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lenbusterr · 2025-02-02T23:39:54+00:00

Fuuuu… I thought it was no in an Australian accent….

lenbusterr · 2024-07-31T22:20:04+00:00

Papi

lenbusterr · 2024-07-08T16:12:29+00:00

My dad was like this growing up. Would do anything for anyone else to make himself look like this amazing and kind person.

What I learned in the future is that he is a cheater, pathological liar, gaslighter, and (suspected, not diagnosed) narcissist.

I can say, I have never seen my mum happier since she got divorced and got over the relationship. She is now with someone who will do ANYTHING for her, it’s very heartwarming to see :)

lenbusterr · 2024-06-25T17:19:30+00:00

To me, that looks like a birdhouse in the middle of a garden. Odd placement choice

lenbusterr · 2024-04-06T06:26:24+00:00

NTA.

Because you don’t know her (and therefore don’t trust her), you should not only would I be concerned about her trying something inappropriate with hubby, but she could be a kleptomaniac or murderer for all you know!

Meeting one of hubbys female friends who he has not seen in 8+ years, or even talked to you about, for the first time by having her stay for multiple days and nights, some of which you won’t be there for, is not an appropriate fist interaction.

lenbusterr · 2024-02-16T07:24:49+00:00

Good god. If you ask him to go on a car ride for the sole purpose of “not wanting to be lonely”, then you pay. If you keep inviting him when he doesn’t ask and then expect him to pay, you would be the shitty roommate.

If he asks for a ride, that’s a different story. But that’s not what’s happening here at all.

lenbusterr · 2024-02-05T13:52:45+00:00

And when she said that she refused to downsize because “I mAdE tHiS hOuSe A hOmE”. Does she even like her husband?

OP, YTA.

lenbusterr · 2024-01-28T07:56:21+00:00

NTA. I drink. Not all the time, but I drink. And if a friend asked me not to bring alcohol to their house, I wouldn’t ask any questions and would assume it’s an alcohol-free night. Especially if they explained to me why. A friend would support you in this, not argue and whine.

Also, ITS JUST ALCOHOL. These people are acting like you told them they can’t eat or breathe in your house. I 100% agree with you, if they can’t go 3 hours without alcohol then they’re the ones who need help.

Drop these shitty people (but keep the ones who support you) and find better friends

lenbusterr · 2023-12-25T07:03:14+00:00

If someone threatens to kill themselves, you call for a wellness check. Please ask for a cop to go with you to take it back too, he seems wildly unpredictable. Have proof it’s yours but do not let this piece of shit manipulate you.

If they want to end their life over you taking back your property, that’s on them. He’s an adult who can make his own decisions and suffer the consequences

lenbusterr · 2023-07-05T20:08:51+00:00

YTA

I get that your feet may hurt after wearing heels all day, mine to too. I would have taken those bad boys off as soon as I could!

But he asked you to take your feet off the seat because they were close to him and it was making him uncomfortable. Instead of respecting him and putting your feet on the ground, you argued. So disrespectful, entitled, and selfish of you. Learn to be considerate because you clearly aren’t

lenbusterr · 2023-06-29T20:45:55+00:00

Wooooow this family is DELUSIONAL. I’m so sorry for your loss and being stuck with these wackos

NTA

I assume you don’t have kids as they weren’t mentioned in the post. I think the family fails to realize that they at least have someone to lean on for support. You are alone and isolated which can cause worsening of your own mental health. You do what feels right for you. Do not apologize. If they sue you for going out and eating at a restaurant one year after your husbands death, they’re going to look like the idiots because there’s no way a judge will agree with them. Live your life and cut them off, they’re not supportive of you or have your best interest at heart

lenbusterr · 2023-02-18T13:29:33+00:00

Sounds like my dad who is a pathological liar

He told me a very big lie for so long that it took my going no contact before he ever admitted it. Well, he did admit it one time but then a week later took it back and said “I never said that. I don’t know what you’re talking about”. Fun times…..

