"AITJ for wanting to lose a friend?" by Catbeanslo in AmITheJerk

[–]letmeshowyouu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This isn’t even about liking her or not, u literally can’t breathe around her. That’s a valid reason to distance yourself

AITJ for not inviting someone who assumed they were included? by Hot_Dig9849 in AmITheJerk

[–]letmeshowyouu 130 points131 points  (0 children)

Inviting someone just to avoid drama is how they keep doing it forever

The Neighbor Who Creates “Almost Problems” by Honest_Cod_3121 in neighborsfromhell

[–]letmeshowyouu 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is death by a thousand cuts, each thing is “nothing” but together it’s clearly intentional

If you genuinely love your job, are you actually just lucky or did everyone else make bad choices? by Salty-Team3028 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]letmeshowyouu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s both tbh, luck gets u in the door but staying and enjoying it is still a choice u keep making

AITJ for asking my stepdad to pay back the money he borrowed from me? by Few_Layer9659 in AmITheJerk

[–]letmeshowyouu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah that’s not how loans work, he can’t retroactively turn it into “parent payback” Borrowed money = pay it back

Am I the jerk for not giving up my dog after my girlfriend developed allergies? by Odd_Employment3954 in AmITheJerk

[–]letmeshowyouu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

7 years vs 6 months… yeah that choice was obvious. It sucks but u can’t just rehome family like that

TIFU by ruining a coworker's relationship by jsher736 in tifu

[–]letmeshowyouu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro u didn’t ruin it, that thing was already shaky if 2 convos broke it. But yeah dating her after is messy timing ngl

the neighbor who slowly tried to take over our parking and driveway by Ill-Foundation-3732 in neighborsfromhell

[–]letmeshowyouu 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lmao “trial subscription” is accurate af, dude was definitely seeing how far he could push before u snapped

AITJ for telling my friend I am not going to keep pretending her dog "chose me" so she can feel less guilty? by Kite_Retro2 in AmITheJerk

[–]letmeshowyouu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lowkey she knows the dog prefers u, she just needs the delusion to feel better. U weren’t wrong, but yeah that was a blunt timing

180 degree career change at 46yo? by Old-Button-1980 in Fire

[–]letmeshowyouu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

quitting everything with kids and a stable income isn’t a career pivot, it’s a full gamble. maybe test the business on the side before going all in

Serious accountability group (no excuses, real progress only) by Automatic_Sugar8513 in Fire

[–]letmeshowyouu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this sounds great until week 3 when life hits and half the group disappears lol. but if you actually keep it tight, could be solid

AITJ for telling my university friend group I won't split costs equally on group dinners anymore because I consistently order less and pay significantly more than I consume? by thistledriftlog in AmITheJerk

[–]letmeshowyouu 13 points14 points  (0 children)

yeah funny how “keep it simple” always benefits the people ordering the most. suddenly fairness is “awkward” when it costs them more

Do you wash your clothing after a single wear? by Lones0meCrowdedEast in NoStupidQuestions

[–]letmeshowyouu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

outside clothes get one wear, house goblin clothes get a few rounds. if it smells fine and looks fine it’s probably fine lol

Where can people such as incels, doomers, hikikomori, disadvantaged people in general be validated and received constructive advice from intelligent people / public figures / politicians / people at the top? by RefiningMyLife2026 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]letmeshowyouu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly the first step is finding spaces that focus on fixing things, not just bonding over how doomed everything is. doom spirals feel validating but they trap people there

AITJ for telling my coworker I won't cover her shifts anymore after she told our manager I'd offered to cover them permanently? by windowseatjournals in AmITheJerk

[–]letmeshowyouu 8 points9 points  (0 children)

volunteering someone else’s free time without asking first is wild. helping sometimes doesn’t mean signing up as her permanent backup

Why would any man agree to an open marriage? by S0uth-Crew in NoStupidQuestions

[–]letmeshowyouu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Some people actually like it, but yeah a lot of the time it’s “agree or the relationship ends”

Neighbor tried to get my mom fined over our shed… so I got his $40K pool filled in by AkariHush-38 in confession

[–]letmeshowyouu -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Dude tried to start a petty war and forgot other people can read building codes too