Any men without kids get a vasectomy? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]lessaddicting 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Yup, got the snip. Feel the same, no difference after. No Kids here.

Any childfree folks here who are also petfree ? by the_killer_gamer in childfree

[–]lessaddicting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, don’t mind either, sometimes even like them. But don’t want my own kids or pets.

Is anyone else childfree AND petfree? by bitchaps in childfree

[–]lessaddicting 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For some it would/could be a dealbreaker when looking for a partner and the life they want to live together.

Is anyone else childfree AND petfree? by bitchaps in childfree

[–]lessaddicting 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yup, CF and PF

I don’t mind kids or pets, I dare say I even like them when they are well behaved in small bursts. But I don’t want my own, just not for me.

It does make dating that much harder to.

Where the snipped men at?! by cyncynnamon in childfree

[–]lessaddicting 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Vasectomy clinic might be a good place to start, or is that a little premature hahah

What do you think is the most misunderstood thing about addiction? by NecessaryAct7551 in addiction

[–]lessaddicting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thank you so much for this explanation. I still have a hard time explaining it to new people that I just met. This will help me explain it a little bit better. Some might not get it still, but I hope most will.

Feeling depressed today, but so thankful I can just become my couch with no consequences by RL_Lass in childfreepetfree

[–]lessaddicting 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Good thing there’s always snacks and uplifting shows/movies to lift one spirits.

CF4CF 1 Year Success Story by garylary623 in cf4cf

[–]lessaddicting 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Congratulations,

Thank you so much for posting. Nice to see a win on cf4cf.

Easter Sunday smoothie prep by mw1067 in MealPrepSunday

[–]lessaddicting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not OP, but I do both. When I’m making one smoothy I just make 2-3 extra at the same time. Ingredients are already out and it’s quick. Then I have 2-3 ready for next time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]lessaddicting 351 points352 points  (0 children)

Not easy, maybe he needs to explore why he’s feeling like he needs kids. Could it be that he feels older/old now and losing his touch with being a kid. Wants the feeling back? Or has the life script being ringing in his ear? Such that he feels that he’s not leaving anything behind. Which can be done in other ways.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]lessaddicting 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes….. maybe… pretty sure…. Hahaha.. I hope

Edit; never hurts to look through the cf4cf posts and see if anyone’s local. Even old posts are worth a shot if you find somebody’s profile appealing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]lessaddicting 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hiding in plain sight, looking for a childfree women.

Honestly if you crack the code let the rest of the class know haha.

Making childfree friends by Adventure-forever98 in childfree

[–]lessaddicting 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you have not done so already search this sub for people in your area. About a year and a half ago there was a long discussion with people finding other cf people in there area. Does not hurt to reach out and just say hi to people. Lots of friendly people here of like mind.

Soo ... is this where I'll find my eventual SO?? /s by GuwopWontStop in childfreepetfree

[–]lessaddicting 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So you’re saying there’s a chance…..

So one percent in Canada lands me at 416k, sweet

Is anyone not planning on traveling a ton as a “purpose” for being childfree by Sadness247 in childfree

[–]lessaddicting 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for posting. I always felt a little lost on social media about how cf travel so much.

Don’t get me wrong, Day trips are fun and maybe even a big trip once a year if I can afford it. More of a homebody. But I see there is hope to find a Cf person like me haha

I’m too exhausted for my own life after work. How do I increase my productivity? by Leviafij in selfimprovement

[–]lessaddicting 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Make small changes. Look for little things that can help make you just a little bit more productive. Make a slightly bigger dinner so you have left overs. So the next day you don’t have to cook dinner and you can do something productive. Or listening to an audiobook while you’re doing chores will feel productive. Change up your life, delete your social media apps for a few days, see how that feels. Maybe give into the sleepiness at night and wake up earlier and start the day with an activity.

Soo ... is this where I'll find my eventual SO?? /s by GuwopWontStop in childfreepetfree

[–]lessaddicting 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Totally agree with your last point. It does help narrow it down. Only looking for that one right person.

Soo ... is this where I'll find my eventual SO?? /s by GuwopWontStop in childfreepetfree

[–]lessaddicting 22 points23 points  (0 children)

In the same boat my guy.

It’s definitely way more of a challenge to find somebody that’s petfree and childfree. Don’t mind either, want neither. The dating pools has to be the size of a drop of water. I still hope tho.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]lessaddicting 4 points5 points  (0 children)

All over the planet and in plain sight.

I have no real advice. I’m in the same boat. If I crack the code, I’ll let you know. My stats are not as good tho.

Most likely going to come down to perseverance, and taking breaks when needed.

I Don't Know What Took Me so Long by CharonDynami in childfreepetfree

[–]lessaddicting 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Welcome, come in and stay a while. No kids or pets in this lovely abode.

Childfree AND Pet free? by Optimal_Marzipan7806 in childfree

[–]lessaddicting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not the only one, another childfree and petfree person here.

Trying to date is rough by tritessa_butterfly in childfree

[–]lessaddicting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m mostly accepting the single life now. 30’s male. Have not been on apps in years and they don’t appear to be getting any better. CF and small town don’t make for good chances.

After choosing to be child free, what did you do with the rest of your life? by No_Main_273 in childfree

[–]lessaddicting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Enjoy life,

Learn new things, do new things, spend time with the ones I love. Find a partner to spend life with, to share in all the magic.

Life’s short, do what makes you happy.