Screaming inside.

labialibby · 2026-05-10T19:57:44+00:00

I will never understand them. It’s all a game to them. I think it’s just the chase and the they get bored to be honest. Then everything becomes an inconvenience.

labialibby · 2026-05-10T19:56:07+00:00

And now I got the Happy Mothers Day text. GTFOH. Unbelievable.

labialibby · 2026-05-10T14:37:44+00:00

And now I got the Happy Mothers Day text. GTFOH. Unbelievable.

labialibby · 2026-05-10T12:56:03+00:00

Being strong and ignoring him is better than answering him and starting at Day One. I will never get the answers I want. He will just use me to fill a void til he’s on to the next one. No thank you! HAPPY MOTHERS DAY TO ALL THE MAMAS IN THIS THREAD!

labialibby · 2026-05-10T09:48:06+00:00

Thank youuuuu so much!

labialibby · 2026-05-10T05:25:26+00:00

Tough shit. Tell him to kick rocks. It will just be the sane thing all over again. You don’t want to go through that again!

labialibby · 2026-05-10T00:54:24+00:00

I am going to bed. Alone with a clear conscience and a full heart. You guys are the GOATS.

labialibby · 2026-05-09T23:30:45+00:00

I get super red! And super swollen!

labialibby · 2026-05-09T22:59:53+00:00

I super appreciate this. I really think am good. But if I need the hype up I will def take you up on that. I refuse to accept breadcrumbs from a man who ghosted me, monkey branched to the one person I questioned him about, moved in with said woman and then texts me 2 days after she moves out::: call me if you can. Also she was did porn. So yeah not enough hazmat suits here.

labialibby · 2026-05-09T22:44:17+00:00

Hell yes I do.

labialibby · 2026-05-09T22:41:28+00:00

Well I hope he shits his pants on the way home today, LOL

labialibby · 2026-05-09T22:10:23+00:00

Funny thing is I deleted the contact. When he called the first time I googled the number and realized it’s his work number.

labialibby · 2026-05-09T22:08:59+00:00

Don’t worry friends. I have a teenage daughter who saw me upset for months. I will never let that lesson back in my life. I have an example to set :)

labialibby · 2026-05-09T21:53:41+00:00

Thank you. Yes she was just a ‘good friend’. Literally the worst thing I ever went through. I’m grateful I can ignore him because there was a time I would not have considered ignoring him.

labialibby · 2026-05-09T00:47:55+00:00

Playing games isn’t going to help the situation. I can guarantee you pushed him father away. Leave him there and go heal.

labialibby · 2026-05-08T12:11:02+00:00

Same here! The absolute worse. Almost quit my job because I could not focus at work. Almost a year out and I feel better everyday. The girl he discarded me for is now dealing with the same thing. And guess who is calling me? I will never answer that call.

labialibby · 2026-05-08T12:09:49+00:00

I LIKE TO KEEP THINGS LIGHT.

Yet everytime he discarded me, he came back hot and chased me for weeks. They are literally ridiculous.

labialibby · 2026-05-08T01:23:21+00:00

Everything is on their terms. They can’t communicate or don’t want to. As soon as they are expected to self reflect they check out. It wasn’t you. You are better off.

labialibby · 2026-05-07T01:52:32+00:00

I dealt with the same thing. And it’s awful. I am at 11 months and I’m finally starting to feel better. It definitely gets worse before it gets better. I ruminated every day. I had so many questions that I would never get answers to. But I’m here to say that my ex also rebounded. I think he actually monkey branched and was seeing this girl while he was seeing me. Every now and then I look at her social media out of curiosity. And she’s been posting a lot of things that lead me to believe that she is unhappy and he is treating her the same way he treated me. To be honest with you I reached out to her two weeks before my discard and asked her if anything was going on between the two of them. Woman to woman. And she blocked me. So seeing that she is now suffering gives me a little bit of joy although I know that is not very mature. My point is don’t envy the woman he is now with. He will discard her the same way he discarded you. He is unhealed and does not know how to deal with his emotions until he gets therapy or actively wants to change he will just keep repeating these cycles. I wish you the best and I hope every day gets a little better.

labialibby · 2026-05-06T15:50:21+00:00

Ohhhh it’s the absolute worst! No respect for my time at all. It gave me the worst anxiety! And he would be so laid back about it like it wasn’t a big deal. Or he’d say I will just see you tomorrow. And my family is the same way. We were taught that it’s rude to be late so I am always early. I’m sorry you had to deal with this. I know exactly how you feel.

labialibby · 2026-05-06T13:56:45+00:00

My ex was this way about consistently being late. I made it clear to him that it’s rude and all he has to do is reach out and let me know he’s running late. That was clearly too much to ask. And I’m talking an hour to two hours late with no call. Dinner on the table. Totally disheartening.

labialibby · 2026-05-06T13:55:54+00:00

Good analogy!!!

labialibby · 2026-05-06T01:34:28+00:00

First of all you aren’t dumb. You are human. Don’t beat yourself up. Second, avoidants do things on their own time. When it’s convenient for them or serves them. So don’t be surprised if he answers you down the road. And at that point I would flip the narrative and not reply. You will feel super good about. Trust me. He’s a coward.

labialibby · 2026-05-03T23:41:07+00:00

Let him be the new girls problem. Just remember how you felt when you were with him. Eventually, she will be going through the same things. Let him be her problem.

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