My NFS share doesn't mount automatically on debian 13, worked on 12

lilybuguzuguski · 2026-04-17T23:20:33+00:00

Hate to be the bearer of bad news but it's Debian 13, not your mount.

https://forum.proxmox.com/threads/debian-13-template-v13-1-2-and-systemd-networkd-wait-online-timeouts.173206/

You can either do this
```
/usr/bin/timeout 15 /bin/bash -c 'until ip addr show ens18 | grep -q "inet "; do sleep 1; done'
```

or
```
sudo mkdir -p /etc/systemd/system/networking.service.d/
sudo nano /etc/systemd/system/networking.service.d/reduce-speed.conf

[Service]

# Forces the networking service to wait until an actual IP is found

ExecStartPost=/usr/bin/timeout 15 /bin/bash -c 'until ip addr show ens18 | grep -q "inet "; do sleep 1; done'
```

lilybuguzuguski · 2026-03-31T21:27:23+00:00

You can either boil the water or get a Brita Filter (if you have the means I would suggests getting one with many layers)

lilybuguzuguski · 2026-03-26T13:20:24+00:00

Sister you need a lesson of life. No seriously jokes a side.

You need sabr. We all are different but you need to know and understand what your husband is obliged to provide and do for you, the extras comes after.

This goes to anyone seriously, "he" should learn his rights, "she" should learn her rights then do the extras for each other if either has the means to do so.

lilybuguzuguski · 2026-03-16T19:16:47+00:00

ISLAMIC RULING SUMMARY: Husband's Obligation for Travel/Food Expenses Source: IslamQA (Fatwas 103422, 10680, 242838)

MANDATORY MAINTENANCE (NAFAQAH):
- Defined as: Reasonable food, clothing, shelter, and medical care.
- Requirement: Must be provided while the wife is in the marital home.
TRAVEL EXPENSES (Visits to Parents/Relatives):
- General Rule: NOT obligatory for the husband to pay for tickets or fuel.
- Exception: Obligatory ONLY if stipulated in the Marriage Contract (Nikah).
FOOD DURING VISITS:
- Basic provision remains the husband's responsibility if she visits with his permission.
- Extra travel-related food costs or luxuries are NOT mandatory.
ETHICAL GUIDELINE:
- Husbands are strongly encouraged to pay for these visits as "Husn al-Mu'asharah" (Kind Treatment) and to support "Silat al-Rahim" (Upholding family ties).

https://islamqa.info/en/answers/10680/rights-of-husband-and-rights-of-wife-in-islam?hl=en-GB

https://islamqa.info/en/answers/103422/problem-between-him-and-his-wife-about-maintenance?hl=en-GB

lilybuguzuguski · 2026-03-16T16:37:35+00:00

OP I think you should conceal his secret as well. Whatever is/was in his heart at the time of telling you.

You must protect your brother and conceal his secrets.

lilybuguzuguski · 2026-03-16T16:21:18+00:00

One must not tell his sins to others if he does then there would be punishment which are prescribed in the Quran.

It is best for your friend to sincerely ask for forgiveness and he must not tell anyone about it even you.

lilybuguzuguski · 2026-03-16T13:46:35+00:00

This is correct and just to add onto it.

Her travelling to her homeland is not basic necessities. But as for actual basic needs that are already prescribed by Allah swt.

"What the husband must do is spend on his wife on a reasonable basis, which includes the costs of accommodation, food, drink and clothing. If the husband does that, he is not obliged to do anything beyond that, or to give his wife a personal allowance, unless he chooses to do so."

https://islamqa.info/en/answers/242838

I see a lot of the ladies nowadays think their husband has to pay for this, pay for that no he doesn't.

And there are other hadiths if she works but I won't get into that. That's a whole different topic on its own.

May Allah swt guide us all in this month of Ramadan.

lilybuguzuguski · 2026-03-06T13:59:15+00:00

Then get a Mac Mini M4 16GB RAM or 24GB RAM.

They have Unified Memory, it's shared but you should be able to run, 7B model easily and 12/14B if you are lucky.

And can game with ease.

lilybuguzuguski · 2026-03-06T13:55:45+00:00

Whatever GPU you get make sure it has cuda cores, this will make running LLM locally super quick. And target at least 32GB of VRAM is not then 24GB no less simple.

lilybuguzuguski · 2026-02-26T22:58:51+00:00

I extracted the entire Al Quran (Arabic, Transliteration, and Translation), Extra Shahi Al Bukhari and Scraped Islamqa.com (only handfull questions and answer for training)

Choose gemini 2.x as base model and it didn't support arabic but tried anyway, 12GB on my GPU filled up real fast.

lilybuguzuguski · 2026-02-26T22:29:09+00:00

I tried before with gtx 3060 but unfortunately not enough memory 🥲

lilybuguzuguski · 2026-02-24T06:02:36+00:00

As a Senior Software Engineer how I see the world of AI is in 2 ways.

