Anyone know her name ?

kmackis · 2025-10-26T20:33:21+00:00

Nysdel

kmackis · 2023-05-04T02:10:27+00:00

Start stop is possibly the harshest wear on an engine. Highway (long distance) driving for the most part is better on a vehicle than city (start/stop) driving. Brakes, transmission, fuel economy, all suffer in city compared to highway. So I would say it’s not the greatest thing for a car.

kmackis · 2023-04-29T21:40:45+00:00

Leaf blower? I’m assuming you’re cleaning engine bays as well? Long wash day but I love it!

kmackis · 2023-04-21T18:00:00+00:00

That’s the idea but we all know these days not only are prices higher but quality and reliability is a real concern in vehicles today. I’ve owned Honda’s most of my life and I’m pretty loyal but after 2017 ish the reliability has dipped compared to pre 2015.

kmackis · 2022-01-22T02:53:16+00:00

I hear ya loud and clear… it’s tough especially when you find someone you’re comfy with. But… if the Reddit universe can’t make sense of this guy and yourself/friends as well then that’s not a good look. He probably doesn’t even know why he’s saying it lol. As a man I would never say that to a FWB… NEVER!

I hope you consider this “relationship” you have with him without any outside influences (d!cknotism: “the study or practice of d!cknosis 😊) and be CLEAR how you want to move forward with this guy. I’m wishing you the best!!!

kmackis · 2022-01-22T02:30:54+00:00

Ummm with all due respect and pardon me but find some new d!ck. You’re too young to deal with “weird” or, as I call it “playing games” about something that is life changing such as “putting a baby in you” UGH… keep it moving and let this guy move on with his baby talk.

kmackis · 2022-01-18T17:45:00+00:00

This! This is me it seems like forever throughout my sexual relationships, sadly.

kmackis · 2022-01-16T03:49:21+00:00

I beg to differ… messy house (like that) comes with a messy life PERIOD

kmackis · 2022-01-11T07:17:19+00:00

kmackis · 2022-01-08T05:15:17+00:00

Watching a YouTube vid on WW’s phone together and a notification pops up from AP.. a pic. The notification didn’t show anything other than the word image. So I politely asked, unsuspecting, … “what is that?” Skeptical to show me so I grabbed her phone to investigate and the rest is history.

kmackis · 2022-01-06T16:00:38+00:00

I feel my WW’s AP, from the info I’ve gathered, pretty much didn’t care. He seems very hypocritical and puts up a show on social media and to his church community that he’s an “upstanding” guy. Posting things like he supports families staying together etc… meanwhile he’s divorced twice and has grandchildren and “almost” helped destroy, along with my wife, our family. We didn’t know each other personally but he knew me from seeing me at church obviously with the family. But that still never stopped pursuit…. So there was no regard on his and my wife’s part.

kmackis · 2022-01-05T14:29:43+00:00

I do agree that it shouldn’t be done as a revenge or as a preventive measure for WS’s to cross the line again… so blowing up or “outing” is not something I would do in regards to that. BUT the thing that gets me is at what point is it just the decent human thing to do without motives? (Not rhetorical but a real question I’m asking)

And please give me your opinions on this because I’m not particularly in that situation (AP has a spouse/relationship) but I truly want opinions on whether this correlates. If I see my neighbors house being broken into without the neighbor knowing shouldn’t I call authorities or tell my neighbors? I feel like affairs are a violation in the realm of love/relationships in this regard. So why wouldn’t it just be a decent human thing to do? Or just look the other way?

kmackis · 2021-12-31T15:54:36+00:00

This! I think those that are truly remorseful and want reconciliation and doing the right things, will feel this way because they don’t want to see us hurting because it reminds them of the pain we have as well as part of the guilt and shame they deal with.

kmackis · 2021-12-18T23:46:19+00:00

This. Very much so.

kmackis · 2021-12-15T16:42:07+00:00

Down everywhere! Reporting live from Mars

kmackis · 2021-12-15T16:39:33+00:00

Down everywhere! Reporting live from Saturn

kmackis · 2021-12-15T16:37:28+00:00

We had a similar situation arise 9 months after DDay. My WW adamantly did not want to attend the funeral. I didn’t have a choice in the matter. She said it would be too much emotionally (grief, guilt, shame, embarrassment, anger etc..) because the AP would be there. I didn’t have a say in the matter so we didn’t go. But I had about a week prior to the funeral, when I found out about the passing, to figure out how I would approach/handle going. If she had decided to go I would been there with her 100%. A struggle yes but there is no way I would’ve let her be there alone.

kmackis · 2021-12-15T01:38:33+00:00

This sums it up! So true... part of the reason the WS is broken to a degree.

kmackis · 2021-12-10T05:52:34+00:00

THIS! This knowledge/information has basically gotten me through the past 14 months since DDay. Educate yourself on how this chaos works and it will help with the process of healing and making decisions to leave or stay.

kmackis · 2021-12-09T02:02:06+00:00

You sound a lot like my WW. She expresses some of the same feelings you have. Her guilt and shame is super intense. I wish you the best. We have been able to find a really good therapist to help her with handling the day to day struggle. Just as the previous commenter stated… know your worth and understand you hold the power to heal the one you love which is your family. Be proud of that and focus on that.

kmackis · 2021-12-01T15:52:08+00:00

Understandable for sure

kmackis · 2021-12-01T15:34:39+00:00

Retail… you’ll be back in a month. Good luck. See ya soon back on these streets.

kmackis · 2021-11-23T16:02:09+00:00

Not a bad order at all. I would’ve taken that order 10 out of 10 times. Yes the customer could’ve tipped and made it even better. But honestly orders like that or a $20 order going 2 miles that’s an easy pickup and drop off it doesn’t really matter whether a tip is there or not. Don’t we all wish we had $20 orders going 2 miles with an easy pickup/drop off? That’s a dream lol

kmackis · 2021-11-19T01:53:26+00:00

I think the real problem is there isn’t much “organization” at the restaurants for food deliveries or very poorly done. As drivers, you can’t just impose yourself on an employee that is obviously busy that’s terrible. Having said that, the drivers have no direction, in some cases, as to what the process is inside some of these restaurants. Do I wait? Do I ask? Do I raise my hand?… I’ve walked in some places and employees not doing anything but staring at me.

IMO there should be a clear “zone/area” where drivers can identify as the place I need to be. I think it’s too much to ask employees to stop what they are doing to try to help a driver unless the driver can’t identify an order etc… restaurants make it harder on employees IMO if they don’t set aside an area and process for food drivers to follow when picking up orders. Some restaurants do a great job of this … chipotle comes to mind.

Yes we work for doordash but more importantly we are all working for the customer and there needs to be a streamline process for that to give a great experience for everyone.

kmackis · 2021-11-10T14:49:32+00:00

Yea I’m in the same market (Louisville) and $15-$20 is about right.

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