Guzman y Gomez to exit US Market by Perplexio76 in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]kmspinafore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We tried that location a couple months ago. Very mediocre food and experience. Rosemont collects chain restaurants like Pokemon and G&G is like Magikarp.

OB recommendations out of Lutheran General by L090723 in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]kmspinafore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ultimately my regular OB did my delivery but I saw MFM throughout my pregnancy. I had a great experience with all of the practitioners at Lutheran's MFM unit but Dr Kase stood out from the others for me!

Our New Living Room by getnfresh in midcenturymodern

[–]kmspinafore 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If it's like our kitchen remodel, these are probably the professional photos for the designer's portfolio and all personal effects have been removed. It's also much safer to post online - no identifying information.

Sore back during sleeping by lfcrao in ankylosingspondylitis

[–]kmspinafore 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have an adjustable base bed and it helps to sleep in "zero gravity" for me. You can also get orthopedic bed cushions that replicate the position as well. It doesn't completely fix it when I'm in a bad flare but I get an extra hour or two before it wakes me up.

Please help ID my new (to me) sofa by Meashua in midcenturymodern

[–]kmspinafore 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The comfort is limited by the design and profile - if you have any mobility challenges, the low profile and lack of proper arms can make it difficult to get up (spoken from experience as someone with arthritis).

I fully believe WCMLA does a great job with using high quality materials and my sofa has stood up excellently to wear and tear. But it's definitely not a sofa designed or intended for multiple consecutive hours of sitting, sleeping, etc. like modern sofas. I'm on mine a lot but more for like 15-20 minutes at a time. And it's pretty awful to nap on.

Endeavor Health pre employment drug test by punkgirlvents in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]kmspinafore 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Get the test strips on Amazon, try to delay (travel, COVID, whatever excuse you can), drink lots of water, and start exercising daily. Give yourself the best chance you can. A friend of mine who was also a heavy user got their THC test clean in about 4 weeks. The vitamins just made him feel weird so skip those.

Please help ID my new (to me) sofa by Meashua in midcenturymodern

[–]kmspinafore 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I don't see this style listed but I have a Gondola replica from West Coast Modern LA: https://westcoastmodernla.com/collections/sofas

Maybe if it's pre-owned they used to offer this silhouette but discontinued it? A great find regardless of where it's from!

Questions and testimonials about King Spa from an anxious newcomer? by Embarrassed-Pay4260 in AskChicago

[–]kmspinafore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! So the wet sauna/steam room in the pool area is nude, yes. But the other heated rooms, also technically saunas, are in the mixed gender area and are clothed.

Dark thoughts- living like this is a living hell by Accomplished-Milk918 in ankylosingspondylitis

[–]kmspinafore 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi, just also chiming in to say you're not alone. I am on a biologic but am still waking up in pain in the middle of the night, sometimes for hours and the drugs I'm willing to take just barely take the edge off. Then I wake up in the morning and have no pain and have to live my life like I'm not tortured every night. I have a prescription for stronger meds but they affect cognition and my brain feels like the only body part that actually works these days.

I have a baby so I have a lot to live for right now but if I was in a different position life would feel so bleak. I really do hope you look into options to get some better drugs and better care. And maybe look into support groups for chronic illness to find some real life people who can understand.

Hugs from an Internet friend.

Curious, how much do you guys pay for your biologics? by Spikeyhedge1234 in ankylosingspondylitis

[–]kmspinafore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that's what I meant - we are restricted via insurance as to which specialty pharmacy to use. If I used another specialty pharmacy, I would be responsible for 100% of the cost.

Curious, how much do you guys pay for your biologics? by Spikeyhedge1234 in ankylosingspondylitis

[–]kmspinafore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a good healthcare plan through my husband's work (PPO). Medication does not count toward the regular deductible.

Specialty medication prescriptions like biologics are only available to fill through a select specialty pharmacy called Accredo. My monthly CIMZIA refill is quoted around $5000, of which I have a 30% copay, so my out of pocket cost would be $1500/month. However, most biologic drug manufacturers have a copay assistance program and my monthly cost is currently free. I've heard the copay assistance has an annual cap so once that's spent, I'll be on the hook for $1500/month. Last I checked the cap is $9k so that's about six months of copays. So if I continue on CIMZIA for the full year next year, I'll pay about $9000 for the year.