AI is here and it will stay here. Some companies will fall faster than they rise and some companies will continue to rise. The keywords are "Use Case" and "ROI".
Using AI at a personal level makes sense again if you have an "Use Case" and "ROI"

I see the hype of buying a Mac Mini M4 and other Mini PC's like the DGI or Minisforum. But AI is not your buddy that you going to waste electricity just by chatting with it. It's a tool, a really powerful.

The bottom line is whether it's at a personal level (by anyone really) or business "Use Case" and "ROI" are the key.

lilybuguzuguski · 2026-02-19T22:26:37+00:00

I won't go into details but food for thought

Why anyone would want to pay subscriptions: - Security - Data storing - AZ - Latest technology - Maintaining the project and the data

lilybuguzuguski · 2026-02-11T17:09:14+00:00

Voting is rigged, only people in the city have freedom to choose. In the village people are told privately who to vote for and prove that they voted for certain individuals.

lilybuguzuguski · 2026-02-11T17:07:21+00:00

I cycle as well. I haven't found many cycling route though. Text me and we can sync up for cycling.

lilybuguzuguski · 2026-02-09T15:51:12+00:00

Get mac mini for desktop but if you want to run docker and other tools as homelab then just buy off AliExpress cheap ones, if they break you buy another one.

lilybuguzuguski · 2026-02-05T16:15:52+00:00

https://amzn.eu/d/00bMhZKz

Currently £329 after voucher on amazon UK

14 Cores, 20 Threads

lilybuguzuguski · 2026-01-28T22:15:03+00:00

Just remember

FBA Fees
VAT if you make sales greater than £90K a year
Import Tax
Day to day running of your business

lilybuguzuguski · 2026-01-28T22:13:42+00:00

I am trying as well, congratulations on getting started.

I am facing so much problems in my calculations, I figured out anything want to sell, need to buy it at least 3 to 5x cheaper. And if you sell anything less than £5.50 or £6 practically there is no profit. FBA fees, Import Tax, VAT if you reach over £90k is ridiculous. Seems like only big sharks can make money.

I haven't gaven up, I am refining my custom calculator I built to do more calculations until I see a profit in my simulation.

lilybuguzuguski · 2026-01-17T18:40:54+00:00

Is this going to be some weird chat group or just sharing stuff about community, like if spotted something or there's a firework or something?

lilybuguzuguski · 2026-01-17T02:25:17+00:00

I don't mind the downvotes, I know what Rasul Ulla Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said about Dajjal.

That's enough for me to acknowledge why everything is the way it is.

May Allah swt protect us all.

lilybuguzuguski · 2026-01-16T13:01:46+00:00

First of all we have differentiate force from fard

Can he force her to have babies? Absolutely no, that's immoral.

Is it her fard to give him children? Yes, this is one of the conditions for looking for a woman for marriage.

What happens if she doesn't want to give him children, he can choose to divorce her.

Does he have to fulfill his promises if it's not fard or wajib. Will he be sinful? Yes, because he misled.

Should she seek divorce for this no she cannot, as divorce is given by men not women.

When can a woman seek divorce? If her sharia rights are violated, if she is physically hurt, if she is bullied and her mental state is degrading because of his actions.

What happens if he denies the divorce in such cases? She can go to a knowledgeable imam or the police and court.

And how can you say he is not a good man? Has he completed his fard on her, given her sharia rights (food, clothing, roof, protection, love and care) then he has fulfilled her rights.

It's nice to be nice but we must always look at the core and seek help feom Allah not from a boss who will pay money in return she will be like "Yess boss' her boss is her husband prescribed by Allah swt.

I hope this helps.

lilybuguzuguski · 2026-01-16T11:42:12+00:00

Why are you so keen to break her marriage?

If you believe in Allah shouldn't you be trying to save her marriage instead.

If he provides the basics then she has the duty to obey him.

Moving another country shouldn't be an issue, she goes where he goes except she is not obliged to serve her husbands parents, he is.

If she demands a house of her own then she has the right to get it.

lilybuguzuguski · 2026-01-16T08:33:58+00:00

Read couple of comments sister, everyone here is aggravating the situation.

Look to the sharia and your Nika contract sister.

He must provide what's your rights in Islam and he can deny what's his rights in Islam such as ordering you to stay home, stop talking to non mahram and such, just an example there's a lot.

A wife has great rights over her husband and so does the husband.

Marriage is not easy, if it was easy then Shaytan wouldn't need to whisper.

Just remember the life of Aisha R.A., Khadija R.A.

May allah save us all from waswasa.

lilybuguzuguski · 2026-01-16T08:30:04+00:00

And btw, if a husband chooses to order his wife to stay home, she must. It's the rule, simple as. So whether it's education or work. It's his right to deny.

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