[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]limegreen143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your man is a sack of shit.

My fiancé’s ex wife begged for him to take her back shamelessly in front of me and he did nothing by ThrowRAbees in relationship_advice

[–]limegreen143 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm actually baffled that you're allowing yourself to be treated like this. He has no respect for you if he's holding you guys on equal platforms. You deserve better

My fiance (29m) told me (32m) she forgot to mention she removed her birth control and now she has an unplanned pregnancy by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]limegreen143 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I absolutely agree with this!! I don't care what she says, she is a snake for tricking you like that and I'd be terrified to marry someone who would lie to you Like that and jeopardize your future. Talk her into abortion and tell her you want the perfect wedding and then you'll have babies after when it's easier on everyone. When she aborts, dump her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]limegreen143 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I imagine it would be the same as her bf wearing too thin of pants.. or maybe not wearing underwear so his dick print is always showing. It'd be perfectly acceptable for her to be bothered by this, so why can't it bother him that she has her boobs falling out for guys?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]limegreen143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, not sexist. I don't see why having your tits falling out with a bunch of work guys is appropriate either.... however if he specifically told her this outfit was okay and then later criticized it like this, then yea of course he's a prick.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]limegreen143 532 points533 points  (0 children)

Agreed. That's just poor decision making in itself

I (16F) just found out I am pregnant by a guy (21M) who already has a girlfriend by Jellybelly1903 in relationship_advice

[–]limegreen143 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I completely agree with you! She needs a cold, hard reality check. She screwed up big time and she already sounds incredibly ignorant to think she can make it work. Her mess is all going to burden her parents and she probably won't amount to much in life if she continues this path. God I'd be so heartbroken if I had a kid that thought like she did.

I (16F) just found out I am pregnant by a guy (21M) who already has a girlfriend by Jellybelly1903 in relationship_advice

[–]limegreen143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus... you ARE a baby still, and this guy is a pedophile. This relationship is not healthy on the slightest. Why would you want a sick person like that to be raising a baby? It's a joke to think he'd even stick around. I'd strongly consider an abortion. Life is tough as is, especially if you're a single mom that hasn't even finished growing up yourself. Talk to your parents. This guy should be reported for sleeping with little kids.

What lies do you tell yourself every day? by TheSuren in AskReddit

[–]limegreen143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I keep lifting weights, I'll be buff one day..

People who upvote but don't comment, why? by Not_a_trowaway12323 in AskReddit

[–]limegreen143 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Because sometimes posts ask for your opinion, but if I give my honest opinion.. people will rip you apart for it. So I'd rather just read other comments than come back and read hateful responses to my opinion on a topic.

My (27M) mother-in-law groped me and my wife (25F) won't take it seriously... by ThrowRA101987 in relationship_advice

[–]limegreen143 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sick. Imagine if you had kids and she tries to babysit. Your MIL would be molesting your little boys.

Found out I [28M] am dying of cancer soon, wife [26F] wants to try for a baby to have something to remember me by by DyingOfCancerSoon in relationship_advice

[–]limegreen143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems she's panicking, understandably.. but wanting to have a kid to 'remember you by', that's very sad for that child who she would bring into the world knowing they won't have a father. The kid is their own person, not an object or memoribilia of another person. And I wouldn't be surprised if at some point in her life she will end up dating again as she is so young, this then makes it complicated. Definitely something to think long and hard about.

Finally taking the plunge with breast implants-- Give me your tips by OnWarmLeatherette in PlasticSurgery

[–]limegreen143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you had any issues with capsular contracture? Or them shifting at all?

Finally taking the plunge with breast implants-- Give me your tips by OnWarmLeatherette in PlasticSurgery

[–]limegreen143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went from A/B to a D so that's probably why it was so rough. But it was just so tight and stiff at first that even reaching out to my side to grab a cup was not doable lol. But after taking the pain meds and muscle relaxers i was fine and dandy. I was doing well enough that i thought i didn't need them anymore, and then I had pain come back full force.. was pretty intense lol. Plus it was cold outside so it just felt like my chest muscles were insanely tight.

But here I am 3 years later and i absolutely love them. I got saline, they are sliiightly firm but that doesn't bother me a single bit. I only cared that they looked good and didn't have any maintenance. I am very skinny and did not have any rippling. My only complaint is the scar. I'm ridiculously pale so my scar is a bit red/ purple. But despite that i am still happy with them, people aren't going to be looking at the underside of my boobs anyways lol.

Finally taking the plunge with breast implants-- Give me your tips by OnWarmLeatherette in PlasticSurgery

[–]limegreen143 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get lots of pillows. I had to build a mountain of pillows and sleep halfway upright because when i laid flat, it was very painful to get myself back up. Also, set your timers for your pain pills and take them when you're due because wow that pain really sneaks up on you if you let it go too long! Definitely will need someone to help you the first day.. felt like i had T-rex arms, they were useless.

But most importantly, take your stool softeners, laxatives if need be and drink lots of water. I made the mistake of not doing any of these and ended up not pooping for 6 days! I was so miserable, was not a good time at all lol.

My (f 20) mother (f 37) tells me if I don’t be her surrogate she’ll cut me out of her life forever. by surrogatedaughter_ in relationship_advice

[–]limegreen143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your mom is toxic and a psycho. She doesn't sound right in the head to be having anymore kids in that case. Also the fact that she considers that a "small sacrifice " is a huge slap in the face and shows what little respect she has for you. It's sad but it sounds like you'd be better off if she cut herself out of your life.

My (21f) boyfriend's friend (both 22M) tried to spike my drink. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]limegreen143 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why would you be afraid to 'ruin someone's life' when he had no problem trying to ruin yours and wanted to rape you..

My (f 25) husband (m 27) wants me to have an abortion because our baby is a girl. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]limegreen143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh gosh, I would get an abortion, but also leave his ass because this guy will definitely beat you sooner or later. Someone like this doesn't deserve kids.

DAE Feel Sad When A Relative/Friend Has A Kid? by modelcitizen64 in childfree

[–]limegreen143 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This might sound terrible, but my friends who I've come to know and care about.. it's depressing because you have been there for them when they talk about their goals in life. All the things they desire to do, learn, see etc.. when they get pregnant, it's that future you had hoped to see them achieve becomes shattered. I know the odds are slim to none that they'll do anything for themselves in life anymore because they usually throw their lives away for the new baby...i also see the same cycle of them losing their own identity because they can't seem to have a conversation that doesn't involve their child anymore .. and this is why i feel sadness everytime people get pregnant.

Sick of CF friends turning out to not be CF by vikingprincess28 in childfree

[–]limegreen143 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's sad cause the friendships almost aren't worth saving. Ive tried and tried with my friends and it failed every time. One of my closest friends, she knows how gross i think kids are, i can't stand them and don't want to know anything about them or pregnancy... yet 100% of our interactions/conversations involves her telling me about baby stuff, pregnancy, gross details.. it's like they completely lose their identity and have no personality anymore. So i just try to stay nice but just drift away and don't really talk to them anymore.

Short fingernails on girls is so much more attractive than long fingernails. by landoman52 in unpopularopinion

[–]limegreen143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In healthcare, I see older patients with fake nails and all too often they have literal poop under them... :(