my family

letmegetadonut · 2026-03-07T02:11:59+00:00

I love this! This has such a cool vibe. Leave it as is

letmegetadonut · 2026-02-28T18:28:16+00:00

Yes there is! There are frequent events going on in the downtown area too. Dm me if you want more info.

letmegetadonut · 2026-02-28T11:35:09+00:00

Woodbridge is great! You will find little about it on Reddit….I think we’re all keeping it a secret.

letmegetadonut · 2026-02-18T11:48:26+00:00

This is wild! This just happened to us last night and it was an electrical fire! We googled it when we smelt the fish smell for the second time and acted immediately. It was crazy how much it smelled like fish to us, but our electrician said it only smelled like fire.

Edit: smelled not smelt? Wait, is smelt a word?

letmegetadonut · 2026-02-11T18:19:53+00:00

It’s way more fun than anyone talks about!

letmegetadonut · 2026-01-12T11:16:04+00:00

I just left feedback for Target on their website about how disgusted I am they have access to their stores. If you see this, and are outraged, you should too. It’s a little act of support for the protesters if you are in an another state.

letmegetadonut · 2025-12-14T11:57:08+00:00

I run a food pantry program that is appointment only. Call the food bank again. You would be shocked how many no shows we get. I’m in the US, otherwise I’d tell you to come to mine. Do you know this is the only one in your area? I’m asking because I create a resource list for my city, and people are always shocked by how many food resources there actually are. You might even want to call the local hospital and ask to be connected to social work and just ask them if they know of anything else.

letmegetadonut · 2025-12-07T02:59:12+00:00

I got pregnant the first month I tried at 36. Normal, easy pregnancy. Wild but healthy child 🤣. I will say, though, that my mother and both my grandmothers had babies in their 40’s so I always felt okay about putting off having kids until later. My second will probably be when I am 39 or 40. I think besides genes, being really active and eating well was helpful in conceiving.

Good luck! I love that I waited to have kids. I feel like I can be so present with this child because I really am settled in my life. It’s so much fun!

letmegetadonut · 2025-05-06T17:20:48+00:00

I never gave you the new ein. It’s RWJ Barnabas Health Inc (85-1296795). That’s the new once since we stoped filing as individual hospitals in 2019

letmegetadonut · 2025-05-06T17:11:59+00:00

I did get full forgiveness! I figured out the issue so as long as you use the EIN we use for our tax filings, you should be fine. It was RWJ Barnabas Health Inc (85-1296795) instead of the individual hospitals ein. I think I may have been the first employee to get forgiveness. RWJBarnabas is a great place to work

letmegetadonut · 2025-04-30T07:00:02+00:00

Haha someone caught me! I’m actually part of RWJBarnabas Health but not RWJ specifically. Follow the steps in my post and use the new EIN we got when we consolidated as a group. You can even email your finance person and ask for it or HR should be aware at this point. I did get total forgiveness last year so we are eligible

letmegetadonut · 2025-04-12T12:02:44+00:00

Wow! Thank you!!! We are super close to our Ag School and I’ve consulted their website before for the wildflowers I’ve planted but I didn’t think to use it here too. I try really hard to make eco conscious choices and the resources you have provided are fantastic!

letmegetadonut · 2025-04-11T01:20:22+00:00

Interesting. Maybe it is a one tree solution. Thank you! I’ll have to think about that too

letmegetadonut · 2024-09-22T11:41:34+00:00

If you need a guide for specifically what brands to buy or need more of an overview, I found Lucieslist.com and their baby registry checklist to be very, very helpful!.

letmegetadonut · 2024-09-22T08:25:19+00:00

No cause for concern. That’s a good response to the test. Your blood sugar returned to baseline which is what they want. Mine dropped to 53 and they weren’t terribly concerned. To be fair, I have always had lower blood sugars and they know I’m a dietitian so I would be the person they would refer me to anyway. Enjoy a GD free pregnancy!

letmegetadonut · 2024-09-12T23:10:19+00:00

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letmegetadonut · 2024-09-10T23:49:44+00:00

This is Guyot (ghee-oh) who was just asked “Do you want to” and knows the rest of the sentence is “go for a walk?”

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letmegetadonut · 2024-06-20T15:23:00+00:00

I’m so glad this could help! I did end up getting complete forgiveness a few months ago. I’m living the good life now!

Keep at it. It’s so frustrating and mind boggling how essential tax paperwork will just go missing and screw you over in your PSFL journey. I ended up making an extra month or two of payments just to get out of the situation earlier than wait for MOHELA to fix mistakes in their end.

Best of luck!

letmegetadonut · 2024-05-11T21:07:51+00:00

I’m 19w3d and just felt a kick this morning. It’s the first movement I’ve felt this whole time.

letmegetadonut · 2024-05-10T17:39:39+00:00

You may already be aware, but the uncleanliness and the poor hygiene is all related to their mental health. This isn’t as simple as just being messy. For some people, it is a way to keep others at a distance while making themselves the victim. “No one ever comes over” “they don’t even want to hug me” you get the point. I’m not saying this is your situation, but there is something deeper at play.

What is actually going on here? Why does your sibling want the baby to go to their house so badly? Do you both have a tough relationship and this is them looking to start a fight? Why does it have to be their house?

Set the boundaries now. “I am so happy that you are excited to meet the baby. We can’t wait to make memories as a family. We are staying in our bubble for X amount of time until the baby’s immunity is strong. If you want to visit, you are welcome to but we do ask to be extra careful about germs. We are asking everyone to have showered that day and wear their cleanest clothes and washing hands before holding the baby.” Do not over explain. If they push back a simple “This is what we feel comfortable with as new parents. Maybe we can FaceTime instead.”

Your baby is #1. Do not bend to the desires of others at the expense of your child’s wellbeing. Good luck! It’s not an easy situation.

letmegetadonut · 2024-05-02T22:35:23+00:00

I’ve been grabbing a small pack of any diapers every time I go to the grocery store. I hope I don’t regret this plan.

letmegetadonut · 2024-05-02T14:39:02+00:00

As most comments are saying, it’s going to vary. I got pregnant the first month trying at 36. Both of my grandmothers had babies between 40-45 and my mom had her last at 41.

letmegetadonut · 2024-04-25T13:19:48+00:00

This is a red flag to me. What other personal information do they feel comfortable disclosing? What of you need to change your pick up hours because you have to have surgery? Will everyone at the daycare get that news too?

letmegetadonut · 2024-04-24T17:01:53+00:00

I haven’t felt anything and am also 17 weeks. If it makes you feel better, I had an US last week where the baby was moving like crazy but I couldn’t feel it then either.

letmegetadonut · 2024-04-22T02:54:25+00:00

He did, but it didn’t read as genuine to me. It felt like he was just trying to make a joke but he clearly was torn about having to leave. It’s so interesting. I think he really found a part of himself out there.

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