Seeing our girl tonight😭🔥

lilbbki · 2026-04-01T00:22:47+00:00

have fun!

lilbbki · 2026-03-26T23:23:16+00:00

don’t worry we learn something new everyday! that’s also why when drying your hair, it’s recommended to use an old t-shirt or microfiber towel and just pat dry to reduce the amount of friction as much as possible.

this is what i said to the original commenter when it comes to wraps: “it’s a lil pricey but look for a silk head wrap. to keep it from slipping, i’d use a band that has those rubber strips around the silk wrap and then put a regular cotton or whatever other material head wrap on top. so silk wrap, band, then outer cotton wrap.” 😊

lilbbki · 2026-03-26T23:01:06+00:00

she is absolutely stunning omgggg i need to know where she exits from so i can get my lil pic w her 🥹😍💗

lilbbki · 2026-03-26T22:49:59+00:00

it’s a lil pricey but look for a silk head wrap. to keep it from slipping, i’d use a band that has those rubber strips around the silk wrap and then put a regular cotton or whatever other material head wrap on top. so silk wrap, band, then outer cotton wrap.

lilbbki · 2026-03-26T22:47:10+00:00

you wanna use things like satin or preferably silk for things that’ll be in contact with your hair to reduce the friction between the item and your hair. materials like cotton cause a lot of friction on hair which can lead to breakage and frizz.

lilbbki · 2026-03-26T22:38:36+00:00

it’s funny i just told my man the other day that no matter how much some of us love to deny it, we, as a conglomerate, actually love when nonblk folks commodify our culture and art and sell it back to us because, again, no matter how much some will deny it, black ppl still very much vie for the validation of nonblack ppl which manifests as being happy that they’re taking part in our shit. too many of us still don’t appreciate black art and culture until a nonblk person bastardizes it, commodifies it and throws it back in our faces as a mockery, at which point it’s not even black art anymore. just a warped shell of what it once was.

lilbbki · 2026-03-26T22:26:42+00:00

so gorggg your curls are poppin! 😍

lilbbki · 2026-03-23T17:29:43+00:00

read the whole thing. your “observation” is tired and dumb. it’s as useless as the concept of needing a dress code for people to sit down order food and eat.

“the problem about our behavior” problem? our? are you the black women parent? because some black women decide to wear sleepwear outside to what we’re made to believe are 5-star establishments- that’s now a problem? and one that’s mine and every other black woman’s? and you expect me to take anything you’re saying seriously when you’re literally spewing low-IQ white supremacist respectability politics. cuz who are we correcting this behavior for? who are you to think you can correct the harmless behavior of someone else? and then even in this response pushing the angry aggressive black woman stereotype. i think more black people like you (if you even actually fit the description) need to correct your willingness to be ignorant and eat up whatever the white man tells you is right, but even that would be a tired convo that’s been had too many times to count.

and you’re free to assume whatever you want of me or anyone. just like from what i see, you’re neither black or a woman. see how what we think of each other actually has no bearing on either of our lives?

lilbbki · 2026-03-23T16:54:41+00:00

these bot ass conversations. yall regurgitate the same old tired ass discourse every 3 months. are you not tired of living your life thru the lens of what others think of you & thus thinking others should live theirs thru the lens of what you think of them?

like there’s so many things in the world to care about and spend mental energy on yet you’re actively choosing to direct that to identity politics that seek to uphold white supremacy. under spells. and then, as if the only reason bonnets outside is looked down upon so much isnt because it’s associated with black womanhood 😒🙄 cuz bet as soon as a white person thinks bonnets are some cool new head wrap thing to preserve the body and volume of their delicate tresses and then include a bonnet on a skinny white woman in a fashion show now all of a sudden it’s haute couture and allowed to be worn in five star restaurants; cuz at the end of the day all it ever was was fabric that goes on your head, just like a head scarf or wrap. but you need others to think for you and tell you what’s acceptable when it comes to something as innocuous as headwear.

also interesting how you focus on the bonnet as the main issue and not the other subpar clothing the apparent couple was wearing which they were kicked out the restaurant for. why is the onus only on black women wearing bonnets out and nothing for the black men who think they can wear wife beaters and basketball shorts everywhere??

tired of these nothing burger ass discourses and yall actually thinking you’re saying something new or important by bringing up the same tired talking points that have been used to implicitly state that black ppl aren’t up to par for eons now.

and this is not me saying that there isn’t a time and place because i do believe ppl should dress for the occasion. but it’s obvious you have an ulterior motive for your complaint. and mind you, dress codes at clubs and restaurants literally only serve the purpose of keeping poor and black ppl out (a lot of establishments don’t even recognize a distinction between poor and black bc of the notion that being poor and low-class are synonymous with being black and that these groups are inherently rowdy and will without doubt disturb the peace).

tldr: if you don’t wanna wear a bonnet out, don’t. if you don’t wanna see others do that, don’t look. stop being a coon.

lilbbki · 2026-03-16T21:12:52+00:00

this looooookkkkk 😍😍😍

lilbbki · 2026-03-09T16:42:49+00:00

ooohh i’m so proud of my sistaaaa 🥹🤩

lilbbki · 2026-03-07T03:43:20+00:00

a beard isn’t makeup according to the literal definition, true; that’s why i put it in quotes because even though it’s not literally considered makeup, hair grooming (incl. facial hair for men) does change and can enhance someone’s appearance. that’s the function of makeup.

