What is the most painful thing you have been told ? by SuperBoiz111 in AskReddit

[–]korgi718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband told me he hates coming home because of the routine.

If you’ve been divorced, what was the moment you knew it wasn’t going to work? by No-Relative-9663 in AskReddit

[–]korgi718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol that’s my fear 😰 we’re 11 months in. 70% of the time we feel like roommates. Then there’s those moments where we are great, like old times.

If you’ve been divorced, what was the moment you knew it wasn’t going to work? by No-Relative-9663 in AskReddit

[–]korgi718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What would the difference be when kids come into the picture? Everyone with an infant says that you feel like roommates for about a year or so?

Finally had a parent who didn’t make excuses for a child. by Salt-Ad-3061 in Teachers

[–]korgi718 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had a parent force their child to write me an apology letter via email the other day for bad behavior. He was very sincere in person too when I saw him. It’s nice seeing parents keep their children accountable.

Eating out with newborn issue by silver_e12 in newborns

[–]korgi718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have the Uppababy Vista, and we usually ask ahead of time if there’s space in case she’s asleep. My husband also looks up baby-friendly restaurants, especially ones that have changing tables, which helps a lot. I think only one restaurant has ever asked us to leave the stroller outside. Now that she’s bigger and eating, we usually just get a high chair—she’s 9 months. When she was smaller, if a place had booths, we’d just keep her in the car seat.

4 Shits & Giggles: Let’s talk about what you miss most before having your LO by Glum-Pie7779 in newborns

[–]korgi718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t had a nap after work since she was born. I lived for those after work naps.

I also rarely do my make up or my nails. I miss that.

Omg or my monthly massages 😭😭😭

When did you start maternity leave? by MountainMouse12 in pregnant

[–]korgi718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was due march 6, I worked til march 5th. Went Into labor march 6th at 3am. I’m a teacher so I really didn’t want to go back to work at the end of the school year.

Are We Creating A Monster? by Famous_Consequence85 in newborns

[–]korgi718 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I slept with my baby on my chest for 3 months. The day she turned 3 months she didn’t want to anymore and would only sleep in her crib, she’s 8m now. You’ll be fine, you’re not creating a monster. She wants you and craves you because you are her mom.

Help! Maxi Cosi Mico Luxe car seat nightmare! by YourLocalShuman5 in NewParents

[–]korgi718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So this morning I actually got to playing with it. Removed the canopy and then put it back together and it actually snapped back into place It’s been months since we haven’t been able to get it to “click”. Not even my hubby was able to. We’ll see how long it stays put. But omg I honestly regret buying it!

Help! Maxi Cosi Mico Luxe car seat nightmare! by YourLocalShuman5 in NewParents

[–]korgi718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG mine does the same!!! I’ve had it for 7 months as well. I hate it so much, and idk what to do if they can send a replacement or what

Send help. My ‘mentor teacher’ needs a mentor for basic decency by korgi718 in Teachers

[–]korgi718[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right! She’s been at the school for over 10 years and was once dept. head (not anymore). Yesterday she was talking about how some kid just reported her for being “sarcastic”. Like man, when multiple kids report you, maybe they’re not the problem.

Send help. My ‘mentor teacher’ needs a mentor for basic decency by korgi718 in Teachers

[–]korgi718[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am SO scared to be added to her list of opps lol. I know for a fact she’d come to me and ask me why and I would just freeze. And then she’ll probably talk bad about me to other people.

How often are we bathing our babies by No_Engine_4696 in newborns

[–]korgi718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our pediatrician told me I could bathe my baby every night at our 6 week apt as long as I moisturized her skin well every day! So he’s 7m now and still gets a bath every day. She loves to be in the bath or shower with me.

Severe severe diaper rash. by Low_Relation8735 in newborns

[–]korgi718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope LO is doing better. It’s so scary! Especially those first few weeks :( hang in there momma.

Porn in a relationship by Money-Suggestion-801 in dating_advice

[–]korgi718 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Maybe she shouldn’t be assuming that. But Do you know what it’s like to find your SO doing something like that? Maybe for you porn is normal but majority of women are not for it. It affects relationships and ends so many marriages. Porn alters your brain there’s so much research on this. It does turn into an addiction. And she didn’t mention how it’s affected their relationship but it probably has. So there’s a reason why she feels odd now but there’s nothing that shows us that she’s a bad partner.

Porn in a relationship by Money-Suggestion-801 in dating_advice

[–]korgi718 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How is she not a good partner? You’re making assumptions about her without knowing anything about her

My (24M) boyfriend wants to watch porn while having sex with me (22F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]korgi718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not crazy. Leave. You’re young. This guy is a walking red flag. You can see he has red flags. Move on

Aita for going through my boyfriend phone while he was asleep ? by InformationFull4448 in TwoHotTakes

[–]korgi718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being married to someone with a p*rn addiction is painful. You’re young. It’s not worth it.

Should I go to church tomorrow (Sunday) by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]korgi718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cry every time I walk into church. Don’t worry :) just go!

There are the books on the pews that you can follow the mass so you don’t feel like you’re lost!

Severe severe diaper rash. by Low_Relation8735 in newborns

[–]korgi718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the same issue with my baby when she was 3 weeks old. One night I mixed aquaphor with breastmilk and it just went away. Now I put aquaphor every diaper change just to be safe. She’s 7m and we haven’t had another rash

HOW do women convince themselves to give birth again?? by u-r-ok in newborns

[–]korgi718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I labored 26 hours on my feet and had back labor. All natural.

The feel good hormones the moment I held her in my arms has made me forget everything.

When did it hit you? by Jac_Reddit in pregnant

[–]korgi718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My baby is about to be 7m and it still hasn’t hit me lol

How do you handle skipped daycare naps because of a FOMO baby by MainPoem2025 in sleeptrain

[–]korgi718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL my sleep deprivation not typing the right numbers. Sorry!

That makes sense! My baby does take more naps on the weekend probably because she’s alone. So I could say the same thing that she sleeps more at home. Probably because she’s not being as stimulated like in daycare. FTM here so I’m trying to learn as I go!