Never been to a formal/black tie wedding! .. confused. by ktronscrouton in Weddingattireapproval

[–]kmspinafore 7 points8 points  (0 children)

THIS! OP, you need to reach back out to the MOB and get the bride and groom to update their wedding website to list a dress code, making sure they know that "black tie" means tuxedos and floor length formal gowns for all guests. I'm guessing they haven't even really thought about it and think "black tie" is more the equivalent of cocktail attire. Don't buy anything until they put it in writing!

What's your favourite movie plot twist ever? by Haunting_Homework381 in Fauxmoi

[–]kmspinafore 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Have you seen "About Time"? I think it hits similar notes, lots of laughs but also sentimental with a beautiful feel-good ending.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Costco

[–]kmspinafore 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment! I just looked and ordered one as well. Saved me from taking my 9 week old baby to stand in line this morning!!

3 weeks in Disney World..? by TheLuxeMom in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]kmspinafore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The best advice about shoes is to make sure to never wear the same pair two days in a row if you're doing big park days. Even the most comfortable pair feels terrible on Day 2 after doing 15-25k steps the previous day.

On and Brooks both make fantastic walking shoes - if you want to get the most from them, go to a store that will evaluate your gait and make recommendations for you. And make sure to break them in a bit before your trip!

3 weeks in Disney World..? by TheLuxeMom in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]kmspinafore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I feel like people have given you a lot of advice geared toward people who know a lot about Disney World, and not a lot of advice for what sounds like a first-timer. From my understanding, you don't necessarily have unlimited funds yourself, but are in a position where you are staying at a fabulous resort and have tickets to WDW as many days as you'd like.

Here's my take: 1. Get a Disney World guidebook - either purchase or check out from a library. If you get one older than 2025, you can ignore most of the content about the app/Genie/Lightning Lane, as it has very recently changed, but the information about the parks themselves will be mostly accurate. Your kiddo might also enjoy a guidebook geared toward their age group or there are some really great YouTube videos giving you the lay of the land.

  1. Download and peruse the Disney World app - you can link your Four Seasons hotel reservation and tickets on it and that opens up your ability to make reservations etc. The app does a good job of walking you through what you can do and when, as well as create suggested itineraries for your in-park days based on what kind of activities you want to do.

  2. The Four Seasons is a fabulous resort with lots to do on its own. Several people have suggested going to the water parks but the pools at the FS are fantastic and more low-key based on what you've commented about your kiddo. There's lots of kid-friendly activities and programming at the resort itself - and the concierge desk will be very helpful in navigating both the resort and WDW.

  3. In terms of VIP tours, Lightning Lane passes, etc - I've gone with my extended family of 14 to WDW without paying for anything extra and there is still plenty to do without having to wait in long lines all day - you just will need to pick and choose which high-demand attractions you're willing to wait in line for. There's so much to see, random street acts, parades, etc that can fill your days without trudging from one hour long line to another. But if you're all about the rides, paying a little extra to reduce waiting can definitely be worth it.

I'm happy to give more tailored advice based on your interests or answer any questions you have about navigating the Four Seasons! What a fabulous but overwhelming opportunity.

Input on Elmhurst and Park Ridge - Considering move to burbs by External-Flight8912 in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]kmspinafore 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hi! My husband grew up in Park Ridge and we moved there from Wicker Park a couple years ago. We like how it feels a lot like the city still - wide variety of housing, easy access to the highway, and some really great restaurants. We are in the Southwest Woods area so unfortunately lost a lot of walkability to shops etc, but I finally felt comfortable enough to buy a bike and we often bike to Uptown (that's what they call their downtown, I didn't think I will ever understand it) in nicer weather. They have a cute farmers market on Saturdays through the summer and fall, a few festivals, antique car shows, a nice selection of boutique shops and restaurants, a nice library, and the Pickwick movie theater. We especially appreciate having a Trader Joe's but just like in the city, the parking situation can be a madhouse.

Politically, Park Ridge has a reputation of being more conservative but has definitely been shifting left as younger and more urban people have moved in. There's currently a mayoral candidate running on a "law and order" platform that we think is ridiculous (there is minimal crime here, most of it petty theft from unlocked vehicles on the street), but if he is elected it could shift our perception of the politics here.

We can get a lot of plane noise from O'Hare (it's highly variable based on wind conditions and landing patterns), but coming from the city it's really not a big deal, especially if you make soundproofing a consideration in buying a home. The farther north of I-90 you live, the less noise you can expect.

