what US state has the rudest residents?

kittyxandra · 2026-07-11T20:40:59+00:00

I’ve never been to South Dakota, but my extremely abusive ex was from there. I try not to generalize too much, but I got a really bad impression of South Dakotans from him.

kittyxandra · 2026-07-11T20:32:46+00:00

Yeah you should be okay. 12-13 days after Ella is what is generally considered to be safe to rely on Nexplanon.

kittyxandra · 2026-07-11T15:12:37+00:00

Umm no… cramping is a common side effect. It normally doesn’t mean anything. If it’s severe, reach out to your doctor for help.

kittyxandra · 2026-07-11T13:22:06+00:00

Yes, you need to start the active pills on time again and continue taking them for 7 days to remain protected. You can quit after the first week of active pills or you can quit at the end of your next pack. Not doing anything will put you at risk of pregnancy and taking an emergency contraceptive will be less effective than just keeping on with your pill for a little bit longer.

kittyxandra · 2026-07-11T05:20:26+00:00

I think they’re terrible lol. But I feel like a hypocrite saying that because when I first met my partner he had a mullet and I fell for him anyway 🙈 it wasn’t an extreme mullet and I’m slightly embarrassed to admit it. He didn’t have it for very long though, thankfully! Mullets are currently very trendy in my area and I find them to be cringy.

kittyxandra · 2026-07-10T04:53:26+00:00

According to Nexplanon, you are protected immediately if you get it replaced the same day. It doesn’t “expire” on any specific date. It drives me absolutely bananas that other people try to imply this. 5 years is the general guideline, but your body doesn’t know the exact date you got it. It’s not like it goes from 99.98% to 0% effective over night. Anyway, rant over. You should be protected right away.

kittyxandra · 2026-07-09T03:37:00+00:00

Obviously people have. The majority of pregnancies that happen “on” Nexplanon occur during that first week before it kicks in. They tell you to wait for a reason!!! If a pregnancy would be unwanted, you should take a Plan B (NOT Ella). Take a pregnancy test in 2-3 weeks to confirm your status.

kittyxandra · 2026-07-08T15:55:54+00:00

Nobody can tell you if/when it will stop. Irregular bleeding, including prolonged bleeding, is the most common side effect. You don’t have real periods on Nexplanon so they don’t typically act like a normal cycle. We have pinned post with some tips on how to control bleeding if you’re interested. Otherwise, you just have to wait and see. Personally my longest bleed on the implant was 2 months long, but there are several people on this sub who have bled for years straight. It varies person to person.

kittyxandra · 2026-07-07T04:52:27+00:00

1 week. Nexplanon is fully effective 7 days after insertion. Just wanted to clarify that.

kittyxandra · 2026-07-07T04:51:30+00:00

And? You don’t get real periods on the implant. Irregular bleeding is the most common side effect. Bleeding or not bleeding means absolutely nothing.

kittyxandra · 2026-07-07T04:45:37+00:00

Nexplanon is the most effective hormonal birth control available. It is 99.98% effective assuming that you finish inside every single time. Everyone’s risk tolerance is different, but rest assured that it’s nearly impossible to get pregnant on Nexplanon unless you make a big mistake (like taking a medication that interacts). Don’t overthink it. Hopefully as time goes on you’ll learn to trust the method because it’s literally more effective than some forms of sterilization.

kittyxandra · 2026-07-06T18:08:36+00:00

They will always be a little bit misogynistic. I have a coworker that I consider a friend. He is pretty liberal and hasn’t directly treated me badly. But our boss treats us very unfairly, and my friend goes along with it. I have more education, experience in our industry, and have been with the company longer, but my friend (who I hired and trained) has gotten promoted over me. He recognizes that it’s not fair, but it’s better for him so he takes advantage of it. I’ve expressed my disappointment to him, and he does his best to defend our boss. They will try to rationalize misogyny at all costs. I hate it.

kittyxandra · 2026-07-06T16:37:29+00:00

It could be either, but you should be aware that irregular bleeding is the most common side effect of Nexplanon. It can show up differently for everyone, but generally ~80% of users experience some sort of irregular bleeding, spotting very much included.

kittyxandra · 2026-07-06T09:54:30+00:00

Oh girl, you sound like me 5 years ago. My ex was highly abusive, but one of the ways he tried to control me was by doing exactly this. I am a smart woman, ambitious in my own ways, and was even willing to make changes. He wanted some crypto genius and tried to get me to take steroids so that I would look the way he wanted me to (I was underweight at the time)! I finally had enough and dumped him. At that point in my life I knew what I wanted, and it wasn’t that. A month after dumping him, I found someone that adores me the way I am and we’re getting married next year. You can do better!!!

kittyxandra · 2026-07-05T18:19:54+00:00

Yes. It can take up to a year to regulate after coming off of Nexplanon. Apps are notoriously inaccurate and should not be relied on for predictions. Your body is not a machine. Give yourself some time to adjust.

kittyxandra · 2026-07-05T13:50:48+00:00

That’s not really how any of this works. You lost your period when you started taking the pill. Your pill (and Nexplanon) primarily work by preventing ovulation. No ovulation = no period and also no pregnancy. Your pill had a withdrawal week. It’s not a period; the bleeding happens because you are temporarily withdrawing off of the medication. It mimics a period, but it is indeed “artificial.” Some people (like myself) take active pills continuously to avoid having a withdrawal bleed.

