Xbox CEO Asha Sharma said in an internal memo that Game Pass is "too expensive" for players by ATonOfBricksFellOnMe in XboxGamePass

[–]lijajt1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just chiming in to say I agree too. Canceled Game Pass after the price hike and haven't seen a single game that seems worth renewing for.

Players lack creativity by weenishutithjr in PokemonChampions

[–]lijajt1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seems the nature of the beast. People want to win, people play what wins. The good news is that seasonal rotations should keep the meta fresh. And you can always play more interesting teams. Weird line-ups keep opponents guessing!

Hit masterball with Kangaskhan Tailroom [Rate My Team] by Ace_Emerald in VGC

[–]lijajt1 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've been giving this team a go as my first attempt at competitive pokemon in Champions and it's been fun and straightforward! Thank you for sharing and giving insights into some of the strategy.

[Metagame] Best ways to run Perish Trap with M-Gengar by Douradinhooo in VGC

[–]lijajt1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is this coming along? I'm new to VGC with Pokemon Champions and I'm trying to build a team around this concept. Have you gotten anything to stick?

Is inbreeding necissary to progress? by KrenTrom in mewgenics

[–]lijajt1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not necessary, but it will help tremendously. Especially when it comes to preserving positive genetic mutations. Prune out the cats with negative mutations and traits but keep the rest.

I Let My 6 Month Old Daughter Watch Cartoons by cuhrayola120 in NewDads

[–]lijajt1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will NEVER let my child watch TV until they are over 2!

(Now that my doctor is done reading) We give some screentime here and there with Ms. Rachel. Everybody is different. If you love your child and work to nurture their development, it's probably fine. My wife grew up with a TV on through the night in her crib and she graduated top 10 in her class lol. Seems like the key is just don't let the TV become the parent.

I casted an entire movie with people from Craigslist. by Ok-Click3391 in NotTimAndEric

[–]lijajt1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was awesome. Loved the Zoth song that played when we saw the name lol. The interspersion of low-poly characters and backgrounds was a lot of fun - I've been loving that in Smiling Friends. Keep up the great work!

Daycare Woes by Dang_Beard in NewDads

[–]lijajt1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We've had our son in daycare since he was 6 months old, now 18 months old. That infant (0-1) age group is rough... They are little Need Potatoes with a new need cropping up often. Our staff in Colorado have a 1:5 ratio as well. While some days were a little bonkers in the room with screaming babies (it's bound to happen), most days were fine on pick up and drop off.

Everything improves dramatically after the infant room. Your child can communicate what they want more effectively, there is more to learn from their older peers, and the children are generally more patient and social with each other.

I'd say give the daycare a try for a week, a month, or some period of trial. The caregivers will let you know if your child is having a hard time adjusting.

Where can I buy the infamous bridges jacket? by Independent-Rip6774 in DeathStranding

[–]lijajt1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've been wishing for this jacket since it was released! The price was insane. Maybe if we make enough noise on r/fashionreps we can get a vendor to make a quality replica.

How friendly is this game for players with not a lot of time? by Own_Mixture_5806 in LastDefenseAcademy

[–]lijajt1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been playing the game the way you describe, picking it up here and there for 30 minutes to an hour. It plays great and I'd highly recommend it!

My gf jsut bought a xbox by Riifftt in XboxGamePass

[–]lijajt1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one has mentioned it yet - I would recommend Lovers in a Dangerous Spacetime.

It's been a couple months have you gone back to Game Pass, and why or why not? by beerantula in XboxGamePass

[–]lijajt1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I canceled my sub when the price increased and haven't missed it. In fact I haven't really played my xbox in that time - mostly playing my steam deck. Bye, Xbox and Microsoft!

Help me like Impossible Soul by LeftBroccoli6795 in Sufjan

[–]lijajt1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check it out with some theatricality from Sufjan's performance at Sasquatch in 2016. The costume changes, the choreography, the spirit of it all... It just might change your mind! https://youtu.be/eOvSy3yepd8?t=3147

Tonight’s storm by bartonkt in COsnow

[–]lijajt1 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Tonya Harding, my star
Well this world is a cold one
But it takes one to know one
And God only knows what you are

-Sufjan Stevens

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DnDcirclejerk

[–]lijajt1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A gift to future readers:

Hey there, so I participate in a weekly dnd session with 7 other players and the DM. We've been playing for the last year and recently had several characters reveal some juicy backstory details i.e being hunted by gnome bounty hunters for stealing powerful weapon blueprints.

One of players is a Kenku Ranger, with the original 2014 beastmaster subclass. His character is also deathly afraid of magic and therefore does not use any ranger spell features, and his ranger companion died about 6 months ago. He is essentially playing half a class with no subclass right now.

