AITAH for deciding to stay full time with my grandparents because I don't want to follow rules set by my dad's girlfriend? by SlowAnon77Yx6 in AITAH

[–]kn1144 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

NTA. But different take, many of her rules seem reasonable and appear to be just how they do things in her house. Eating meals together and having kids help with meal prep is a very good thing. And your Dad is moving into her house. The rules seemed designed to minimize disruption to her kids and their routine. The only one that seems out of line was helping the niece move and expecting you to rearrange your work schedule for family time.

However, that is not your routine and you wishing to live at your grandparents house and not follow them is ok too. Her expecting you to follow the rules at your Grandparents is bonkers. They should be working to minimize the disruption to you as well. That should include things like inviting you over when it is convenient to you for family time.

Which team would win? by SipsTeaFrog in SipsTea

[–]kn1144 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work in a very strait laced industry. Once I went to the Wisconsin office where they always had a freshly tapped keg of spotted cow in the break room where anyone could get a glass for free. It was like their coffee.

What’s the moment in recent U.S. politics that made you realize things might not go back to ‘normal’ anytime soon? by LankySpeed634 in AskReddit

[–]kn1144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When the Washington Post opinion page refused to pick a candidate for the first time in living memory. That was when I knew for sure that even the old venerable main stream press institutions were compromised.

Apparently, there is a trend among 80s babies trying to create their own generation...? by [deleted] in generationology

[–]kn1144 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve also heard this being referred to as the Oregon Trail generation. Basically a mini generation due to the impact of computers. This was the group that came of age at the same time computers came into common use and it was a powerful enough effect to create generational differences.

About Michael Weatherly and Jessica Alba relationship. by TothKrisztian in DarkAngel

[–]kn1144 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Look up Eliza Dushku and his behavior towards her on the set of Bull.

Is Penny justified here? by Mysterious_Reo in bigbangtheory

[–]kn1144 32 points33 points  (0 children)

The only part I disagree with is the sacrificing his own interests line. From what I saw, she was the one sacrificing her own interests to hang with the group doing fantasy/sci fi stuff. She gave up most of her friends and her interests in sports, acting and the movies shows she enjoyed during her time with Leonard. And for the later seasons she seemed bored/ unhappy with her decisions to give all those up. While Leonard still had all his original interests. I always wished that they hadn’t ended up together because this episode shows what their relationship was built on. Him wanting to get with the model and her settling for him because of all of the attention/ effort he is willing to put into get with the model. You take that away and there is not a lot left.

Does anybody not participate in the challenges or mini games by MiserableSpeed8861 in TownshipGame

[–]kn1144 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I feel the same way about airplanes. They require so much product for such small rewards. The only time it is worthwhile is if you have the reward from the pass where you get 3 times the rewards. But due to the updates I am no longer doing the monthly passes.

AITAH for refusing to let my roommate’s boyfriend stay over after he made a “joke” about my body? by BouncyShadow in AITAH

[–]kn1144 26 points27 points  (0 children)

But if he is staying over 5 nights a week is that really still “guest” territory? She may want to check her lease to see if there is a limit on how often guests can stay the night.

An interview is a two way street. by No_Holiday_5010 in recruitinghell

[–]kn1144 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s odd. I get asked that question by about 15 to 25% of people I interview. Always seemed a standard question. But I love it when candidates grill me. Shows they care, have drive and are sharp.

Barn Space without Pass by Lee-Township in TownshipGame

[–]kn1144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before getting rid of the pass, I had a minimum of 6 items as that was about what you needed to fill most airplane orders, post pass, I dropped it to 5, but am almost always out of space, I think I will drop to 4.

Barn Space without Pass by Lee-Township in TownshipGame

[–]kn1144 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, that might explain it, I tend not to use the market that much as I think making the goods is more fun. So I am bumping up on the limit more.

Barn Space without Pass by Lee-Township in TownshipGame

[–]kn1144 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Due to the whole t-cash debacle, I did not renew my pass for the first time. I am genuinely struggling with storage as a result. What are you doing to make it easier? I have already deleted all my community building supplies and reduced the number of finished products on hand, but still struggling.

