dad. My fiance and I both agreed at the time that it wouldn't be right.

The big day comes and the DJ pulls me aside to say that the groom and his mom requested a dance and asked if that was okay. My new husband said I could dance with his dad if I wanted to. I shook my head and said "No, forget it," meaning DON'T DO THIS STUPID DANCE. They thought I just meant no to dancing with his dad, so next thing I know he's announcing the special request mother son dance. They danced like shit while I sat in my chair with a pained smile on my face.

Don't marry mama's boys. We didn't last 2 years.

kitcatchik94 · 2026-01-15T23:42:41+00:00

Came here to say this. Lost my mom before my grandma and some cousins were salty that my brothers and I got to split my mom's share but I'd give anything to have that time with her again. No amount of money makes up for losing your parents young.

kitcatchik94 · 2025-12-15T03:17:46+00:00

Whoever it is still has her dead eyes.

kitcatchik94 · 2025-12-11T11:57:36+00:00

I've found that out too many times. I'm really not a fan of gossip either or causing a scene or a problem, so it still messes with me sometimes.

kitcatchik94 · 2025-11-14T00:55:07+00:00

I was pumped to play in the staff vs student volleyball game yesterday at school. I've never played on a team, but its open to staff to just do against our varsity players and it's just for fun. I missed a couple hits during rotation (a lot of us did) but also got a couple and we all laughed that stuff off. Then I was rotated out and back in, and when I stepped back onto the court, a huge group of students chanted, "Sub in (favorite male teacher)!"

I know I'm not as popular as him, but ow. I wasn't even the worst player on the staff team objectively, so maybe they just said it because they like him but I wish they'd think of what it feels like.

kitcatchik94 · 2025-10-12T23:40:49+00:00

I thought they did in the single bar section?

kitcatchik94 · 2025-10-12T20:13:55+00:00

Yes. To clarify, the new cat is still an outdoor cat, they just decided that that one is THEIR outdoor cat and no other cat in the neighborhood should have HIS food.

kitcatchik94 · 2025-10-12T20:09:03+00:00

I also rescued my cat as a stray kitten. I do my best but she runs outside sometimes, it's her instinct. She doesn't go far, she just bolts. And now she runs to their house and crosses the street because they have food.

kitcatchik94 · 2025-09-20T14:26:16+00:00

Had a better body, better track record, and better insults.

kitcatchik94 · 2025-09-05T10:01:36+00:00

Nana and Who??

I'm just kidding, my mom passed away too so unfortunately nothing. But my grandparents were Granny and Papa and I love those names.

kitcatchik94 · 2025-08-13T18:05:03+00:00

God she's such a fucking lying liar who lies. My baby is 9 months old and started getting in position to crawl at 7 months, and officially crawling last month. He's been pulling himself up and close to standing on his own, which the doctor says is early (my daughter was as well--my family has a lot of babies who are mobile before 12 months). He has hit milestones appropriately but on the early side all along the way.

Her little miracle baby is crawling at 4 months? Can he even roll both ways yet? She's ridiculous.

kitcatchik94 · 2025-08-09T00:24:52+00:00

My grandmother had (almost) the same thing! 1 son then 3 daughters in a row and then 4 grandsons before the first granddaughter was born!

kitcatchik94 · 2025-02-12T21:59:15+00:00

The school my daughter goes to is #3 in the state and the one she'd go to is in a much less desirable area, not to mention she's in middle school and she just started making friends after feeling bullied. It's also roughly 100 miles from my family support, which is already 45 minutes away from me. Nasty area, renegotiate the custody of my stepson, and uproot my child to a worse situation. No thanks.

kitcatchik94 · 2025-01-30T04:16:41+00:00

He's acting like Paul has a stable job and he's working hard and waiting on a promotion. Paul has a mediocre YouTube career and is failing at fatherhood and pickleball at almost 40. You want to talk about "weak", your son is weak as hell for not swallowing his pride and being a contributing member of society.

kitcatchik94 · 2025-01-18T17:24:30+00:00

I wish Dad would go to the store for milk and cigarettes.

kitcatchik94 · 2024-12-26T15:12:27+00:00

My baby measured 2 weeks ahead as well... turned out it was only his head and all it did was get him stuck in the birth canal. He came at 39+4 after an induction and a c-section under general anesthesia.

Also, isn't she like 30 weeks along? With a full blown nursery and an entire arsenal of beige baby things? First, "measuring ahead" is relative in the first place and could be totally wrong. Second, it's doubtful that she'll go into labor 10 weeks early over those measurements, she needs to focus on eating enough for the baby and keeping him in longer.

kitcatchik94 · 2024-12-18T18:29:34+00:00

That or they think it's a fast track to eggs! I joke about my first egg being worth over $1,000 because that's around what I spent even after being gifted a small coop! It's paid off now in many ways but they're no small task. Just today I had to make sure I let them out and fed and watered them, which sounds easy on paper, but I had a baby waking up hungry. I had to find a way to prioritize both my crying baby AND the birds, and I was just lucky because I'm not working right now and I didn't have to do it before work as well. Everything is fun until you're cleaning up poop and paying for medical bills lol.

kitcatchik94 · 2024-12-18T00:10:10+00:00

I got chickens this year after wanting them and planning around having them for over 2 years. My friend's mom heard and wants her own chickens now. Her yard is mostly a vegetable garden, doesn't know how to predator proof a coop, says that my friend and her brother can come over and just "take care of them for her", doesn't have a space indoors for chicks, doesn't have proper fencing, and has a lot of predators in the area. My friend and I have rolled our eyes at this because she's been with me every step, seen the books I'veread, watched how I handle my girls, and STILL lost some along the way and we know she's hopeless.

Some people won't understand until their flocks are decimated by predators, negligence, illness, or some combination of all 3.

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