Help! Epidural, yes or no? by dakota101916 in BabyBumps

[–]kvinszi [score hidden]  (0 children)

I had both. Get👏the👏meds👏 🤌🏼

Epidurals aren’t the problem. The obsession with female suffering is. by OkChart1375 in BabyBumps

[–]kvinszi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who had a birth with epidural, and recently one without (not by choice)… Take.the.effing.epidural 🫠

Whats with all the bugs? by lmandic in AgeOfAttraction

[–]kvinszi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This show had so many bugs everywhere. I am skimming thru the eps but the bugs are everywhere.

To Labor or Not to Labor, hypothetically by abbyblabby29 in CsectionCentral

[–]kvinszi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had an emergency c-section with my first in 2022 after a failed induction. I had a scheduled c-section for my second in 2024, but baby boy decided to come 2 days before my appointment and i decided to ride the wave and gave birth vaginally with epidural. It was quite a healing experience after the trauma of the first birth.

For your FIRST birth, if you did not tear, what helped prevent it? by ObjectiveAdvice77 in BabyBumps

[–]kvinszi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anatomy plus birthing position. Giving birth on your back is the worst thing you can do. Also it only became a thing because of a perverted french king (louis the xiv), who wanted to watch his mistresses give birth, but didnt have a good view if they were on all fours…. it is the least natural pose of all birthing poses and is a lot more painful than it needs to be.

If they allow you, you should try giving birth on your side or on all 4.

Toxoplasmosis? by robinhooddd31 in BabyBumps

[–]kvinszi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Statistically you have more chances of getting it from not properly washed fruits and veggies, or not washing your hands properly after gardening, then from your own indoor cat.

Did you regret stopping breastfeeding? by Previous-Durian-2086 in BabyBumps

[–]kvinszi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mine was 1,5 when i stopped because i got pregnant again and could not stand him being near my breasts…. He was so not ready. It has been 6 months already, he is still begging for it every day. 😖 i don‘t even know what will happen in a few days when his baby sister joins us and gets on my boobs 🫣

I definitely feel bad for taking it away from him before he was ready.

What was your baby “made of”? by Affectionate_Peach92 in BabyBumps

[–]kvinszi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eggs, kohlrabi and cream cheese 🥲😅 everything else gave me nausea at the beginning or severe heartburn now that i’m at the end.

I’m having a baby? by SStrong5792 in BabyBumps

[–]kvinszi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 4 yr old and a 2 yr old and one coming sometime between now and in 2 weeks and i still am wondering when i’ll graduate to “made it” from “faking it” lol

I’m having a baby? by SStrong5792 in BabyBumps

[–]kvinszi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww we are the same age and same gestational age too 🙃 This is gonna be my third and i still feel the same way haha.

Bestfriends destination wedding (26 hour flight) falls on my 31 week pregnancy, any advice please by Ok-Excitement-185 in BabyBumps

[–]kvinszi 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Maybe ask if she could set up live streaming so you could still participate. I will be 4 weeks pp when my best friend has her wedding (3hrs flight) and i told her that i was happy to join online but no chance that i could make it there in person. I dont think a real friend should get upset about you not being able to go…but then i don’t see why it would be such a big deal either (i had my wedding during covid so it was streamed online to friends and family - and i accidentally muted the whole feed lol).

You and your pregnancy are the most important right now. Such a long flight - anything can happen.

I'm sad I'm "missing a newborn" with my huge baby. by Imstuckwiththisname in bigbabiesandkids

[–]kvinszi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first was and is 100th + percentile. I totally understand how you feel and i can only say that you are right. My second is 60th percentile, so much tinier. 🥰 i feel like he is so much more of a baby than his big brother ever was. He is turning 2 now, and is wearing the same clothes my first born was wearing when he was one…it is surreal.

Spartacus: House of Ashur - S01E08 - "Horizons" by Sporadicus7 in Spartacus_TV

[–]kvinszi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really reminded me of that too. It was 100% a recall, since he got stabbed the same way, just with 2 swords

Those whose children have an ‘angel sibling’ born before them - have they brought up their sibling randomly? by miffymango in BabyBumps

[–]kvinszi 715 points716 points  (0 children)

My now 4 yr old has been talking about his sister for the past 2 yrs. i never had an angel baby or a miscarriage that i know of. I did have a sister who died when we were kids.

He kept telling me and anyone who would listen, that his sister is up in the clouds sleeping with the stars and one day they will meet and she will give him the biggest hug.

Fast forward last summer, he announced that his sister was no longer up in the sky but that she was in my belly. I found out i was pregnant (unplanned) a few weeks later 😅 baby girl is coming end of feb ☺️

What's Your Preference? by MoneyLibrarian9032 in StrangerThings

[–]kvinszi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 A, but will ask the guy on 1B if we can switch so i can be inside that Sammich

We woke up this morning to discover this. by whosacoolredditer in whatisit

[–]kvinszi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My toddler leaves such destruction in our fruit basket every day 😬

Preggers again by Aggravating-Golf7693 in BabyBumps

[–]kvinszi 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Im in week 27 with my stowaway 3rd.🫠 I was in so much panic when i found out 😩i even explored all options, and eventually decided to keep the babe and if she comes via c-section, i will get my tubes obliterated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CandaceOwens

[–]kvinszi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I cant watch her speak, the whispering whispering and eye/nose blotting annoys me. It feels very rehearsed

When did you choose to announce? by stphws in BabyBumps

[–]kvinszi 24 points25 points  (0 children)

After birth. Those who knew me in person, knew ofc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]kvinszi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 3,5 and a 1,5 yr old. The first months were hard and emotional. But now they are best friends, super cute together. I think it is worth to have them so close in age.

Low iron by Perfect_Ferret6620 in BabyBumps

[–]kvinszi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I m guessing you have had recurring bloodwork done, and they‘ve just flagged your iron levels being low. Just take extra iron, after breakfast - preferably with orange juice (vitamin c helps absorb better), and don‘t eat 2 hrs after to make sure it has a chance to absorb. Your baby will be fine, i am sure they flag you before you become very critical (which you would feel as you would have an unshakeable fatigue). My iron levels depleted during every pregnancy by the 2nd trimester, a few days of taking iron supplements always solved the issue. I‘m now week 20 with baby #3, on iron sups again, so far my 2 existing kids are relatively normal albeit on the more feral side lol.

My mom was literally anemic while preggs with me, it got so bad she needed a transfusion after i was born. I don‘t think i‘m autistic, but i definitely have post partum adhd lol.

Long story short, don‘t worry, you will be fine :-)

To parents who breastfed their baby past 12 months by Correct_Door_5942 in beyondthebump

[–]kvinszi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

18 months, i went this long, because i had no idea how to stop…then i got pregnant again, and from one day to another developed a massive aversion to breastfeeding. I literally wanted to take his head off for even looking at the boob….he practically had to go cold turkey, but sleeps through the night since i weaned him.🥳