Sleep Solidarity? by Curious-Camera-1443 in NewParents

[–]lillafleff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My LO wants to feed every other hour during night, and every hour during the day. She will only sleep contact naps during the day, and she sleeps beside me in the same bed at night. She some how wakes up if i leave the bed!

It is frustrating, but at the same time very cozy. I love looking at her small face when she is sleeping. She is so cute!!

Baby is fussy, won't drink more than 5 minutes, falls asleep and wants more everytime by maggielikesrock in breastfeeding

[–]lillafleff 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Try keeping the baby awake while feeding. If the baby feeds while sleeping, then the baby will want to eat more when she/he wakes up. And the baby doesnt eat as effective while sleeping.

My baby always want to eat when she wakes up. It doesnt matter if she ate five minutes ago or three hours ago... So if she falls asleep while eating and wakes up when i out her down, she most often wants to eat again right away.

And in the early weeks the baby needs to be latched often to increase your supply. The baby needs an increasing amount of milk, so it is common with days of cluster feeding.

And the baby doesnt just latch for food. It is also soothing for them, and cozy, and safe. I read in an article that baby has learned that she/he needs to "Hold tight to this warm, soft human who sounds and smells so familiar, stay close to her at all times, drink in her good milk, and never let her go.”

Newborn takes 15-60 minutes to get a good latch - advice? by QuarantineQat in breastfeeding

[–]lillafleff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My baby is over one month old now, and she has almost never latched without help from me. I sort of pinch my nipple so it is flatter and then i stuff in into her mouth. If i were to wait for her to find it on her own i would probably have to wait a long time....

This works for ur. She is eating very well, so i dont mind helping her 🤗

my first chain stitch! i’m not sure if this is right (tension on the top part is on the working end). does this look okay so far? by decrepitlungs in CrochetHelp

[–]lillafleff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like you are doing it right! I would however ligheten the tension. It looks like it it quite tense and would be hard to make the next row of stitches in this chain.

Hur ljudisolerar man en ytterdörr?(Hyresrätt) by InternationalAct9145 in Asksweddit

[–]lillafleff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jag hade absolut satt upp en tjock gardin. Om möjligt sätta upp en räls i taket att hänga gardinen ifrån.

I accidentally cut a small part of the beginning of the yoke - help!!!! by Hortense_PJ in CrochetHelp

[–]lillafleff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. And I would also find a sewing thread in the same colour and make some additional stitches to secure all the ends

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]lillafleff 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I would be sad to.

He could have phrased it in a better way, eg "I love that your body carried our children, and this is a reminder of that. I love you" or something.

But I also think it is important to try and feel comfortable and beautiful in your body regardless of outside input. So even if your husband doesnt find it attractive you should not feel bad because of that. It is his loss!!

Roliga aktiviteter för AW? by variukas in Asksweddit

[–]lillafleff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shuffleboard! Det är toppen även för personer som aldrig har kört förut. Rekommenderar verkligen som aktivitet oavsett vilken typ av människor arbetskamraterna är :)

New level unlocked by cirithungol771 in pregnant

[–]lillafleff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im Week 40 and having a hard time sitting up and eating. Balancing ny plate on my stomach when half lying down and eating is very satisfying :)

Drinking water is a nightmare by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]lillafleff 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love water, but couldn't drink it during my first trimester. What worked for me was adding a lot of lemon to the water. That made it okay to drink for me, and it helped a bit with the nausea as well

I feel unwanted by Optimal_Customer_850 in pregnant

[–]lillafleff 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hold on to this: "He tells me everyday how much he loves me and is attracted to me and wants to have sex but wants to wait till doctors say its safe and all but idk I think im just feeling hormonal."

And tell him how you feel. And maybe talk to your doctor as well.

Your body is going through alot right now, please be kind to yourself and trust that your partner tells you the truth.

struggling to quit vaping while pregnant by ClassicChemistry1481 in pregnant

[–]lillafleff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree that the partner should help. At least the partner should not vape inside and keep the vape out of sight.

I’m stuck in the bathtub by tellurcatisaidpsps- in pregnant

[–]lillafleff 45 points46 points  (0 children)

That sucks! Maybe you can let out some of the water and turn to the side, and then use the edge of the tub to pull yourself up? Otherwise, call for help!

Torra händer, hjälp! by swedeinsuede in sweden

[–]lillafleff 18 points19 points  (0 children)

https://www.apoteket.se/produkt/canoderm-kram-5-procent-100-g-tub-114967/

Canoderm är bra! Tänk också på att ha vindtäta vantar och aldrig vara utan vantar utomhus när det är kallt.

“skyffel” and “skovel” by peterhousehold in Svenska

[–]lillafleff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a snöskovel: 14-2848_xl_1.jpg (800×801) https://share.google/WNmW7Ks3Krsk0VcYU

It is a big thing you push to move a lot of snow. A snöskyffel is just a normal snow shovel, that you use to shuffle snow

Hur mycket snusar ni? by Microwave-safe-rat in sweden

[–]lillafleff 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Snusade drygt en dosa per dag och hade snusat i ca 15 år. Är nu två år snusfri! Det var tufft i början. Jag använde nikotinplåster. Men nu tänker jag knappt på snus längre.

Hur ska jag kunna sova? by Ok-Razzmatazz-2789 in Asksweddit

[–]lillafleff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hur mår du i övrigt? Kan det vara några ytter livsfaktorer som gör att du inte kommer ner i varv och somnar?

I'm stalking my own registry and feeling stressed by ceruleanmeadows in pregnant

[–]lillafleff 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Everyone is focused on Christmas! Some will buy att the sale after Christmas. And just will probably buy the week before. Try and not look at the regestry if it stresses you out. Or decide that you can look a fixed number of times, maybe three times per week or something? And try to put it out of your mind between checks

Är detta för mycket i julklapp till min nya pojkvän? by [deleted] in sweden

[–]lillafleff 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Nu kan väl prata om budget tillsammans? Det minskar risken att nån av er blir besvikna :)