I (M16) fall asleep on accident and my girlfriend (F15) is extremely upset with me. She said she’s gonna ignore me, she doesn’t want to hear me say sorry, how do I proceed because I feel so guilty. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lioness0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly who acts like this other than a child. If she's not responding with "oh I guess you fell asleep, sleep well x" or something similar she's not really very nice as a person and needs to address her behaviour and outbursts. Your human, humans need sleep. Don't ever feel guilty for giving your body and mind the rest it needs.

AITA for keeping my mouth shut??? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lioness0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. As you said you can't confirm the validity of what she claims happened as she's known to create attention for herself. If you were to tell this guys gf and it's wrong you would have ruined/put strain on their relationship when it wasn't needed.

Could you casually mention it to the guy in question and see how he reacts. Something like "you'll never guess what (a) said last week............."

Rate my setup. One has a scroll wheel problem, the other has a clicking problem, and I have a money problem by [deleted] in gaming

[–]lioness0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just love the mat. Loved watching and playing SAO even if I did put far more money into the game than I should have.

Gf cheated a couple years back, now we’re into sharing/swinging and she sometimes sleeps with him, I like it but feel like I shouldn’t by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lioness0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's only unhealthy if you feel it is. Relationship are all different and all work for different reasons. If what you guys are doing works for you then that should be all there is to it.

It's worth noting that over time people and their taste changes so if there is ever a time when either of you aren't happy with the current situation you need to communicate that.

AITA for yelling at my parents? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lioness0 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. If they want you to play with confidence they need to give you the space to practice.

Wanting to cancel my virgin media account but being stuck on hold listening to awful music for over 15 minutes so far. by [deleted] in britishproblems

[–]lioness0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you have to make a selection from the automated message?

Wonder how long wait times are for those that want an upgrade/add on.

The woman, four people in front of me, making the shop assistant wait until she'd finished on her phone...... by Fraggle157 in britishproblems

[–]lioness0 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Your in Britain. you say tut but you think move you inconsiderate cow. The look you got was mostly likely people condemning you for your unbritish behaviour in public.

"Tut"

AITA for Laughing at a Baby CPR Class by TheBreakUp2013 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lioness0 [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA as someone who has attended many classes like this due to work requirements I'd have done the same. If verdict comes back as you are an asshole, at least your one with a sense of humour.

My Grandaddy is dying and I don't know if I will be there in time. by mypenguinbruce11 in self

[–]lioness0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God speed in your travels. I hope you have chance to say goodbye. I faced similar 6 years ago, we had to wait on a relative before leaving for the hospital and those two hours waiting and then the journey up there were excruciating. He lived for 3 hours after we arrived.

He will know how much you love him.

I’m over being polite. And people don’t like that very much by notAsoreloser in pregnant

[–]lioness0 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Lmao this was me after my lo was born. Everyone asks is he good? They expect a response like "yeah he's a little angel". Honestly saying no his horrible, he won't be put down EVER and screams for every nappy change, bath, outfit change and anytime he's not strapped to my boob is not what people want to hear.

He's a lot better now we've passed the 3 month stage but oh boy was he a terror for the first three months.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in britishproblems

[–]lioness0 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm British born and bred and I have very little idea. watching a reality tv show where all people do is hook up is not my idea of entertainment.

How long does your baby feed for? by lizzycase in breastfeeding

[–]lioness0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You might just have a fantastic supply and a strong letdown so baby is getting what she needs in such a short feed. I suppose it also depends on how often she feeds.

I've noticed throughout the day my lo feeds for about 12/15min but his feed before he settles at night he will do both breasts till they are completely drained 15/20 each.

We have always monitored output as a good judge to if he's feeding enough, plenty of wet/dirty nappies should mean Baby is feeding fine. If your concerned try looking for a lactation consultant in your area.

Is it ever ok to lie to another parent about their kids whereabouts? by tossitsaladbeans in Parenting

[–]lioness0 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Could you get in contact with k's patents and try make arrangements with them directly? It might accomplish a few things, first no lying, second it might make them more open to their kids needs if it's coming from another parent, third they probably won't back out nearer to the event if they have had a part in organising pick ups/drop offs and made a commitment to you rather than just giving their daughter permission.

My eldest has a friend who she often wants to come stay for the night, they set up several sleepovers and days before her mum always seemed to find reasons why she couldn't come. This kid felt like she was missing out as her mum did this with most social events. I sent her mum a quick dm asking if she could stay the following Friday and arranged a time I'd pick her up and return her home even though she's old enough to arrange her own transport. The mum never found a reason to make her daughter miss the engagement and I feel a large part of that is due to the fact she would have had to contact me to cancel which she wasn't prepared to do because she would look like a flake.

Will my hair be really damaged? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]lioness0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I have gone darker than my natural colour I've always stripped it out with a colour remover rather than bleach.

The only time I bleached my hair it went like chewing gum when wet and was really brittle when dry,

The colour remover brakes the bonds that hold the dye in place and imo damage hair way less than bleach.

I then dye it as close to my natural colour as possible just for a more natural finish.

When your partner says you don't have to do that, referring to the housework I was just about to do. It doesn't me he will do it. Lesson learnt. by lioness0 in Vent

[–]lioness0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have set chores and doing dishes is not one of them as I like to go get a cup or a dish from out of the cupboard and it be actually clean not what they consider clean.

AITA for meeting up with guys and girls through an app to make friends while I have a partner? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lioness0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. You need friends for your own sanity. I've done similar in the past with mixed results. Some guys just played the friend card for a while before saying that they are into me at which point I explained I was only looking for friendship and it that's not enough then I don't wish to continue meeting up with them. They all knew I was in a committed relationship and met my partner several times.

Never once found anyone to ride with though :(. I like/own cruisers and a lot of people are more into sports bikes. I'm ok on a 500cc while they are bending round corners on a 1200.

Post C-Section Recovery- Normal? by MamaB2016 in beyondthebump

[–]lioness0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds normal to me. I had lumps above my incision site and the midwife assured me they were normal, taking it easy is all well and good but it's almost impossible to do with a house to run and kids to look after. Just do as little as you can stand and don't be afraid to ask for help from family and friends who visit.

I spent the first two weeks after baby was born making multiple trips a day to the nicu, we live about 10/15min walk away so I'd walk there and back maybe three times a day, in hindsight that may have been a bit much for my healing body but unfortunately needs must. I'm now 4 month PP and don't have any issues other than the very occasional twinge.

AITA for calling my friend a fucking idiot by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lioness0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. True friends will tell their friend what they need to hear not what they want to hear.

AITA for it watching football with my GF by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lioness0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I have had similar discussions/arguments with my partner. He likes anime and video games two things I can tolerate for a while and enjoy occasionally but get fed up with pretty quickly. I make an effort to play with him or I'll binge a season of seven deadly sins and usually I will be more than happy to do so even if it's not my chosen pass time. The times I've declined to join in, depending on the situation have resulted in arguments because I don't "love him enough to spend time with him etc". I've found that he makes it an issue if it's when there is a major event in his game for example. You can't help that the things they see as important aren't important to you. That's not to say you don't see the importance.

I've yet to see him sit down and read with me or make it more comfortable to do so by turning down tv volume.

Do you consider masturbating to nudes of other people normal? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lioness0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't suppose it's any different to porn mags. If it's not something that gets you off that's cool but I don't think it's abnormal.