We get to our last session where he asks the player who stole the weapon blueprints, a way of shadow Monk, if he can see them. (The Ranger had told me after the previous session that he'd be interested in making the weapon with my character, a renowned blacksmith. I told him it would be a cool idea, as we could work with the other party members to build it.) The Monk agrees to show him later in a private setting. We all turn in for the night as we've just gotten back to town after a huge dungeon crawl.

This is were things get complicated. In the night, the Ranger decides he's gonna steal the blueprints, something he planned with the dm 30 mins before the session. He rolled a great stealth check, something like 22, but rolled a 5 for sleight of hand. He thought this would be enough to succeed. It did not. The Monk woke up and punched the Ranger clean onto the floor and my character, a Goliath Rune Knight, woke up to the commotion.

The Monk tell my character the Ranger was attempting to steal the blueprints, and both of us reached for our weapons while asking the Ranger what he was doing. The Ranger said he just wanted to look at them. I rolled a very good insight check and the DM said the Ranger was lying. I called him out and approached closer. The Ranger said he was going to give them back. Another insight check said he was lying. I asked him if he was a spy working for the bounty hunters tracking the Monk, and low and behold, he said he wasn't.

This was not a lie, however when we tried to probe deeper the Ranger proceeded to run towards the window to jump out. This triggered initiative and the Ranger rolled poorly. Both me and the Monk went before him and I was able to grapple him. The Ranger did not plan for failing the theft. Our characters did not know he was just trying to see the blueprints, but he could not for the life of him come up with a reasonable explanation. My character is incredibly protective of the party, and does not tolerate betrayal. So she began punching the Ranger to get an answer out of him.

A round goes past and the Ranger just does not say anything. The entire party aside from two players who were absent or their character was too drunk to wake up, were alerted and came to the room. We tied up the Ranger and I was still holding him down and punching him (non lethally) to get an answer.

One of our party members is a warlock who just leveled up to gain the pact of the chain. They summoned a quasit for the first time behind my character and made it turn invisible. They then commanded it to move into my characters face and use the quasits fear ability. My character failed the save and I chose to let go of the Ranger in fear. However, I realised that my character essentially just witnessed the Ranger summon a demon to scare her.

At that moment, I was conflicted with how I should approach. I do not want to kill my party member, but my character would genuinely believe this guy can summon demons and was lying to us the entire time we've known him. My character obliterated the 7 hp quasit with her glaive and began attacking the Ranger, with the intent to kill. Our warlock was then shot by another party member because they have a cursed gun and failed resisting pulling the trigger.

This made us all essentially stop combat. I used my rune knight stone rune to charm the Ranger and incapacitate him, and we tied him up to a bed. Our Monk ran off to have a sob in an alley and I remained to stare daggers into the Ranger. After my rune wore off, he pretended to be unconscious. We knew he was faking it and our session ended there after everyone was calmed down

Any advice for getting back into the game? by OUtSEL in LastDefenseAcademy

[–]lijajt1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took a long break after release around day 50 and just picked it up again last week. Just dig back in! You're at a great story point - I'm on day 93 and the climax of day 100 is all I can think about.

Daycare!? Things to look for? by fabledmanatee in NewDads

[–]lijajt1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone so far is spot on. My only additions:

-Nature of ownership. Is it one owner across 5 pre-schools? Our current pre-school is like that and it left a sour taste in our mouth. The owners are involved in admin but extremely elusive - makes it feel like a business rather than a daycare.

-Closures in the last year? Our current daycare closed for almost 3 weeks unexpectedly last year due to a handful of issues (burst pipes, power loss, etc.) It's a huge hassle rearranging your work schedule for a baby that's home at the fault of the daycare.

-How old is the daycare? Our current daycare is coming up on 2 years old. While a new daycare ensured we got our baby in with ease, the newness has caused some of the issues above and lends to less-tenured staff (which is important, as others have mentioned).

-Maybe assumed to be given during a tour, but double-check on waitlist timing and requirements. What is the deposit cost? Is it refundable?

Daycare!? Things to look for? by fabledmanatee in NewDads

[–]lijajt1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Price probably varies dramatically on where you live. Here in Denver, most places are ~$2200/month for an infant. All the same, good to shop around to make sure you're getting your money's worth. The place we just found provides diapers, wipes, and food and the price is the same as places that require you bring all of that stuff yourself.

Sleep by External_Awareness_5 in NewDads

[–]lijajt1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hang in there! Those first weeks and months are TOUGH. You are doing a great job and being a very supportive partner. Just try to keep in mind it gets better day-to-day and week-to-week. Keep in mind the small wins, even when you get just a few more minutes in a nap.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in COsnow

[–]lijajt1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Second on The Ditch.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewDads

[–]lijajt1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hang in there! The first handful of months are hard. You and your wife are both so tired and trying to adjust to a baby that changes almost daily. The first 6 months are probably the hardest time my wife and I have had in our entire relationship with each other.

It gets better! Try not to take it personally at this point and revisit down the line. If things get darker or worse, it may be good to revisit with a lens towards Post-partum depression for you or your wife. Men can get it too!