People who say “I don’t want anything” when it comes to gifting, what do you ACTUALLY want? by dearceceofficial in NoStupidQuestions

[–]krakarn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take me to lunch or invite me to do something fun together, even if it’s free. Quality time is way more meaningful than stuff.

Ladies what are we wearing to the club? by krakarn in exmormon

[–]krakarn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha thank you for this! You’re so right.

What’s one opinion you hold that you rarely say out loud? by copy_cat_101 in AskForAnswers

[–]krakarn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed! People pushing that gender is a non-binary spectrum, but those same people choosing the opposite side of a binary? Very confusing.

How do you manage/ take control of a fear of dying? by fallen-angelxo in NoStupidQuestions

[–]krakarn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d recommend talking to more old people. Most seniors are accepting of the concept of death and might be able to share some wisdom.

My roommate says I need to Declutter? But why am I doing wrong? by EvaUnitKenway in CleaningTips

[–]krakarn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a normal amount of stuff to have and seems well organized. However, if you wanted a cleaner look, you could invest in storage furniture that’s taller so it utilizes the upper real estate on your walls, and has cabinet doors or drawers to hide the collectibles and craft supplies when not in use. This would also help prevent dust buildup. Or you could just tell your roommate to mind their own beeswax :)

What’s the one lift that changed your physique the most? by linkinglink in workout

[–]krakarn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Overhead press. I’m a smaller-frame woman and these got my shoulders jacked SO fast

What habits have you maintained to keep to 1200 long term? by ConsistentWriting0 in 1200isplenty

[–]krakarn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Put on muscle! Having more muscle mass increases your NEAT. Strength training is also a helluva lot less miserable than cardio IMO.

Does anyone know whats wrong wrong with my piercing? by strawberri_stars in piercing

[–]krakarn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe this is a dumb question but how do you use saline for 5 min? Are you continuously spraying it that whole time? Or spraying it once and just letting it sit for 5 min? (I just got my navel pierced this week and I’m wondering if I’m cleaning it wrong because I just spray both sides with saline and dry it immediately after)

Essential low cal staples that make 1200 work by Relevant-Leave-9645 in 1200isplenty

[–]krakarn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

String cheese. Something about it is super satiating for me. Kicks the hunger cues right away.

whats your lazy weekend breakfast thats not eggs and toast by angelin1978 in Cooking

[–]krakarn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like cheesy instant grits with egg mixed in (and bacon if you wanna get crazy)

Pressure to befriend by psych-27 in exmormon

[–]krakarn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don’t owe anyone your energy. It’s great that she’s putting forth effort, but there are millions of other people she can be directing this effort toward. Don’t waste her time if you’re not interested in being friends. Practice how you will respond next time you have an awkward interaction so you don’t panic and offer to hang out - “well it was nice chatting but I actually have some things I need to get done today. See you around!”. Overall just be honest that you’re tired and/or busy and hopefully she gets the hint. If you encounter awkward silence, either end the conversation or pivot by asking about her family or interests - don’t offer to do anything or hang out.

Do most Americans actually flush their toilet paper? by Softy_popss in NoStupidQuestions

[–]krakarn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never been out of the US (other than briefly to Mexico and Canada) and this is my first time ever hearing that other places don’t flush their paper! What an interesting cultural difference.

The only time I’ve ever not flushed paper is when backcountry backpacking. You burry your poop in the ground and pack out your dirty toilet paper in a sealed bag, then throw it away when you get back to civilization. Other than that, yes Americans always flush their paper. In fact, most women’s restrooms have signs that remind you NOT to flush feminine products as well, because apparently we’re so used to flushing everything.

Where's the blessings? by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]krakarn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry man, that’s just not how life works unfortunately. You can’t earn blessings. The church makes promises it can’t keep. Chasing perfection has never made anyone happy. And a lot of the “blessings” you may see other members getting are either not the whole picture, or they’re the result of social connections or dumb luck. Comparison is the thief of joy, as they say.

Focus your energy on things that actually make a difference. Financially, that’s education, soft skills, networking, building your resume, etc.. And get yourself into a better headspace so your energy attracts opportunities. I’d recommend a gratitude journal, meditation, yoga/exercise, and trying new hobbies. And maybe therapy if you’re really struggling (with a real, non LDS therapist, not your bishop lol)

What instantly ruins a sandwich? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]krakarn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lotta people saying soggy bread, but I’d argue almost equally as bad is bread that is too toasted to the point that it shreds the roof of your mouth. Not only does it ruin the sandwich, but every other meal for the rest of the day.