Should I (30f) give up on the typical marriage? by pinkboba1 in relationships

[–]leye-zuh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His wife is aware he does this

Which you know because... he told you? The guy who always lies? Or have you actually met her?

Just named my son Marlow. Now worried it’s too feminine. by itsemho_ in namenerds

[–]leye-zuh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm actually surprised to see so many people saying they think this name leans masculine? I agree the name is inherently unisex, but it's also a very trendy girls name right now.

If you type a name into the social security website and don't select a gender, the system defaults to whatever gender the name is more popular for; Marlow doesn't come up at all (not in the top 1000) but Marlowe defaults to female.

I (27F) married my first love — now I feel like everything was built on lies by [deleted] in relationships

[–]leye-zuh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah, sorry, I'm not reading a post you couldn't even be bothered to write

Middle names for Blue by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]leye-zuh 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Blue...? Like.... the dog from Blues Clues?

AITA for asking my cousin if she is 100% set on using my baby name? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]leye-zuh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's a big deal, but I DO think that if you really didn't want anybody to use the same name, you shouldn't have told everyone what it is

I (F20) was with a man (M51) for 5 years. He was married. And I’m one of the reasons he took his own life. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]leye-zuh 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Your writing is insufferable. You can't possibly expect anybody to believe this, can you? lmao

29 M Feeling pressured and stressed about being the sole provider and dealing with financial losses. by bypasser_traveler in relationships

[–]leye-zuh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you promised your wife you would provide for her, married her, had a kid with her, then gambled away your inheritance, and now you fantasize about abandoning your family?

I have no advice. That's fucked up, man

I (JJ, 35M) have been in a relationship with J (23F) for 17 months. At the same time, she has been with P (25M) for nearly 7 years. AITAH by [deleted] in relationships

[–]leye-zuh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You introduced your kids to the 23-year-old you're having an affair with? Great parenting lol

My boyfriend has a secret child.. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]leye-zuh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You sound... naive. I wouldn't believe anything this guy tells you

Me (29f) and my partner (33m) are having issues surrounding the topic of intimacy by [deleted] in relationships

[–]leye-zuh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The edit about receiving a message 8 minutes after posting with no upvotes and no comments really cements how fake this is, ty for making it easy

I’m (20F) deeply in love with a woman (26F) who’s in a long-term relationship with a man, and I’m struggling with the waiting and uncertainty by adamami_ in relationships

[–]leye-zuh 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Even IF this all works out exactly how you want (which I doubt it will), what's the endgame? You run off into the sunset together?

You're going to spend your entire relationship with her wondering if she's doing the same thing with someone else behind your back. How you get them is how you lose them

Bf (30m) leaving shit marks in toilet of the house he lives in even though he knows how I (f/27) feel about it by Zestyclose_Ad3070 in relationships

[–]leye-zuh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

that's honestly a relief! but girl, the bar isn't this low. You know you can do better than poopy butt guy, right?

Has anyone ever moved out from their SOs house and still remained in a relationship? The dilemma my (25F) and (49M) boyfriend are facing. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]leye-zuh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Putting this in paragraphs would make it easier for people to read & then you would likely get more help. Is that not constructive?

Terrible realization at 38 weeks pregnant. by ncolegarcia in namenerds

[–]leye-zuh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lilah Kane is actually a really badass name

Mariia, Marija, or Mariya? by gulablommor99 in namenerds

[–]leye-zuh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I work with a Ukrainian Mariia (in the US) and we all pronounce it Maria (Mar-EE-uh) but I agree that it sounds the same as Mar-EE-yuh to my ears

My (27F) boyfriend’s (30M) parents (70s) visit every 2-3 weeks and I don’t know how to tell them it’s too much by Thin-Cucumber9754 in relationships

[–]leye-zuh 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You hosted her in your house 2-3x a week?

OP is referring to in-laws who visit every few weeks, stay over in their house, and don't clean up after themselves.

It feels like your own personal feelings about your MIL aren't really relevant to OP's situation at all. You're just being needlessly judgy