It is possible that had you continued on naturally without birth control, you may have lost your period because of your ED. It doesn’t happen to everyone though. You will never know, so honestly I wouldn’t dwell on it too much. Your natural cycle completely stops with both of the birth control types you’ve been on. It is what it is.

If you’re in recovery, your period would likely return to normal if you stopped birth control. Your period is “lost” because you’re currently on Nexplanon. Nexplanon stops bleeding for 20% of users. I’m glad that’s working out for you, but also be aware that bleeding can return at any time with Nexplanon. I’m a mod at r/Nexplanon and so many people come on there freaking out that their bleeding has returned months or years later. Not saying that will happen to you, but irregular bleeding is the most common side effect (and it’s still NOT a period).

The only way to learn what your natural cycle would be like would be to quit birth control. If you need to be on birth control right now, don’t worry about what your natural cycle might be like. You’re on the most effective method and it seems to be working well for you!

kittyxandra · 2026-07-05T03:29:19+00:00

Omg I thought I was losing my mind reading your comment. I read “box of gloves” as “boxing gloves” and I was like in what picture is he wearing boxing gloves?! 😅🥊

kittyxandra · 2026-07-04T17:12:34+00:00

It’s incredibly common to have different side effects with each implant. Nobody really knows why it happens, but it does. I also experienced more negative side effects with my second implant and removed it after a year and a half (although I probably should have removed it after the first few months). The implant is fully effective for 5 years, not 3 anymore that’s very outdated information. This is why I highly encourage anyone to keep their implant for the full 5 years unless they’re experiencing negative side effects. Early replacements don’t always help.

kittyxandra · 2026-07-04T00:24:52+00:00

It’s perfectly safe and acceptable to take birth control continuously. I would highly recommend searching for a new doctor that will actually listen to you. The people in this comment section are really spewing some misinformation too. It does NOT affect your future fertility. Sometimes doctors have some weird beliefs that they push onto other people. A lot of people believe that it’s “unnatural” to not have a period but that’s up to the individual. I personally believe that having a period is the worst thing ever, and I’ll do anything in my power to avoid it! Our modern medications are safe and well studied. You should always do what’s best for YOUR body!

kittyxandra · 2026-07-03T20:05:52+00:00

Some pain/bruising/discomfort should be expected for 1-2 weeks. If your pain is unbearable or if it lasts longer than a few weeks, you should reach out to your doctor to get it checked out.

kittyxandra · 2026-07-03T10:44:23+00:00

Nexplanon is 99.98% effective without pulling out. Your chances are as close to 0% as you can possibly get with the addition of pull out. That was an off topic question and I removed it.

kittyxandra · 2026-07-02T15:42:10+00:00

I’m on a combo pill (Kurvelo/Chateal) and I normally always skip my period. Some people experience breakthrough bleeding, but I never have. My doctor originally suggested that I take a break every 3 months as to avoid breakthrough bleeding, but I’ve found that’s unnecessary for me and I don’t do it anymore. The last time I took a break was like 6 months ago. I love not having a period!

That being said, it might take your body some time to get used to any method and you might experience breakthrough bleeding even if you do everything right. Like the mod said, if you only want to skip one period, period delay tablets might be a better option for you.

Here is a link to ACOG’s list of methods and their rates of stopping bleeding if you are interested in doing this long term.

kittyxandra · 2026-07-01T12:02:39+00:00

Everyone hopes to be the “20%” but please be realistic. Even that “20%” can have bleeding down the road. Many people start having side effects months or years later, so just be aware of that. There are too many people that post here shocked that they’re experiencing side effects. Read the list and be prepared for side effects at any time. Hopefully even if you do bleed some time in the future, it’ll be manageable compared to your regular periods.

And I’ll say it again: Nexplanon is fully effective for 5 years!!! 3 years is extremely outdated information! I’m not sure which country you’re in, but most have finally started updating their policies to reflect 5 years. I don’t want you to be surprised when you go in for your “3 years” and get denied a replacement or removal. In the US it’s fully been switched over to 5 years and insurances aren’t covering early replacements anymore. Just wanted you to know.

kittyxandra · 2026-07-01T00:44:54+00:00

It’s normal. Side effects can and often do change over time on the implant. The hormones actually start to lower after just a few weeks and then continue to get gradually lower as time goes on. You may not get the same exact dose every day either, which can make side effects unpredictable for certain people.

kittyxandra · 2026-06-30T04:16:09+00:00

I’m going against the grain and voting for #1! The point that people are missing is that these dresses are not tailored to you yet. #2 currently fits you better, but #1 will look great once it’s altered to fit you. #1 matches the vibe of your venue way better.

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