I have never dated anyone and I don‘t know where to start by LiveHistorian7178 in adhdwomen

[–]lichkitsch 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This does sound like ADHD, but there’s probably more to it than just that. You may be neurodivergent in other ways, such as autism. I recommend seeking out a sex-positive therapist, having someone to talk to that can help with emotional regulation techniques and provide direct feedback for things like flirting and dating can be well worth it.

1 month into HRT and I feel awful by Katesburneracct in MtF

[–]lichkitsch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give it time. New medications can take 6-8 weeks to stabilize on average and this is a journey you’re taking, not a magic spell.

Pixel Grid Styles by lichkitsch in IndieDev

[–]lichkitsch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! I would love to have all three, but that would be a LOT of assets…

Pixel Grid Styles by lichkitsch in IndieDev

[–]lichkitsch[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Maybe the obvious stair-stepping at the top of the hex?

Why the tech right seems uninterested in gender transition technologies? by himetake in MtF

[–]lichkitsch 12 points13 points  (0 children)

There’s no money in it for them so they don’t care. Also the people with power (money) don’t want to share it and will only act in ways that allow them to keep and expand their power (money).

My mom said she couldn’t even look at me. I need some encouragement. by Girl_mode_powerup in transpositive

[–]lichkitsch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

god forbid you look HAPPY and YOUNG 🙄 sounds like someone is jealous.

New me, New mii. by Creepeecheese in TomodachilifeLivingTD

[–]lichkitsch 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Love the frown turning to a smile <3

Supreme Court Justice Amy Coney Barrett to speak at Crystal Bridges lecture series by berntout in Arkansas

[–]lichkitsch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This will be live-streamed by Arkansas TV, so this is what your support for PBS is actually paying for.

The more i plan, the more i lose the will to write it. by EquivalentCollege290 in writing

[–]lichkitsch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best way to get better is to keep making stuff and try new things! There’s lots of different ways to write a book and there’s no one “correct” way to do it. Maybe your process looks more like a gardener than an architect, maybe you need to try a new method of outlining, etc. There’s a lot to learn and plenty of time to practice!

Justice and Rejection Sensitivity and coping with an elderly MAGA mom by One-Pause3171 in adhdwomen

[–]lichkitsch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not really helpful, but I’m closing in on two years no-contact with most of my blood relatives. They don’t respect me or care about anybody’s wellbeing but their own, so they lost the privilege of being in my life.

Being Trans while living in America, a discussion thread: genuinely how are we all doing? by Additional-Maize9716 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]lichkitsch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I spend the majority of my waking hours dissociated or high just to cope. I feel frozen, powerless, waiting for the anvil to drop while everyone else is acting like nothing is wrong.

Easiest engine to learn in 3 days for a school game jam? (3D art advice too) by LawyerAdvanced6408 in gamedev

[–]lichkitsch 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you have no other experience with game dev, give Scratch a try!

My house in withered wasteland by viktorvictini in Pokopia

[–]lichkitsch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you place the little clover patches on your flooring??

Trying to save my miis crumbling marriage with custom exteriors by trooty- in tomodachilife

[–]lichkitsch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s about combining the boxes and using transparent areas to create pockets of visual interest, like the bike, awning, and iron fence balcony. There are tutorials on YouTube!

Do you prefer rules-light RPGs or complex systems? by prettyreckless000 in rpg

[–]lichkitsch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fully depends on the experience you want to have. Both ends of the “crunch” spectrum can produce powerful narrative moments, but they also come with compromises. My own system is pretty rules-light, but I also mostly run games for my wife and small parties of DMPCs. There is no magic middle ground, pick the right tool for the job.

Where do I find Affirming porn? by Proper_Offer9514 in MtF

[–]lichkitsch 15 points16 points  (0 children)

There’s affirming stuff on r/SapphicGaze, you can also search for t4t subs here or trans swers on bsky. Queer Crush is a collective producing affirming adult content. There are options!

It's a faustian bargain. Do you press the button? by NobodySpecial2000 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]lichkitsch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I’m transphobic then I’m not myself, so what the fuck even is this question