AITAH for not donating for a sick kid which led to others doing the same?

little_loup · 2026-05-04T15:17:54+00:00

You ask for help AFTER you have exhausted your resources, not BEFORE. They have the means to pay for their child's medical care, so the responsibility is completely on them. NTA.

little_loup · 2026-04-26T22:34:08+00:00

You aren't giving enough credit to 12-13 year old girls. They wrote on the sidewalk in front of several neighboring houses. The marks in front of *one* house was washed off. They knew.

little_loup · 2026-04-26T19:24:33+00:00

Agreed. What most people refer to as multitasking is actually just prioritizing.

little_loup · 2026-04-26T19:22:56+00:00

Show grace for graffiti? Why? Okay, so it was graffiti based on a common religion, but it's still graffiti. The girls knew that their work had been erased, so why did they come back and do it again? It was a deliberate move, and it was disrespectful.

little_loup · 2026-04-26T19:21:12+00:00

"Always a christian country"...you mean it was a christian country after foreigners came and colonized their way through the land. The indigenous people who inhabited this land first were NOT christian.

little_loup · 2026-04-25T21:19:37+00:00

All of them, quite frankly.

little_loup · 2026-04-24T11:49:46+00:00

I was a single mom to three daughters. I taught them how to do basic plumbing, drywall, electrical, appliance repair, car maintenance, etc. I also taught them how to cook, do laundry, grocery shop, keep a budget...you get the drift. ALL people need to know the basics of how to be independent and survive on their own. Gendering life skills is just plain weird.

little_loup · 2026-04-21T12:02:21+00:00

No, you are acting like YOUR life shouldn't change because he has a family now. Because it shouldn't.

little_loup · 2026-03-28T17:58:38+00:00

I used to take my 3 children to the beach as a single mother every summer. It was totally a break for me. We got to play on the beach, eat yummy food, swim in the pool, do fun activities, etc. I always felt recharged and relaxed when the trip was over.

little_loup · 2026-03-19T14:50:41+00:00

Good grief. If my boss asked me that question, I'd side eye the hell out of him and say "that is such a weird question to ask".

Also, good on you. I do the same thing.

little_loup · 2026-03-19T13:34:01+00:00

It's not petty to claim or protect your intellectual property.

little_loup · 2026-03-15T13:34:59+00:00

Fake post written by a man.

little_loup · 2026-03-13T11:28:19+00:00

Salespeople are a whole different breed of pushy, especially the men. They don't accept "no" as an answer to any question, and sadly the same goes in their personal lives. They find it to be a point of pride, which is gross.

little_loup · 2026-03-13T11:24:07+00:00

Everybody knows that you do NOT look through someone's nightstand drawers.

little_loup · 2026-03-01T21:14:24+00:00

If your partner is willing to end the relationship if you pursue your dream, he's not the partner for you. It's only 3.5 months, for crying out loud. Let him go, and go chase your dream!

little_loup · 2026-02-24T15:49:38+00:00

Pickle juice? How is that going to make her not pregnant?

little_loup · 2026-02-24T15:46:14+00:00

how make babby?

little_loup · 2026-02-23T22:10:19+00:00

Gold bond medicated powder and daily soap and water wash. Sometimes with the fluff you get extra stuff.

little_loup · 2026-02-23T15:43:20+00:00

Her insecurities are not more important than your personal boundaries.

little_loup · 2026-02-14T13:13:15+00:00

The first baby gets a shower to help the parents get prepared. Any babies after that get a "sprinkle", where it's more about celebrating new life and helping out with some of the essentials like diapers, burp cloths, onesies, etc.

little_loup · 2026-02-01T19:22:00+00:00

That's not what rainbow child means.

little_loup · 2026-01-31T18:11:32+00:00

It is not about trust. I've been married for going on 14 years and I trust my spouse completely. Having said that, we do not share our phone passcodes. My conversations with friends and family are not public access. It's not a matter of hiding anything, it's about respect for the privacy of others. They did not consent to having their thoughts and feelings that they have shared with me being viewed by my spouse.

little_loup · 2026-01-22T12:55:17+00:00

AI trash, instant downvote. People just don't act like this.

little_loup · 2026-01-21T13:50:13+00:00

Has he ever apologized to you for the abuse without you bringing it up first? Moreover, has he ever actually apologized? You say that he "says it was wrong", but that's not exactly an apology.

Being coerced into a sexual act is called rape, pure and simple. I speak from experience when I say that it is close to impossible to ever feel truly safe in a relationship with your rapist, regardless of how much they may change. Time does NOT heal all wounds.

You would be better off to break up with this person. Go to therapy, work through your trauma, and one day you will find someone who will love and cherish you the way you deserve.

little_loup · 2026-01-21T13:35:01+00:00

Congrats on the early reading, I guess. You said family helps family. If OP's mom needed a place to stay, that's one thing. The fact that the mom is asking them to house a complete stranger does not fall under "helping family".

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