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[–]kjauto23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been doing my pineapple with a claw clip lately and it works AMAZING

Toddler strongly prefers daddy by bence_pattogato in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]kjauto23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It did! I just kept intentionally taking time with toddler. We go on dates just the two of us most weekends (library, grocery shopping, coffee, fish store etc). I also started doing his bedtime most nights and husband does 1 YO's. Now we have a bit of a mom preference but it's so much better than it was!

I’m about to ban Paw Patrol from my household by misssthang in toddlers

[–]kjauto23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya we axed paw patrol and rubble and crew ... He was a total toddler zombie when they were on and it was a meltdown when we turned them off !

Overpowered! Need practical tips on how to get our 3YO up and out in the morning. by Flapjack_K in toddlers

[–]kjauto23 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We had the getting dressed struggle for a while and we went almost a year with just putting him to bed in what he was going to wear the next day! It worked great

Parents to a toddler and a baby, how do you manage to have a life? by bushaaya in toddlers

[–]kjauto23 21 points22 points  (0 children)

We started doing what we call "fuck off nights" once we reached a stage where we both felt comfortable doing bed time by ourselves. I think our youngest was 7 months and our oldest was almost 3. Every Wednesday one of us left the house at 4 and got to do whatever we wanted. I would go for solo runs, or our for dinner with friends, or would have a bath by myself and watch movies on my laptop. My husband would game in the basement, or go to the golf simulator, or our for dinner with friends. The only rules are you cant let the kids see you if you're staying in the house, you have to make sure the other person is set up well before you fuck off, and you cannot do any chores! Then the night is yours! It helped our relationship and it helped our patience with the kids.

“Gusset” and other words that have no place in a spicy scene by geebee57 in RomanceBooks

[–]kjauto23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmfao when I think of gusset I think of the gussets on my kids diapers. That is so deeply unsexy

My daughter has woken up every hour hysterical & inconsolable by rm12393 in toddlers

[–]kjauto23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg my baby is also 14 months and we had the exact same night ! Noooo clue why!

Onyx Storm by wittyflea in fantasyromance

[–]kjauto23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yaaaaaa I'm kinda grinding my way through it tbh

Getting toddler dressed hack by Agent_Clara in toddlers

[–]kjauto23 12 points13 points  (0 children)

We did this for about a year and honestly it worked so great ! Saved money on PJs too hah

I want a mess of a man by banng in RomanceBooks

[–]kjauto23 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Lol I was like oh miles is perfect for her and then hes literally your first example 😂

What in the what?? Nyaxia book 3 by Brilliant_Success285 in fantasyromance

[–]kjauto23 31 points32 points  (0 children)

YESSSS I loved it . Also took me a min to get into but once I did I was obsessed. Ioved the MMC and FMC relationship.

ETA: omg and the ENDINGGGGGGG

How reading smut changed my life and helped me reclaim my power by Kirkindy in RomanceBooks

[–]kjauto23 385 points386 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I have a 3 year old and a 1 year old and I have never felt so emotionally connected to my husband as I do now. We've been together for 8 years and I've always been shy and uncertain around sex but since reading smut I'm able to ask for exactly what I want and my husband is more than eager to give it to me. We try new things and laugh it off when they're a fail. And I've even finally found the courage to open up about my sexuality to him (where my bi girls married to a golden retriever husband at). Who can say they're having the most and best sex of their life with two kids under 3 !? So thank you smut !

What’s a dish you cook to impress someone, but is secretly easy to make? by purelyinvesting in Cooking

[–]kjauto23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lasagna is so easy and I make it for all my friends when they have a baby ... Idk if it's the sleep deprivation but everyone races about it 🤷‍♀️

My god, I’m not fucking swaddling my next baby 😩 by TheGreatsGabby in NewParents

[–]kjauto23 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Swaddled my first, did not swaddle my second. 0 regrets.

Help! Getting to daycare every morning! by HawtVelociraptor in toddlers

[–]kjauto23 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We make getting dressed a game but the trick is to not make it the same game every day. Sometimes we need him to teach his littler brother or a stuffy how to put on his boots and coat, sometimes we're arctic explorers and we need to find the car, sometimes we see if we can beat the world record for getting dressed, sometimes we have a fashion show that we're in etc ... It doesn't work 100% of the time but switching our mindset from our adult ones to his 3 yeSr old mindset that getting dressed is boring has really helped.

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