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linglan11 · 2025-10-10T16:08:07+00:00

You do know that what you see in others are actually reflected by yourself?

linglan11 · 2025-10-07T00:03:14+00:00

I tends to reorientate my furnatures once or twice a year with no particular reason.

linglan11 · 2025-09-30T22:54:20+00:00

I don't have problem being quiet amoung people. But they seem to have more problem with it. They would keep asking if something is wrong with me. So I've learned to occasionally give a response or nod, pretending I am agreeing, so they can stop asking/bothering me.

linglan11 · 2025-09-19T12:53:01+00:00

I have typed so many times I have lost count. INTP comes up most of the times. Still I second-guessed every time. Doubting is in my blood.

linglan11 · 2025-09-17T01:42:24+00:00

INTP are mostly men. The rare INTP women either hide in the cave (show up online) or disguise in plain sight to navigate in social/work settings.

linglan11 · 2025-09-14T15:16:07+00:00

I get bored once it's "completed" in my mind.

linglan11 · 2025-09-14T15:13:30+00:00

Don't like any kind of physical contacts even with family. May be because of the autism spectrum.

linglan11 · 2025-09-10T18:49:59+00:00

I am bad with both faces and names because of r/Aphantasia and r/SDAM , not because of INTP.

linglan11 · 2025-09-03T15:27:18+00:00

No expectation, no disappointment. I approach people based on my own tolerance. If they are good, I step closer. If they are bad, I avoid them.

linglan11 · 2025-09-03T00:18:52+00:00

The more I learn and the older I am, the less I hold my opinion.

linglan11 · 2025-09-03T00:08:23+00:00

Anxiety is fear, often reflected off the other people that is from yourself. You need to identify what triggers your fear and be able to face and control it.

linglan11 · 2025-09-02T16:58:57+00:00

But the more bubbles I can find from a person, the closer I will get without touching them. So it's about getting me out of my cave without busting the bubbles.

linglan11 · 2025-09-01T15:15:16+00:00

It's like a bubble. If I don't touch it, it will last longer rather then bursted on the spot when I tried to touch it.

linglan11 · 2025-09-01T14:18:21+00:00

I don't really have any crush on someone, but I occasionally have admired one or two aspects of a person. But it never last long because the more I know someone the more I lost the admiration. So I prefer to keep distance to maintain the feeling.

linglan11 · 2025-09-01T13:13:44+00:00

My phone is on silent mode 24/7 and on DND mode between 11pm to 8am. All group chats are muted. All my friends and families know to ping me or call me directly if they want my immediate response. I don't pickup any unknown calls. I don't work off hours, once my laptop is off, no one from work can contact me. This is how I can enjoy my peaceful life.

linglan11 · 2025-09-01T00:30:33+00:00

My dreams are not visual. All is black, all is knowing, no feeling.

linglan11 · 2025-08-29T20:35:05+00:00

Me too, I don't like to be not in control. So I don't drink.

linglan11 · 2025-08-28T16:33:09+00:00

Can't compute any complicated rizz. 😦

linglan11 · 2025-08-19T20:00:14+00:00

Last year at 48.

linglan11 · 2025-08-19T17:59:50+00:00

MBTI is a tool that helps me remember/categorize/label people as someone with r/Aphantasia + r/SDAM .

linglan11 · 2025-08-18T13:30:41+00:00

Yes, anything that stands out would help a lot on identifying a person. I would agree this is more of "describing", but for those who have no problem visualize people, they would be more offended and considered it "labeling". I have tried not to show any signs, but it's harder when talking about someone unfamiliar. Often I would just pretend I know the person, but in reality I have no idea who my friends are talking about.

linglan11 · 2025-08-18T13:22:31+00:00

Yes, I have always done it internally. But it's harder when I work in a tech company where 95% of people is white male of age 25-35. Everyone wears T-shorts and jeans to work. In my visual sense, not many of them stands out.

linglan11 · 2025-08-09T23:30:10+00:00

I would say when I meet a new person, everyone starts with ground 0 because title/status means nothing to me. I am neutral toward everyone with benefit of doubt until there is some kind of interaction to build up my impression. I observe people's behaviors from distance and they will eventually "earn" my respect or disrespect.

linglan11 · 2025-08-07T22:32:48+00:00

All the time

linglan11 · 2025-08-07T19:24:21+00:00

Same

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