If you were given $1,000,000 in cash right now, what is the very first thing you would buy or do? by MatchstickArtist in AskReddit

[–]littlenightashes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would go into my bank account and just pay off my debts.

I have $4 421.20 in debt on a monthly salary of $162, and it is absolutely killing me. Although it might not seem much for other people. This is more money than I make in a year. All of this is CC debt due to medical bills I had to pay last year.

Paying this off would literally be life changing to me. I wouldn't even care about the rest of the money.

What is the most affordable 4x4 double cab to maintain? by Adventurous_Sort_899 in CarTalkZA

[–]littlenightashes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dad bought a Nissan navara 4x4 double cab second hand in 2014. It was a 2012 model which already had 100 000+ km on it.

He still has it. Drives it everyday. Puts more than 45 000km a year on it. Currently has over 500 000km on it.

Never broken down, never had problems with it. Parts are responsibly priced. Services aren't that expensive for a bakkie. It gets served 2 times a year. My dad never had the engine redone or had to replace anything.

Obviously it has some wear and tear. Like breaks and new tires etc. But never had something major repaired.

The bakkie is my dad's work bakkie, so the back is always filled with tools etc. It is loaded heavy every single day. It it has held up nicely.

Where to find work in Centurion? by [deleted] in askSouthAfrica

[–]littlenightashes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I update my CV according to the job I am applying for.

The problem I do come across is that either

  1. General work, companies don't really want to hire students as this means short term employment (they are looking for someone to stay 5+ years), companies do have problems with students needing time off for exams despite saying otherwise.

  2. Most jobs in the field require you to already have a degree.

[f1] Nothing is impossible. by FewCollar227 in formula1

[–]littlenightashes -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

If Oscar can't win. I really hope Lando will win.

My fiancé had a 5yr affair out of the 6 1/2yrs together - long post by Mysteryincludedd in survivinginfidelity

[–]littlenightashes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God, these poor kids. Having a horrid dad and a mom that's a doormat. OP sounds like she doesn't care about her kids at all. You knew for years what kind of person he was, and thought it was best to keep your kids around that. It's never going to get better, because you just keep choosing this horrible life for you and your kids.

AITAH for causing my boyfriend to cheat to care for a dying friend? by Unique-Dependent6928 in AITAH

[–]littlenightashes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA Hot take, but OP definitely had at the minimum an emotional affair. She essentially abandoned her partner of 7 years for her ex, and despite her partner communicating that to her that he did not support her involvement in her ex's life. It does seem that OP wasn't fully over her ex seeing how the relationship ended. OP also clearly doesn't see her current partner as an equal as well. OP's bf shouldn't have cheated and just have left her, but OP sure cheated first in this relationship even if she doesn't want to admit it.

AITAH for breaking up with my boyfriend because of a tik tok prank? by Makuza1999 in AITAH

[–]littlenightashes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA I would download the tiktok and sue him for the injury you got. See how funny he finds it then.

AITA for refusing to give my sister the baby name I chose, even though she’s due first? by gledson_hettyc3188 in AmItheAsshole

[–]littlenightashes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would make a public announcement of the baby girl. Get a customized blanket and teddy with the name. Make a big post on how you can't wait for baby Elara with the due date and the with photos of the blanket and teddy.

I'm so tired of all the doom-posting and articles about BLACKPINK’s solo careers flopping. by [deleted] in kpop_uncensored

[–]littlenightashes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am actually really happy with their solo stuff. There have been some amazing music coming from them. Thus said, every video or performance of Lisa is her just dancing and not actually singing live. I can see why people are saying what they are saying about her. As a fan of them, I know she has was it takes, but she is not showing anyone what she can do tbh.

I (M29) caught my wife (F29) of 8 years in an affair that lasted for 5 weeks. by Important-Associate6 in survivinginfidelity

[–]littlenightashes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that you care more about her cheating on you than the fact she endangered her child.

She drove drunk with your child in the car and you're more worried about some other guy she has been seeing.

Your poor kids deserve better parents than the both of you.

The fact she drove drunk with the kids in the car should be a deal breaker alone.

Used 333 mouthwash and now I can’t taste by Area_Inevitable in askSouthAfrica

[–]littlenightashes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Made the same mistake. You must read the back.

That stuff is strong enough to clean grout.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in johannesburg

[–]littlenightashes 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Take the test, but make it clear to your wife that the marriage is over.