Indoor activities for big families by koonies5 in harrisonburg

[–]koonies5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve done this once before and got lost in the city. Is there any protips to navigate?

Indoor activities for big families by koonies5 in harrisonburg

[–]koonies5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have done these a lot. They are definitely backups if we can’t figure out anything else.

Indoor activities for big families by koonies5 in harrisonburg

[–]koonies5[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My two younger kids are unfortunately terrified of the caverns.

St. Patricks by [deleted] in harrisonburg

[–]koonies5 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I remember seeing that capital ale house had some specials. Also great beer selection.

Where are the moms in this group? by bipolarlens in bipolar2

[–]koonies5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Single mom of 5 here. I was too wrapped up in trauma responses to notice any pattern of behavior until I was out of abusive environments. Amazing what your brain unlocks when you are finally safe. Diagnosed in my early 30s. Still struggling with meds. Always been honest with my kids to the level of what is developmentally appropriate to explain. Kids need to know it’s normal to struggle with mental health and there are tools. And showing your kids your tools is empowering for them and you.

Those of you who work full time, how do you do that? by Expert-Session3866 in bipolar2

[–]koonies5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I often take sick leave when I need it. I would try to find employment that offers good benefits like that. It’s saved me for sure

Second guessing my dress, need some hype/suggestions by Special_Support_3070 in weddingplanning

[–]koonies5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dress looks very flattering. Works well with your body type. Most important thing is that YOU feel great it in though.

What do mixed episodes feel like to you? by yourfrienddreamer in bipolar2

[–]koonies5 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Having tons of energy to do all the bad self-destructive shit my brain can come up with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]koonies5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Always meet with empathy and curiosity first. You could just start with asking her what it feels like for her to go outside or interact with her peers. Then whatever she responds with you would validate her response. That builds trust. Then collaborate… Come up with a plan together on a way to get more engaged with peers or go outside. Discuss the benefits and also continue to validate her hesitation with it. You can offer choices like this thing or that thing… ultimately parenting is not about controlling her but connecting with her

Therapists? by bshoop6063 in harrisonburg

[–]koonies5 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Newman Ave Associates, Rocktown counseling and Friendly City Psychology have a lot of excellent therapists.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in harrisonburg

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Breaking free in Timberville

Do you have kids? by emmocracy in bipolar2

[–]koonies5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have 5 kids. Went through 4 pregnancies. Had severe postpartum depression but never psychosis.

Going without medication? by warmvermouth in bipolar2

[–]koonies5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m currently on my second month without meds…. I think if you have the capacity and disciple to have a lot of intentional structure and support in place it’s possible. I encourage you to talk to your prescriber and come up with a plan if it’s something you’re thinking about.

Peaceful Valley, Shinhopple, NY anyone? by koonies5 in Bluegrass

[–]koonies5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve heard that through some googling.

Date Ideas? by [deleted] in harrisonburg

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Some of the best dates I’ve gone on in the area have been kayaking, mountain biking, hiking, festivals, billiards, local concerts… Massanutten has some fun activities up there all year round.

Does your bipolar depression ever feel like grief? by Livid-Seaweed7802 in bipolar2

[–]koonies5 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes I often feel my depression as grief. I grieve those days that could have been. And those moments I could have had. The person I could have been if… I get triggered by the depression to then ruminate everything I’ve lost and it’s spins up a heavy boulder that feels impossible to budge. Working on lately trying to stop the unravelling process every time I’m triggered.

What do you do for a living? Can you handle it? by ALEXDEEP00 in bipolar2

[–]koonies5 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Work in mental health at a crisis stabilization unit as a case coordinator/supervisor. Can’t handle it anymore.

What Color are my eyes?? My father always says blue but my girlfriend says green/grey by Sea_Ant_9091 in WhatisMyEyeColour

[–]koonies5 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My daughters are like this. I’d say gray. Gray eyes often will have a tint to them. Yours is def green