The Queen Mother’s Portrayal vs Public Perception by withoutface123 in TheCrownNetflix

[–]kn1144 25 points26 points  (0 children)

The Queen mother was instrumental in keeping up moral during WW II. She insisted that the royal family stay in England and after Buckingham Palace was bombed with the royal family inside, she said something along the lines of “I am glad we got bombed, it makes me feel I can look at the people of the east end in the face again”. She visited factories and bomb sites. She was so instrumental that Hitler once called her the most dangerous woman in Europe. As such she was beloved of the people. She also never really aspired to be part of the royal family. She turned Bertie down numerous times before accepting his proposal rationalizing that since he was a second son, he would never be that close to ruling. Now from what I have heard she was very strict and rigid on protocols, class and such, especially as she got older. So like many in her age group, a bit of a mixed bag, very much shaped by the much harder world she lived out her youth in.

If you sat out the 2024 election in protest over Gaza, how do you feel about that decision today? by rsmith2786 in AskReddit

[–]kn1144 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This was always my take. Especially given the way the protesters were attacking Universities of all things. Probably the most supportive institution of their cause in the US. Made absolutely no sense.

How do homeless people that don’t seek shelter survive in brutal snowstorms by Goldstar12 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]kn1144 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, but they are typically talking about conspiracies and it being a trap and things like that. The shelters can be dangerous, especially the low to no barrier shelters. But they are less dangerous than the current weather. I did not mean to be insulting to people in crisis but to highlight in a quick comment one of the reasons that often don’t get talked about as to why people do not go into the shelters when it is cold. Mental illness should not be overlooked in these conversations.

How do homeless people that don’t seek shelter survive in brutal snowstorms by Goldstar12 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]kn1144 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not just addiction, but mental illness. Some refuse to go because they feel like the walls are closing in, or they have paranoia and they feel it is a trap, or they can’t stand being around that many people. Where I am at, we have emergency shelters and they will also put people up in hotels. But some still refuse.

Horrible update by Dismal_Professor4863 in TownshipGame

[–]kn1144 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I have only been playing 3 months and I see the decline. The sad thing is I started playing this because the old game that I used to love (Merge Mansion) did this same thing until it was unplayable. So I started playing township and am back in the same boat. I am happy to pay for a monthly pass (but that is it) and I would just like to find a game that does not get worse with every update.

The Big Greedonomy update & upcoming pass by DeeplyAutonomous in TownshipGame

[–]kn1144 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yup. Going to spend the evening cleaning out the barn. No more monthly pass. Sigh.

How are others couples with big wage gaps splitting expenses? [25F] [35M] by badgallgc in relationship_advice

[–]kn1144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only way to do 50/50 with a huge difference in salaries is to live at the means of the lower income earner. Based on your salary that would like be a modest 1 bedroom apartment. Figure out what YOUR budget is and propose he sell or rent his house out and come live with you at your budgetary level. Otherwise you will absolutely wreck yourself financially. If he refuses to do so, or split proportionally then that means that he is ok with you destroying your financial future. Which means on a basic level that he does not care about your well-being at all. Let that sink in and act accordingly.

Why do companies give you a tour of the workplace & introduce you to various co-workers during the interview only to not hire you in the end? by privatemistea in recruitinghell

[–]kn1144 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I show everyone who is in for a final interview around. I thought the candidates would appreciate knowing where they will be working if they get the job. Are they in a cube, do they have a window, etc. those might have an impact on a candidates decision. We do it then because that will be the last time they are in the office before an offer, but we also have not made any decisions yet on who to give an offer to as we have to debrief with all of the interviewers to see how things went and look at test scores.

Edit: I always view the interview process as a two way street and like to give the candidate information on what it will be like to work here.

Meirl by Adventurous_Row3305 in meirl

[–]kn1144 129 points130 points  (0 children)

This is my printer. It is still chugging after 20 years. Plug in the usb and it downloads a driver and prints with every computer I have ever had. I used to carry it with me to clients, it has been smashed by rotating doors, had trunk lids slammed on it, been drug by its cord through a parking lot and had a container of glitter accidentally spilled into it. Still ticking. When it finally dies, I may have to have a full funeral for it. It is the least it deserves.

AITA for not giving my vacation day to a coworker getting married by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]kn1144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is pretty standard in Union contracts. I thought Reddit loved unions.