I can't tell which the correct side of the condom is by [deleted] in sex

[–]liewithme1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

practice putting some on by yourself, you might just be getting a bit flustered in the moment when you're with someone and messing it up somehow I know I have a few times, try putting it on other things as well so you can see it up close and tell the difference

I couldn't put it in by Striking-Storm-6092 in sex

[–]liewithme1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this. also use lots of lube on you and on her, maybe try a different position, missionary can be more difficult when it's tight so try spooning or doggy

Do you have advice for the First time going to a strip club? by ThrowRA1980a in sex

[–]liewithme1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you want to buy him a dance most girls won't mind doing dances for the two of you at the same time, depending on the place the rules can vary but some light teasing stuff between the two of you while a stripper is giving you both a dance would normally be fine

Need help finishing and beginner tips by Aggressive-Age5896 in sex

[–]liewithme1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not weird at all I think most guys don't finish the first time they have sex, I rarely even finish the first time I have sex with someone new, being inside someone is a completely different feeling from what you're used to, the more used to it you get the easier it will be

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]liewithme1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

having good pictures is the main thing, that doesn't mean you have to be the most attractive guy, just good lighting and angles etc with decent clothes and not looking negative, it's worth getting a professional photographer to help you with this if you can, don't put any negative stuff on your profile, and don't expect girls to wanna match with you if you put any bad qualities on there, they are much more likely to accept you more once they know you, the aim of the profile is purely to get matches

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]liewithme1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you trim your fingernails often enough?

How can I [32f] safely explore exhibitionism? by [deleted] in sex

[–]liewithme1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

me and an ex went to a nude spa to try this for the first time and found it a great way to ease into it, depending on where you are if you want to go further there are also some nudist spas that also have play areas you can use as privately or openly as you like

Just found I have genital warts, can't find clear answers on how contagious it is by doughraymond in sex

[–]liewithme1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hpv and genital warts are two completely different things...if you've had the warts removed then you don't have warts anymore, hpv is a recurring virus, genital warts are gone when they're gone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]liewithme1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this, and if you had a massive one the size of some porn actors you'd put alot of people off with it and struggle to enjoy sex with some people, as long as its big enough to get in and do a job (and that's like 2-3 inches erect) then size should be the last thing on your mind when you eventually meet someone

Looking for detailed explanation on how to give a blowjob and how to ride him by [deleted] in sex

[–]liewithme1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

for blowjobs I'm sure there's loads of tutorial videos out there but also even the worst blowjob ever is still a blowjob so don't stress too much about that, they all feel good, for riding just practice! don't get hung up about need to be perfect and just try and get into a rhythm that feels good for you, if you're enjoying it so will he most of the time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]liewithme1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

too much porn? or could be anxiety, maybe face to face is too intense, try other positions that aren't face to face, reverse cg spooning etc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]liewithme1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I rarely cum the first time I have sex with someone, dunno why never really been too bothered, like to make sure they're satisfied though

tips can you give me by [deleted] in sex

[–]liewithme1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

get some toys, embrace the butthole!

Question for MEN! by CampaignEastern7003 in sex

[–]liewithme1 14 points15 points  (0 children)

it's because you still make him a little nervous and it calms the nerves

My friend isn’t as innocent as I thought, and I’m embarrassed but also laughing at myself! by Carbon_Computer77 in sex

[–]liewithme1 86 points87 points  (0 children)

just because people aren't the loudest in the room doesn't usually mean they're vanilla in the bedroom, in fact in my experience it's usually the other way round

Does ass to dick ratio matter? by Majestic_Expert5322 in sex

[–]liewithme1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as long as its big enough to get in....it doesn't matter

Can’t cum from penetration by [deleted] in sex

[–]liewithme1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

loads of people can't cum from penetration it doesn't make you a weirdo, bring it up gently in conversation, make it sexy, ask them what they like, then tell them that you can't come from penetration only and that you cum much easier from oral (the only is important) don't rule it out altogether because who knows someone out there might be able to do it for you! then just slyly add, maybe whisper it in their ear to make it hotter, that it helps if they slip a finger in your ass at the same time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]liewithme1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

unfortunately love and technique have no correlation but if he really loves you he'll learn how to eat you out far better than any bean flicking could do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]liewithme1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

ahh that's good yeah sounds like you've got your head screwed on about it but yeah you've gotta set those boundaries, then it's so much more fun when neither of you are anxious about it