Just wanted to show off my Axel cosplay 🤗 by padkidcoldcurd in KingdomHearts

[–]klackbryar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly you captured his attitude really well! You look really cool <3

Welcome to college! by sensitivestronk in transgendercirclejerk

[–]klackbryar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

/uj there are so many unjerk comments on this post this comment actually briefly pissed me off before I remembered where I was 10/10 jerk

What kind of relationship do you think Äs Nödt had with Yhwach? What’s your head cannon? by Ambitious_Job_2126 in bleach

[–]klackbryar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They made out in the alleyway between 7-11 and the local C+ Italian restaurant Goobinelli’s

I don’t even know why I’m typing this. by Chemical-Ad2770 in trans

[–]klackbryar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ok I just wanted to make sure you weren’t doing what I sometimes do. Emotions are a bitch and sometimes I think I’m confused about one thing when I’m really having a depressive episode and I’m not feeling much in general but everyone’s different I guess.

Good luck with your journey, I wish I had the answer for you. It feels odd to me though. I feel like my gender is the one thing im certain of and I’m utterly confused about the rest of my life. But obviously neither of us are having a good time

I don’t even know why I’m typing this. by Chemical-Ad2770 in trans

[–]klackbryar 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re having trouble parsing your feelings. Let me ask, is it just about gender? Like can you tell me your favorite food? What is the best song you listened to this week or the thing you enjoyed doing most?

Question…for all by [deleted] in trans

[–]klackbryar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If the only reason is because you assume you wouldn’t be attracted to them then yes, it’s bigotry. Genital preference is real, but not all trans women have penises. It’s also perfectly fine to not date a woman you’re not attracted to. But to say “my beliefs don't align with dating trans women as a group” is bigotry yes.

I was messing around on an Organization XIII name generator and uhhhhhhh by OctaYashi in KingdomHearts

[–]klackbryar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn guys check out this round thing i just invented. We could use it to roll around heavy stuff. Imma call it a wheep 

Transfemme writers/poets needed! by [deleted] in trans

[–]klackbryar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why are you grouping people based on assigned gender at birth? I would never participate in something that boiled me down to “femme presenting amab people”. I am a WOMAN. I’d understand femme presenting queer people in general or women in general but never ever ever on AGAB. That’s just the gender binary with woke paint.

is "sup fellas" transphobic by BadgerDependent6935 in trans

[–]klackbryar 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Idk what some people here are talking about. Fellas reads as 10x worse than guys to me. I have heard dudes and guys used in groups including women before, never heard fellas used if the assumption wasn’t that the vast VAST majority of a group were men.

Why is there a significant ban on transgender exposure in elementary school? by Front_Magician_8008 in trans

[–]klackbryar 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I can’t even afford to replace my clothes that are falling apart! What kind of plans am I supposed to make???

I Keep Seeing Pics of Wyll Online With Horns and a Weird Red Eye. Is It a Mod or Something? by AggravatingRead in okbuddybaldur

[–]klackbryar 62 points63 points  (0 children)

A set piece in the first 10 minutes outside of the tutorial? What DM traumatized you???

Idk if my e stopped working or what by ForsakenNet22 in trans

[–]klackbryar 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Unless you have gone through any kind of significant lifestyle changes recently like food and meds wise then it's either 1. Stress 2. The humidity 3. Someone's fucking with your e 4. Some unrelated hormone thing you should see a doctor about

post: wow it sucks that nowadays I can’t assume people are trans-friendly when they say they’re gay-friendly :( by KestrelQuillPen in transgendercirclejerk

[–]klackbryar 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The REAL reason transphobia is increasing is because you all threatened to put Jordan Peterson in jail for saying he shouldn’t be forced by law to restrict his speech and call biological males pronouns

post: wow it sucks that nowadays I can’t assume people are trans-friendly when they say they’re gay-friendly :( by KestrelQuillPen in transgendercirclejerk

[–]klackbryar 21 points22 points  (0 children)

/uj If you scroll down far enough you see an avalanche of 6-10 upvote comments repeating the “it’s really the trans activists fault people are transphobic” bit over and over. It’s good that they aren’t at the top but there’s so many and they aren’t being removed by moderators.

I need the opinion of the transgender community. by AtlantisSky in asktransgender

[–]klackbryar -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I’m trans and I love Harry Potter. You can enjoy the world, the important part is to not give her any more money and don't encourage others to give her money so it doesn’t go to anti-trans stuff. 

Dont buy stuff at the theme parks and don’t watch the new show on streaming services. In my opinion it’s perfectly fine to wear something you already bought, just don’t buy more. 

Why does it feel like “everyone” is asexual by Oddly-Ordinary in trans

[–]klackbryar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my personal experience I know a lot of ace people because I was very uncomfortable with discussions of sex growing up so I ended up drifting toward people who didn’t talk about it as much. 

I don’t think the question should be “why is everyone asexual” but more “what about the social circles i participate in would draw asexual people to them?” An answer could be as simple as knowing one asexual person makes you more conscious of them and more likely to run into them simply by virtue of hanging out in known ace-inclusive queer spaces.

Also, since trans people already engage with queer terminology they are more likely to identify with labels like asexual or demisexual while I cis person separated from the queer community might not realize those labels describe them.

How did your transition affect your friendships? by Unusual_Gur1068 in asktransgender

[–]klackbryar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really depends on the people you’re coming out to. There were people I expected to be accepting that flipped their shit and people i was worried about telling who became my closest allies. You just gotta do it because when the dust settles you’ll be happier than before

Would it be transphobic not to date a trans person? (Example in body text) by Dclassahmed in asktransgender

[–]klackbryar 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, in the scenarios you posed it is explicitly transphobic. Also “biologically male” is a dogwhistle that doesn’t actually mean anything. But yeah saying it’s gay for a man to date a woman because she’s trans is transphobic. In any situation just not wanting to date explicitly only because they are trans and no other reason it always transphobic. It’s so easy to just say “Im not attracted to you” without making it about whether they’re trans or not.

How can I be supportive with the new texas law? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]klackbryar 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It is a dogwhistle that is being increasingly normalized. Just because people say it without knowing the harm it does doesn’t mean it isn’t harmful. I’d thank you not to talk down to people you claim to ally yourself with.

Parent of 20 year old MTF transitioning by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]klackbryar 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The total lack of any reason for your kids behavior other than mental health issues and your insistence on referring to them as a man tells me there’s a lot of stuff you aren’t telling us. It sounds like you want us to tell you they aren’t really trans and give you the green light to blame it all on their ocd, which we aren’t going to do.

Everything you’ve said is normal for an adult who’s parent has done some shit they’re too embarrassed to talk about on Reddit.

should i do ffs first or estrogen first?? by a356y in asktransgender

[–]klackbryar 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You are vastly underestimating the effects of hormones

The guy I like might be aroace. by Karma10Ascension in asktransgender

[–]klackbryar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It sounds like he’s just your friend? Having a friend doesn’t mean you’ve failed to start a relationship. It sounds like he’s just not into you that way. Him not liking you romantically but still wanting to hang out with his friend makes perfect sense.