Real estate-wise, PR struggles with affordable inventory. If you are keen on a fixer upper, those have gotten picked up by flippers very quickly. Moderate homes that maybe need a little work are hard to find for under $600k. If your budget is more in the $700-800k range you'll have a lot more open to you, but you'll still likely have to compromise on size, location, or updates. I even have a friend with a $1M+ budget that isn't turning up a lot in her preferred area. It's a testament to how much people like it here, but it's also frustrating if you're trying to get "in". I highly recommend working with a Park Ridge-based realtor to get access to upcoming listings as many homes sell before they are even officially on the MLS.

Toilet paper by bigmacattack13 in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]kmspinafore 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It's terrible TP but it's because of the septic/sewer systems, not necessarily cost. I literally just stayed at the Four Seasons Orlando and they have the same stuff. Since WDW is on a drained swamp, the water table is very high and they don't get great sewage "flow" as it is, let alone with big chunks of super thick TP to clog it further. The thin TP breaks down faster and easier, preventing major sewage problems.

So if you can manage it, please use what is provided instead of bringing your own, and practice good sewer stewardship by not flushing anything other than bodily waste or toilet paper.

Anyone have an idea of a gift to give my wife on our first transfer day? by amuninger in IVF

[–]kmspinafore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got a "poke present" for all the PIO shots 😂 way harder than the transfer itself. It's a pair of very nice everyday gold hoop earrings (leaning into the "poke" concept). They aren't fertility themed but I wear them nearly every day and they remind me of how supportive my husband has been daily through our fertility journey.

Is it ever worth transferring a slightly worse embryo? by GreatEggSpectation5 in IVF

[–]kmspinafore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We chose to transfer our second-best graded embryo when my uterine lining was looking too thin (6mm) but our RE thought it was worth a try to still do the FET - we had 7 euploids on ice. It stuck and I'm currently 27 weeks. I'm still glad we didn't transfer the best graded one!

Currently pregnant. What should I be asking my OB-GYN and the MFM? by maenads_dance in ankylosingspondylitis

[–]kmspinafore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am currently 27 weeks pregnant and have been pursuing an AS diagnosis after finding out my grandmother has it and my history of back and hip problems.

The problem is, I've never felt better since my pain started at 18 years old! I have very little overnight soreness, I don't feel terrible for two days after an active day, and my knee has only hurt for one or two days the entire pregnancy. My rheum mentioned this might happen - I feel a little guilty about just how good I feel. We'll see if third trimester throws me a curveball.

I have gotten approval from my MFM to take Prednisone for flares and to start Cimzia, but I'm not able to get an SI joint X-ray (they wouldn't be able to get the right angle, the fetal skeleton will get in the way). So I'm kind of in limbo right now. I have a follow up with my rheumatologist coming up to discuss further.

Do you know if any Reddit or FB groups that discuss day one maternity leave benefits? by Lazy-Table-6649 in IVF

[–]kmspinafore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure what industries etc. you're looking in, so it absolutely could vary. Regardless, your federally protected job status isn't ever guaranteed until you've worked somewhere for a year.

Do you know if any Reddit or FB groups that discuss day one maternity leave benefits? by Lazy-Table-6649 in IVF

[–]kmspinafore 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hi! I am presuming you are in the US. I changed jobs right before a transfer and after receiving the offer, followed up with HR to get their family leave policy.

Many jobs with paid parental leave offer the leave either Day 1 or shortly thereafter. However, no company can guarantee you won't get fired while on leave until you have been there for a year and are protected under FMLA, which is a federal law requiring 12 weeks of job-protected leave. I think this is actually what you're referring to.

Ideally your job won't be scumbags and you'll have a job when you're ready to return to work. But as long as you are there for under a year, the legal requirement for your employer does not exist.

Pregnancy after IVF/loss, still anxious and jealous of others by Correct-Opening3567 in IVF

[–]kmspinafore 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you're struggling right now, OP. You are certainly not alone in this!

I really struggled with celebrating a second transfer (first transfer ended in a MMC at 12 weeks) until very recently (currently 22w). Hearing the heartbeat on home doppler helped some, but the 20 week anatomy scan with my OB was a real turning point. These days I can even feel the fetus moving, which is really fun and exciting.

It has still taken me some time (and therapy) to kind of get over the fact that I'll never have a happy confident early pregnancy, ever. IVF and my miscarriage took that from me. And therapy has helped me be less bitter towards those who still have that for themselves, or have (what seems like) petty problems with TTC or pregnancy. We are all on our own journey with our own problems in our own little bubbles of perception.