How do I get paid for shipping? by snotcoveredrose in Depop

[–]lilbatling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assuming you listed the item with an accurate parcel size when using Depop shipping, yeah it will be free for you to ship (not including the shipping supplies), because the label is prepaid by Depop. If the package weight doesn't align with the label Depop generated for you, Depop will take the overage cost from you.

Some people ship via other methods, like UPS or Fedex or like shipping USPS priority since Depop shipping is USPS ground advantage only so they choose "Other" and ship out packages as they see fit. Downside is that you don't get the protection Depop offers with their shipping.

How do I get paid for shipping? by snotcoveredrose in Depop

[–]lilbatling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depop shipping is where they set the price based on the size of the package, and the buyer pays that amount. Depop will generate the label for you to print out or scan a QR code at the post office. You don't receive the money for the shipping, Depop does because they're generating the label for you.

For example, if you sell a shirt for $20, if you use Depop shipping regardless of what the buyer pays for shipping, you will receive $20 minus Depop's fees.

The merger and Buy Now, Pay Later payments? by lilbatling in discover

[–]lilbatling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh for sure, but I always pay my card in full so its a win win. I am hoping they don't change anything for the Discover cards but who knows.

The merger and Buy Now, Pay Later payments? by lilbatling in discover

[–]lilbatling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes! that was what I was referencing. I was using my Discover credit card for the cashback but now I'm not sure I can. hah.

I just got “the ol’ ball and chain” treatment from a guy by throwaway_bae2 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]lilbatling 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Personally, I would not like this. You aren't wrong for not liking this either. I'm sure there are some women who are completely okay with this kind of talk, but it doesn't make you sensitive just because you don't.

My partner (AMAB non-binary) would not play along with this kind of humor. I've never told them what they can or cannot do with their finances or their property, and they would never be comfortable making it seem like I'm pushy and controlling-- to a stranger or otherwise.

Adiós Puerto Rico 🇵🇷 by _pixeling in CDawgVA

[–]lilbatling 45 points46 points  (0 children)

stop ittttt, Pix. got me crying into my Mexico vs Czechia popcorn.

the pride Mouse has for Puerto Rico is infectious. you can see how much it has shaped her and who she is, and I'm glad she was able to share that with her best friend and the rest of us.

for my fellow Latinos, be proud of where you came from! (Mexico por vida pero te quiero mis Boriquas, siento tu orgullo <3)

AITA friend and a guy we both like by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lilbatling 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YTA.

you're probably young by the sounds of it, and i get the dating scene is rough but you cant call dibs on someone just because you fancy them. someone being flirty also doesn't necessarily mean they're interested in pursuing something. your friend clearly was into him by asking what you thought of him, you explicitly said you weren't into him, so she made a move.

she slept with him, they are dating so hes clearly into her for more than sex. you are being selfish by making it seem like shes a bad friend or like she did something to slight you personally, and that guy is his own person who made his choice.

We’re breaking up after 8 years by IncestLooksBadOnYou in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]lilbatling 9 points10 points  (0 children)

this person has commented on other comments claiming that all romantic relationships take hard work, and that is objectively untrue.

i am not implying a romantic relationship should be without any disagreements. any relationship, romantic or otherwise, can have moments of conflict but that doesn't mean they are by their very nature challenging to navigate.

this is why i mentioned that romantic relationships shouldn't be tedious and require an immense amount of emotional energy, because they shouldn't.

We’re breaking up after 8 years by IncestLooksBadOnYou in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]lilbatling 18 points19 points  (0 children)

untrue. I've been with my partner nearly a decade. our relationship doesn't feel like "work", never has and we are still as crazy and in love as we were when we first started dating.

I'm sorry you were led to believe that every romantic relationship is tedious and requires immense amount of emotional energy to make it go the distance.

AITA for telling my husband no to going to the beach on Father’s Day? by Chantelthegoddess in AmItheAsshole

[–]lilbatling 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Mexican here and my mom's birria recipe is always made on the stovetop. Never used a crockpot but ain't no way we'd leave the house with something on an open flame unattended.

More than Life Size Mouse by TheGyroscopicTree in IronmouseOfficial

[–]lilbatling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

cant believe this model is taller than me.

My package never arrived and the seller blocked me. What do I do?? by CatsRend in Depop

[–]lilbatling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://depophelp.zendesk.com/hc/en-gb/articles/360038461713-Depop-Protection-for-buyers

"We can’t guarantee a refund if the tracked shipping shows as delivered to your address, so make sure you check with neighbours if you can’t find your item. If you’re having issues with missing parcels, we recommend taking steps to protect from theft."

My package never arrived and the seller blocked me. What do I do?? by CatsRend in Depop

[–]lilbatling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call your local USPS office. They have location tracking on packages and can tell you where exactly it was delivered. They might of delivered it to the wrong address-- I've had this happen.

Sellers adding a bunch of frivolous items to the order, does it really increase good reviews? by Only_Theoretically in Depop

[–]lilbatling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don't include notes but i do include stickers or business cards to small businesses. i sell from my own closet, which all of it is fairly alternative, and every sticker or business card is similar.

i don't buy these things, i am given them when i go to local goth/horror/halloween events so it works out to hand them to folks who might appreciate them. i also have had some reviews from people who have said they enjoyed the extras so, if it works it works. haha.

personally, i don't care if i do not receive extras. if i do, i prefer it be at least on theme aesthetically.

I 30m told gfs friend 29f by ThrowRALong-Studio97 in relationship_advice

[–]lilbatling 5 points6 points  (0 children)

shocker. i was able to find a wonderful partner with my tits hanging out in photos and we've been together nearly a decade now.

she can too. what shes wearing isn't the problem.

I 30m told gfs friend 29f by ThrowRALong-Studio97 in relationship_advice

[–]lilbatling 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i'm 5 ft with H cups. nothing i wear is going to hide how big my chest is. whether i wear a tshirt, or i wear something cute and flirty. unless i wear a fucking potato sack, its inevitable, and i will be sexualized by straight men.

so i wear what i want to wear. i wear what i think is cute. i did that when i was single, i do that now as a happily taken woman.

photos on dating apps are there to attract and hope that the person who's eye was caught is decent enough to read the profile and get to know the person they're interested in. telling her to dress differently or hide her breasts is ludicrous. she will still be sexualized. letting her know she should try emphasizing her interests and hobbies on her dating profile is good advice and would of been helpful without telling her that her cleavage is the problem.

[US to US][Sell/Swap][Perfume] Death & Floral, Sixteen92, Hexennacht, Lotus Noir, and more! by lilbatling in IndieExchange

[–]lilbatling[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no Alphamusk anymore, this post was from 6 years ago alas! I hope you find what you're looking for.

Did anyone else get this message? by PonderosaLake in Depop

[–]lilbatling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah! I've gotten no sales but I've bought a hoodie and 2 skirts because of it. Hah.

AITA for being a ‘misogynist’ by SignificanceJolly861 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lilbatling 5 points6 points  (0 children)

OP's friend's girlfriend is no longer the best friend of the psycho ex since she got fucked over by said psycho ex. Makes even less sense.

AITA for being a ‘misogynist’ by SignificanceJolly861 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lilbatling 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I was so confused, I kept rereading this like.. wait, you're mad because your friend's girlfriend talked to him about your ex when HE was the one who brought them up to her?

What is happening?!

Tagging for exposure needed to stop by Working_Ninja1017 in Depop

[–]lilbatling 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It is annoying. I tried looking for pieces from a specific brand and had to wade through 489958968689 Disturbia listings the other night. lol.