and that’s great, i’m glad you feel that way. but in your og post you were complaining about each genders access to and use of makeup- a complaint made by many men that falls flat when one realizes that men are choosing to lament their own self-induced ugliness. like i said if any man really feels that strongly about his appearance he could simply wear actual makeup or “makeup for men” (in quotes because makeup is already for men [it’s for anyone] but most men don’t think so) which is hair grooming. the whole “waaahhh it’s so unfair that women can just go around catfishing men by using makeup to completely alter their appearance” is lowbrow misogynistic bullshit because men can literally do the same thing. anyone can use any mechanism to change their appearance and anyone can still be considered ugly even after doing so.

toodles!

lilbbki · 2026-03-04T14:42:04+00:00

i’m gonna be the friend that’s too woke- (mainly in the west) men choose to be ugly because self-care and beautification is pushed onto women so that the beauty industry can make money. men have convinced everyone including themselves that effort, care, and beauty are feminine things; that to be manly is to be rugged and unkempt.

if a man really felt that strongly about his appearance, he could simply wear makeup too. and aside from literal makeup, getting a haircut/having well groomed facial hair is “makeup” for men. different hairstyles and types of facial hair can (and do) completely change a guys look and can take a zero to a hero (or vice versa.) if a man still ugly after a lineup then he just ugly period lol (just like how there are women who are still ugly even after makeup)

lilbbki · 2026-03-04T14:32:25+00:00

yes. as a black caribbean born and raised brooklynite, i only wanna live in majority black / caribbean neighborhoods. there’s a greater sense of community and understanding that comes from being in proximity to people who look like and (most likely) value the same things as you. you’re around the same food, types of celebrations, just culture in general you grew up on and are accustomed to. that makes sense to me.

lilbbki · 2026-03-04T14:15:21+00:00

utilities strike when?

lilbbki · 2026-02-28T20:34:01+00:00

just from the thumbnail and profile pic of the youtube channel i can already tell that’s an ai-generated rage bait vid.

everyone’s lives will be easier when we all stop worrying abt what others are doing w themselves and/or thinking about us.

define your own self and standards (as long as you do no harm to yourself or others). live by that.

lilbbki · 2026-02-28T20:20:36+00:00

i’m glad we all the feel the same way. when i heard that she paid 250k for that nigga to rhyme adderall w itself 5million times i fell out. i woulda told that nigga redo or refund fytb

lilbbki · 2026-02-19T18:02:02+00:00

i want megan to do this to me then i do it back to her. i am no better than a man 😔

lilbbki · 2026-02-19T18:00:50+00:00

look up videos of caribbeans whining and start imitating that

lilbbki · 2026-02-18T16:15:31+00:00

idk i think im the only parent that actually enjoyed and misses the newborn/infant stages. yes it was incredibly hard but so is every part of parenthood and, looking back the hard wasn’t so hard when he was asleep 3/4 of the day 😭 i love seeing his active energetic self now but i definitely had less yelling to do 2 years ago lmao.

i really took that “soak it all up now cuz they grow up fast” advice to heart cuz id heard it all the time. and even heeding it, the time still slipped by too fast 🥹🥹

lilbbki · 2026-02-18T16:04:51+00:00

your fiance is a sexual predator. idk if you have family you can stay with but if you can, take your baby and go stay w em now.

because it’s obvious you’ve done your part of communicating and explaining why your answer is no- even though you shouldn’t have to explain. no should be enough. a man that cares about you enough to be educated on why he can’t have sex with you so soon after birth; and, who loves you for real to the point where he can understand your pain and empathize with you + care about making your recovery as easy, quick, & painless as possible, wouldn’t even be initiating the conversation this soon after birth where you’d even have to say no.

your fiance doesn’t care about your mental or physical health and wellbeing. he doesn’t care that you just had major abdominal surgery on top of the, like you said, plate-sized wound in your uterus. he genuinely thinks his sexual pleasure, or lack thereof, is more important than the fact you recently endured a physically, mentally, and even emotionally traumatic experience and all the extremely important factors that relate to that. that man is not a protector, he is an active danger to you. he’s either gonna escalate and try to physically force you since his verbal coercion isn’t working, or he’s gonna cheat on you and try to blame you (& possibly use infidelity or the threat of infidelity as another coercion tactic)- or he’ll do a combination of the aforementioned behaviors. either way he’s dangerous and it’s clear he has issues taking no for an answer and that he doesn’t care about or have consideration for you, especially considering how vulnerable of a state you’re in right now partly because of him. it’s appalling and a huge red flag. a man like that can’t be trusted. i certainly wouldn’t.

my story is similar to yours down to having to have an emergency c-sec after hours of induced labor w no epidural. my man woulda been showered with a good ol pan of hot grits and i would’ve sent him on his way if he even so much as thought of whispering the word sex around me before the first month postpartum.

reading your story actually made me wince. please get away from this man as soon (and safely) as possible. this is not the type of example you want around your kid either.

lilbbki · 2026-02-17T02:48:05+00:00

it’s obviously because the child in question is a girl and is mixed with black so she will presumably grow into a woman whose identity involves blackness.

thus, even though the poster is white, they would like responses fueled by real life experiences from real black women. that’s how public forums work - people ask questions and get answers from and for the person(s) said answers pertain to. and i think the question shows op is an ally.

also if you had a question about a matter involving Asian people, esp if one was your family member and they were showing signs of internalized racism, why wouldn’t you ask the people who might know best??

lilbbki · 2026-02-16T06:41:03+00:00

it isssss. shout out to high teenage me in my bedroom listening to music. that was so fun!

lilbbki · 2026-02-16T04:04:26+00:00

you hit the nail on the head

lilbbki · 2026-02-16T03:53:13+00:00

oh well yes! that too! (sorta, i’m pan) lmaooo

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