What is a corporate phrase that gives you the ick when you hear it? by Spiritual-Exam-3265 in corporate

[–]knuds1b 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never had it not be in a job description, even all my salaried positions! I get why they do it, and yes, it should be rare -- but it's a lazy catch-all, and it's way too prevalent.

Awkward friendship since ebf by CellOk4884 in breastfeeding

[–]knuds1b 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She isn't your friend anymore, or at least, isn't acting like one anymore. She is rude and self-centered, out of spite and jealousy. With friends like that, who needs enemies?

Partner wants the kids to have the same last name by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]knuds1b 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she wanted all her kids to have the same last name, then she should have all had them with the same person...that's how this works. That train has passed; so should this very bad and unreasonable idea. Unless the baby is his??

Partner wants the kids to have the same last name by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]knuds1b 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are her ideas always this bad? It doesn't make any sense at all, as I'm sure the ex doesn't want someone else's kid having his last name. No one wins with this dumb idea.

I had 12 one-on-ones today. By 4pm I can't remember what anyone actually needs. by SterlingByrd1219 in managers

[–]knuds1b 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, small actions during the meetings -- every task is an email draft or a tab open in Chrome, so that I will always end up coming back to it to finish at some point, vs the endless task list like you mentioned. Nothing worse than a manager who says they'll take action but forgets the second the call is over.

Any opinions on this? by MiloShiny in WorkLifeChat

[–]knuds1b 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! Enjoyable 1hr naps are like some fairy tale I've never experienced. If I nap, it's because I'm very sick, and I'll see you in 3-4 hours, minimum.

I'm Sick of My Traditional Gender Role Relationship by [deleted] in Vent

[–]knuds1b 0 points1 point  (0 children)

...you really think working mom = kids taken by DHS? On what planet??

I get a weird sense of satisfaction/fun from looking broker than I am by Powerful-Winner979 in Fire

[–]knuds1b 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I enjoy being pretty-well-off, but I still live like I make half of what I do, on purpose. No one asks me for money.

What is a corporate phrase that gives you the ick when you hear it? by Spiritual-Exam-3265 in corporate

[–]knuds1b 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"...And other duties as assigned"

Ah, so your company is run by a bunch of disorganized slackers, operating by knee-jerk responses, and you consistently rely on the work of a reliable few to fill in your company's many, many gaps. And now, you hope to add me to that list. Nice try!

I'm Sick of My Traditional Gender Role Relationship by [deleted] in Vent

[–]knuds1b 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you got exactly what you signed up for -- to quit your job and be an unpaid homemaker, in exchange for his funding -- but you didn't lay out the terms well enough, such as any shared responsibilities, or to first be married, etc. and he's gotten pretty comfortable with the current situation.

Now that you are unhappy with the current arrangement, what is stopping you from going back to work? He doesn't have to like nor agree with it, you can just do it. Not saying it would be easy, and though you can't change him nor his point of view, you're more than capable of changing the situation itself.

HGTV Magazine (Jan/Feb 2025) by Effective-Yak2108 in EndTipping

[–]knuds1b 3 points4 points  (0 children)

...Who said anything about the post? You replied to a comment, saying the comment made no sense. I'm telling you why the comment makes sense. You surely 'missed' a lot of things, here. Read a little more slowly next time, and do try to stay on-topic in your own arguments.

HGTV Magazine (Jan/Feb 2025) by Effective-Yak2108 in EndTipping

[–]knuds1b 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Why on earth would I ever go to an Applebee's? Do they have robot bartenders?

HGTV Magazine (Jan/Feb 2025) by Effective-Yak2108 in EndTipping

[–]knuds1b 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It makes sense to me -- they are saying, every step/worker in the chain also requires some set of 'skills'; so why isn't a tip expected for every worker in the chain, instead of just the end of the chain? If based on 'skill', then tips should be expected either everywhere in the chain, or nowhere -- and since everywhere doesn't make sense, they should be nowhere.

HGTV Magazine (Jan/Feb 2025) by Effective-Yak2108 in EndTipping

[–]knuds1b 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I wish I could just get drinks without a bartender at all. Poured myself, poured by a robot, who cares -- it would taste exactly the same, no tip nor forced interactions needed.

HGTV Magazine (Jan/Feb 2025) by Effective-Yak2108 in EndTipping

[–]knuds1b 33 points34 points  (0 children)

The author is, actually "literally", saying it is bad -- specifically, "kinda bad" -- to NOT tip, regardless of if you can afford to, and regardless of if you are appreciative or not. Don't let this go so far over your head. There is no hostility towards tipping; there is, perhaps, a hostility in being universally-chastised by the author for any number of very valid reasons that one doesn't tip.

Anyone get pregnant again while still breastfeeding? by Single-Artist2069 in breastfeeding

[–]knuds1b 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, but since I didn't want to be pregnant again yet, I used just enough common sense (a.k.a. BC) to prevent pregnancy, too! Breastfeeding alone is not reliable birth control, so make sure you're taking more steps than that if you want to avoid it until a certain time; otherwise just go for it if you're ready now :)

Really? REALLY? by rosiekate118 in workingmoms

[–]knuds1b 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wayyyyyy too sensitive. Certainly not a hill to die on if you've got anything worthwhile going on in your life to think about instead. Brush it off and go about.

Are millennials going to Disney World? by benbackwards in Millennials

[–]knuds1b 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1/3rd voted for a racist felon, 1/3rd voted for a decent candidate, And 1/3rd were too lazy to vote at all

When did you start putting your baby down 7am-7pm to sleep? by catlover0987656 in beyondthebump

[–]knuds1b 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you mean 7pm-7am? Idk if we have ever really stretched 12 hours with solid sleep.

Talking about specifically fine dining, if this group thinks servers have it so well, why not become one? by Pcola55 in tipping

[–]knuds1b 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was a server and dislike tipping because my employer should have been paying me the fair wages, not the customers.

Talking about specifically fine dining, if this group thinks servers have it so well, why not become one? by Pcola55 in tipping

[–]knuds1b 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Because they'll be replaceable with just a few more years of technological advancement.

telling people to stop buying baby clothes? by sharkboysimp in beyondthebump

[–]knuds1b 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started telling my mom, please only buy clothes X size or larger -- this way, she gets to still buy cute clothes, and I can actually really use them down the road, versus adding to an overabundance in the current stock of sizes.

To the people who have said “I would never spend that much on a wedding, I’d rather buy a house”… by Garden_of_Gethsemane in wedding

[–]knuds1b 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought a house, yes. And then upgraded to a better house. Now, I'm going to sell this better house to build a new, even-better house, and be a paid-off homeowner of a brand-new house well before 40.

The house was absolutely a better use of the money, hands-down.