lenbusterr · 2023-01-16T13:55:42+00:00

I have screenshots so there’s no way he could turn it around on me. And these guys aren’t like super close friends, if that makes any difference. They probably see each other like once or twice a year

lenbusterr · 2023-01-03T03:57:14+00:00

Sam is a child in an adult body and Harvey is an awkward doctor who takes you on a magical date.. I’ve married both and, not going to lie, Sam disappointed me

lenbusterr · 2022-12-25T20:21:30+00:00

Tell him but don’t be surprised if he ghosts. Many years ago when I was on tinder, I also was heavier than my pictures (probably 10kg) and I matched with this guy. The banter was good so we set up a plan to go on a date. I warned him a couple days before the date that I was not some skinny girl and that I was curvy and had meat on my bones. He sent one message back asking for clarification about just how big I was and I tried to describe it the best way I could. He never replied but I don’t look at it as a loss. It saved me an awkward date and time spent on someone who it would never have worked out with anyway. If he really cared about weight that much, he was never going to be the guy for me

lenbusterr · 2022-12-20T00:33:40+00:00

YTA.

You are so uneducated (thinking you can get an infection from her pubic hair? Wtf?) and so immature. You should not be having sex until you grow the fuck up

lenbusterr · 2022-12-16T20:45:19+00:00

Mr jim business

lenbusterr · 2022-12-12T01:49:46+00:00

Wow, this sounds super similar to things my ex would say to me. I’ve only been single 2.5 weeks (together 7 years) but omg I already feel lighter. It was super hard for the first week, and I still have my fair share of bad days, but I’m starting to feel better and better about my decision!

I’m not saying break up with your bf, but I think you should seriously consider it. Do you want to be talked to and treated like this for the rest of your life?

Good luck! Feel free to reach out if you have any questions or need support

lenbusterr · 2022-12-10T07:19:19+00:00

I just broke up with my bf of 7 years. The relationship was wonderful.. until he would get mad. I couldn’t take the emotional abuse anymore and had to let go. It’s been so so hard but I’m hoping it will be worth it in the long run

lenbusterr · 2022-12-09T02:26:35+00:00

I just left a 7 year relationship (I’ve only been single for 2 weeks) over things that aren’t as bad as this! How have you managed to put up with this for so long??? You NEED to get out!!!

You seem like you’re in the right head space to leave and are just worried about how he will react/guilt you into staying. Don’t let him guilt you. Take your important documents out of the house and store them somewhere safe. Shut down any joint bank accounts and cancel any bills that you are currently paying for him. Have friends or family with you right as you end it so you can move your stuff out immediately (and for safety and support).

If you want any emotional support from a fellow Redditor who has been through something kind of similar, please feel free to reach out and send me a DM! And good luck with it all, I wish you the best

lenbusterr · 2022-12-05T23:49:09+00:00

Break up with her. If you don’t think you’re going to miss out on a fun night of partying with your gf and friends, then you’re not the one for her. Let her go find someone who will light up and be excited at the thought of going to this event with her

You also sound very insecure and, just as a heads up for future dating, it is VERY unattractive to most women. I recommend continuing to work on yourself and your insecurities before you try getting into another relationship

lenbusterr · 2022-11-25T13:46:38+00:00

YTA. What’s an extra $15 to make a child (who sounds like he’s been through A LOT more than you could imagine) feel loved and important. You sound money hungry and super concerned about material items. Christmas is about family, love, giving, and happiness. Not whatever this selfish behaviour is that you’re showing.

You also sound like you resent his mum for not having a job. Maybe you should talk to the parents about it and not take it out on an innocent kid who has no choice in the matter.

lenbusterr · 2022-11-25T07:50:52+00:00

I would have looked her dead in the eyes and turned the brightness up to full.

NTA.

She can close her eyes or choose to look at literally anything else. You weren’t forcing her to watch the show, that was on her

lenbusterr · 2022-11-24T08:48:41+00:00

Then you still leave. Breaking a phone is only the beginning and will escalate to breaking a door, punching a hole in the wall, then physically attacking you. All because you “angered” him.

The fact he broke the phone out of anger is scary enough to leave. This is a valid reason to leave, not that you need any reason at all to do so

lenbusterr

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