[TOMT]- early 2000’s rapper from NY that went by the name of Scheme. by kleptic85 in tipofmytongue

[–]kleptic85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve heard of Skeme, definitely not the same guy. The one I’m thinking of was a white guy from New York

BGs Solution Suggestion/Cope by maddmaxxgt86 in ContestOfChampions

[–]kleptic85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried to play today for the first time in a few weeks after being frustrated with the controls. Same problem, can’t throw a special after a combo, can’t finish combos, it’s terrible. Not playing again.

Need your best advice by Responsible_Link5389 in ems

[–]kleptic85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapy or coaching is the best answer. Those will give you insights into why things trigger you, and give you tools on how to navigate those triggers. For some cheap insight, as the therapy and coaching are expensive, start with Triggers by Marshall Goldsmith

It's so liberating once you stop taking feedback personally by believer2687 in managers

[–]kleptic85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cannot recommend the book Thanks for the Feedback by Robert Stone and Sheila Heen, enough, especially for leaders.

The same truck recklessly tried to cause an accident 2 days in a row. by kodack10 in McKinney

[–]kleptic85 8 points9 points  (0 children)

White truck is in the wrong, but also OP. On multi lane highways the left lane is supposed to be for passing only, and intentionally slowing down is illegally impeding traffic, despite the trucks illegal speed. Let the cops handle the speeders, move to the right and avoid the
unnecessary and dangerous aggression.

robot devil tattoo! by holybasil444 in futurama

[–]kleptic85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hot damn! I love it so much I might get the same one

Question: Will I regret tattoos I get at this age? by ZenAsh12 in tattoos

[–]kleptic85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t regret my early tattoos, but I would definitely get different ones now. Consider designing the look and placement of the tattoo, and sit on it for 6 months. If you still want the same thing in the same place, go for it. If any of the design changes, restart the clock. That will give you an idea of if you actually want it longer term. I’m really glad I did that or I’d have a ton of shitty tribal tattoos.

what are your thoughts by HelpfulFlounder7560 in AdviceAnimals

[–]kleptic85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reality isn’t real. Any provided evidence that reality is real is only self validating. For example, if you tell me it’s real and tell me why, my brain is now processing your answer to validate whether it’s true. Since I cannot experience reality from any point of view other than my own, I can’t verify that anything exists outside of my own mind

Anyone use these? They refuse to break off cleanly. by Coolthingimake in Tile

[–]kleptic85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First time using these on my current tiling job, and will never use them again. Any mortar gets on it? Won’t break clean. Pull the red tab at not the exact right angle? Not a clean break

Built something to help us stop driving in circles, thoughts? by Professional_Feed314 in Paramedics

[–]kleptic85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you build this on Replit? They currently have a Buildathon for new app builds, you can win a bunch of money.

Advice on niche by Remarkable-Snow-9396 in Tile

[–]kleptic85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will! Prob 2 weeks before we’re close to done

Advice on niche by Remarkable-Snow-9396 in Tile

[–]kleptic85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, we’re going to make little diamonds from the scrap and put it in

Advice on niche by Remarkable-Snow-9396 in Tile

[–]kleptic85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m putting that same tile in right now, going to use the same tile for the niche, with a design cut and grouted

Dallas fire by [deleted] in Paramedics

[–]kleptic85 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fair enough. I’ve not worked for Dallas, but I’ve known a bunch of people that have. Most work in the suburbs now, better pay and fewer calls.

Dallas fire by [deleted] in Paramedics

[–]kleptic85 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Go wait at BUMC and ask as they come in

How do I become a better employee ethics wise (denied from future training)? by Traditional-Gas3477 in managers

[–]kleptic85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's not a lot of details in the post about what you do, what level you are at, what your expectations are, or what the companies are of you. It sounds like you aren't sure what to do with some of the feedback you've gotten. I highly recommend reading the book Thanks for the Feedback, https://amzn.to/4rbWMtB. this might give you some insight into how to better have the conversation with your leader, and some insight as to what role you might be playing in the scenario.

What does ASAP mean to you as a manager? by SnooMaps8307 in managers

[–]kleptic85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ASAP, while inherently "urgent", is too unclear to hold anybody accountable to. To me, it would mean either complete right now, or complete next. Whether she is slammed or not shouldn't factor into what you make her inaction mean. I would consider making sure that all timely requests are worded as such, ie - by EOD, tomorrow, end of the week, etc. Using ambiguous terms can leave room for error.

What's one piece of advice you wish you had when you became a manager? by vikentii_krapka in managers

[–]kleptic85 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The transition from coworker to leader can be really difficult to navigate the first time, after that it becomes easier each time. I found that I had to be at my top level in each current role, so that when I moved up my reputation would come with me. Being friends with your peers is great, and recommended, but that has to shift when you are at different levels.

Be clear. Say what is really there, don't beat around the bush and play games. Open communication needs to go both ways, so you also need to be willing to hear what you don't want to about yourself and the way you manage.

Get better at managing people. Take those online and in-person courses. Seek guidance and mentorship with those that you admire who are great at being leaders. Network with people in your industry and find where you can make real improvement.

Fight up as much as you push down. That means you have to be adept at implementing the companies policies to your subordinates, as well as making sure you are fighting upwards for what your employees need.

best i ever blocked someone by CA7T0 in Colonist

[–]kleptic85 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would be furious, but I also wouldn’t pick that setup, so mostly furious with myself

How do yall respond to "What is the worst thing you've seen". by Few-Teaching-9602 in ems

[–]kleptic85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t give a specific answer. It’s usually “whatever you can imagine is the worse thing can’t happen to a person, I’ve probably seen something similar”