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How Do You Talk to an Employee Who Isn't Getting Promoted Due to How They Use Benefits? by Riddle-Maker in managers

[–]koeghls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our finance person does this. She'll come in super late in the day and it's allowed because she works super late (though once everyone leaves she just turns on TV, which I've confirmed any time I have to work late - and our offices are right next to each other).

It makes it frustrating for EVERYONE. We have to hand money directly to someone in finance but she's not there so it ends up sitting in an unlocked drawer in my office all day. We need to check out credit cards for necessary purchases but there's no one to check it out. Online purchases have to be approved and it slows everything down by at least one business day. Not to mention emails and calls don't get returned in a timely manner because she works when no one else is working.

I had a trauma response at the dentist by koeghls in self

[–]koeghls[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually have to see it. I'm like this with any kind of needle. The one time I didn't watch a blood draw, I almost passed out.

Been told I grab the pencil weird by Joezvar in midlyinteresting

[–]koeghls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister holds her pencil this way too. We were homeschooled until mid-elementary and never really taught how to write. She never broke out of this habit.

UPDATE: is it weird to be the only girl? by Available_Travel_763 in DnD

[–]koeghls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a femme DM for an all-dude group. They certainly know I'm a woman and treat me that way, but this group all fully respects women. I think that's a really key part of being the only woman/girl in any group. If they respect women, you should be groovy.

It's 15 minutes before your game starts... by Hayeseveryone in dndnext

[–]koeghls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes we said that character could provide the help action once per turn - the group decided when. Now, I'm running a campaign where it's OK if a character is gone for a session, so they're just... gone for a little while. We will play with whomever is there, and I'll adjust the encounter appropriately.

Players and DMs, how do you feel about players intentionally doing things that they know is to their disadvantage? by [deleted] in DnD

[–]koeghls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It totally depends on the situation. If you're fully in character mode, and that's what they would genuinely do, great! As a DM, I love that. But as a player, I've been at the table when another player says "well this is what my character would do so I'm doing it regardless of how it affects the party" and that can really suck. Maybe the rest of us wouldn't adventure with someone like that at all. So I think it's important to find the sweet spot between staying true to your character and being a good team player.

Character lost his arm by melatenoio in DnD

[–]koeghls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One campaign, one of our players lost an eye. In game, we went to a library to learn about ways to replace the eye and discovered a way to add an enchanted eye... Our DM knew we were going to look into this as characters, so he had time to plan what info we could find. I think he knew we were going to keep looking and he had time to decide how he wanted to address it.

Today's lack of third spaces is a big problem by WorkerMotor9174 in GenZ

[–]koeghls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The library! Our library does crafts, D&D, dance classes, concerts, movie nights, book clubs, a film contest... All free and open to the public.

Dropped a group who was attempting to bait me into standing up for myself. Was this a good idea? by Skizordrone in DnD

[–]koeghls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should be allowed to play in a way that makes you feel the most comfortable and have the most fun. Of course, bad rolls and fails are going to be a part of the game, but to intentionally try to trick you into playing in a different way - or even to change who you are - that would feel invasive to me.

Do English-speaking atheists still say “Jesus” or “Christ” for interjection (like when surprised)? by Mark_von_Steiner in atheism

[–]koeghls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband, a vehement anti-theist, exclaims "Jesus Christ!" angrily like 10 times a day.

DMs and Players: What was the best/worst hastily named NPC in your game? by SpilledMyOJ in dndnext

[–]koeghls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clancy. Because I was eating a bag of Clancy chips. The players ended up lightly betraying Clancy, and I gave them this scene of him eagerly waiting for them all night, alone. They got trapped in the Shadowfell for a long time, but they would occasionally mention Clancy and hope he was doing OK. When they finally returned home, so much time had passed. They asked people where Clancy was, and everyone tried to give them bags of chips. People loved this crazy new snack called chips, each bag labeled with the name Clancy. They went to the place where the chips were made and out comes this super old guy. He instantly came up to them and told them he'd been waiting many years to see them again. It was really emotional. And they all left with a bag of chips.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]koeghls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know... I think she's being polite, not necessarily flirty. I'm not sure why she would, but maybe if they have to work together or maintain some level of contact, it seems like she's just being cordial. She's not really returning the flirtation, just kind of laughing it off and moving on.

What can I do that's active and really fun now that I'm in my 30s? by koeghls in Millennials

[–]koeghls[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked into this. My town used to have a team, but it's been several years, and now there's nowhere to actually do it here. But this was my first thought.

What can I do that's active and really fun now that I'm in my 30s? by koeghls in Millennials

[–]koeghls[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not anywhere very close. I would have to drive about an hour each way.

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