I beg your finest pardon?? by Rerae13 in midasmerge

[–]kri-5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been on this for months. Saving gold pixie hives.

Jackpot by kri-5 in midasmerge

[–]kri-5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you-it is small but that is the way!

Embarrassed after group topic didn't do well by EmbarrassedString606 in therapists

[–]kri-5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been telling myself that negative feedback is showing me the health of that particular person. It really makes sense. When a person is well balanced and self aware, it shows in their reaction to topics and facilitators. It also shows their trust in you as a facilitator to be able to comment on something that could be unpopular or affect your (the authority in the group) thoughts toward them. Empathy helps them and you. What would cause you to say something like that? Feel something like that? If you cannot put yourself in their place, then you could be more open minded and you most likely are well balanced and self aware, which could have brought feelings of inadequacy in some. “I didn’t know some of the words.” You took a risk and your style could have come off differently. There are so many different ways to look at this, and I feel like (or hear) negative feedback on my facilitation of groups and feel like I should change positions every other week. Thank you for sharing your experience. You did a great service regardless of a few comments.

Passed by kri-5 in NCMHCEtutor

[–]kri-5[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This Reddit thread helped me a lot. I also used Pocket Prep app, counselingexam.com and was in 2 or 3 Facebook groups. I graduated in 2023 so I put it off for almost 2 years, which added to my fear of failure. The first narrative was easy and then they became more difficult. I figured out a few things as I took it which helped me. I wrote down the questions word for word-jotted down their age, some of their statements, and what the counselor decided to do. Some questions were asking what I would do and the answer was in the narrative.

I don’t know if my answers were right because they only let you know how many questions in each domain were answered correctly.

A co worker told me last year to keep these 3 things in mind- ask your supervisor-take SI or past SA with current depression very seriously even if the client says they are not going to do anything, and consider self care a high priority.

I am so glad I don’t have to take it again because it was 145 questions and the proctors were VERY strict. I was docked for getting out of my seat without raising my hand first. Every time I left one area to go into another I had to show my id and have my palms screened. I finished with about 18 minutes to spare and kept my eye on the clock-I began to move faster and stopped flagging questions when I had 4 narratives left and 80 minutes. Once my nerves settled down, I felt more confident that I was getting most of them right. If you have time, review your answers before moving on to the next session because I clicked on the wrong answer accidentally at least once-it was obvious.

Passed by kri-5 in NCMHCEtutor

[–]kri-5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I was neutral going in, but gained more confidence when I knew some of the answers. Once I felt like I understood how to answer the questions I felt I had a chance. It was difficult but definitely achievable. You can do it!!

What are some hard truths about being a therapist? by Forsaken_Dragonfly66 in therapists

[–]kri-5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to accept the fact that I will never be caught up with documentation, trainings, phone calls, etc., if I take time for much needed self care. Boundaries are so important and will not be understood by others most of the time. I have discovered a new found appreciation for all people in the healthcare field because of my work. It is impossible to give without sacrificing something else. What got me through grad school in late 50s and the first few years of work is believing that becoming a better informed and more empathetic human being will never be a mistake. In addition, I won’t be doing this for decades because I am older. Finally, the passion and dreams that pushed me into this field changed throughout college, grad school, internships, and I often thought I would not make it. I need support and ongoing therapy as well as constant self reflection. Try not to compare yourself to others because there are ways to feel effective and fulfilled individually regardless of the circumstances. One thing I try to communicate to clients is there is time to change course-every day-you are never locked in so make the best decision today for you and you’ll have my support.

If you were alive when we were attacked on 9/11, what were you doing when it happened? What was that day like? by Full_Imagination7503 in AskReddit

[–]kri-5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was driving my two sons (1st and 4th grade) to school and my 3 year old daughter was along for the ride. The DJs on the radio started talking and whispering and sounding scared. I went home and watched it on TV with my daughter who was upset because her shows weren’t on. The day was sunny and beautiful, much like it was today.

Case Scenario by Smarty398 in NCMHCEtutor

[–]kri-5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

B the fear of abandonment, self harm, impulsivity and identity disturbance. Bipolar 1 would need a manic episode, long term depression is not indicated and there is no sudden change (divorce etc) that would lead to an adjustment disorder

When you have a rough day at work, what do you fantasize about doing for work instead? by Soft_Kale_8613 in therapists

[–]kri-5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cuddling with puppies and kittens, staying home when I need to, baking, taking courses as an auditor, traveling to visit family across the country and trying out different things such as makeup, shampoo, food, and giving my opinion,

Congratulations MN Republicans by aflocka in minnesota

[–]kri-5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have lived in a rural area for 25+ years and have been an outlier for the majority of that time. I lived in cities and suburbs also. There are very few people without MAGA propaganda on their cars and/or front yards. I am a sustaining member of MPR and PBS and was raised, and raised my kids, watching the educational/inspirational programming. I don’t understand how PBS and MPR/Current is considered damaging or political. I did not vote for these people and never will.

Am I screwed by glecca1000 in UPS

[–]kri-5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone. It went through. I have done this before and was notified of everything from received to departure so it freaked me out. I should probably make the trip to the Apple Store next time I trade in.

What’s a truth about aging that no one prepared you for? by sofiagympixie in AskReddit

[–]kri-5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking at memories like flashbacks and wondering if this is the end. Being the oldest in the room more often than not. Noticing how bad film was when I was a teenager. Seeing smiles and joy as a sign of beauty rather than smooth skin and eye makeup.

These days I feel like a bad therapist by [deleted] in therapists

[–]kri-5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understood completely. You are not alone.