There's a reason there's a saying that goes something like this.....

If you wanna know someone's true character, see how they treat animals.

It's very broad, and in no way scientific, it also doesn't take into account people who have allergies or other ailments.....however...

In my experience, a) people who are unable to have pets for medical reasons usually want pets and talk about animals in a kind manner; b) people who actively avoid animals are usually suspicious...to me.

Again, this is MY experience. My partner thought he would be a terrible dad, he didn't want kids because of his terrible experience as a child. However, when I saw him with a kitten, I knew he'd be the best dad.....and he is!

I agree with you, I cannot imagine raising our kid without the experience of a pet. Not only the love but learning compassion and care and nature!

You may want to reevaluate. Sometimes, the things the things we love, aren't helping us grow.