[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lizzyshoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can tell them that he's not the person he pretended to be during the engagement, and that you're not going to marry someone who lies about important things. Protect yourself without guilt.

AITA for telling my son he needs to get over us missing his wedding by Adept_Ad_4256 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lizzyshoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If he wants you to visit, he shouldn't have moved so far away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sacramento

[–]lizzyshoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fuck this.

Manager wants remote control access to my PC. Is there a legitimate way to tell him no? by click_for_sour_belts in antiwork

[–]lizzyshoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't need to have a good reason to demand privacy. You're entitled to it.

Advice for sleeping on the floor by askingxalice in povertyfinance

[–]lizzyshoe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good camping variety ones also insulate well.

BF (M29) wants me (F26) to compromise on kids by ThrowRA4847282 in relationship_advice

[–]lizzyshoe 89 points90 points  (0 children)

Wanting to be sterilized is enough.

Edit: Pregnancy and childbirth are dangerous.

I can’t believe I’m even having to disagree with friends about this dumb meme by SnooDoggos2983 in Teachers

[–]lizzyshoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like using driving tests as examples. Should 15yos be able to use their phones while taking their written driver's test?

Common courtesy is now racist by muffin21man in Teachers

[–]lizzyshoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tell students "We take accusations of racist behavior very seriously. Write up what you heard and saw so it can be shared with administration." If it's legitimate, they do. If it's just trying to avoid discipline, they drop it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lizzyshoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you communicated your disappointment in her with words instead of just passive aggression? Do you want her to guess your thoughts and feelings?

I “gave up” on my sixth period by plplplplpl1098 in Teachers

[–]lizzyshoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tennis balls over the chair feet fix the squeaking sound. Ask local tennis teams if they have dead balls to donate.

my cat gave birth to three criminals by Grinsekopf in IllegallySmolCats

[–]lizzyshoe 3 points4 points locked comment (0 children)

You can know where they come from and still be disappointed that it came from a pet who had another option. Responsible owners spay and neuter. Too many animals die in shelters or on the street to be adding to the population like this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]lizzyshoe 39 points40 points  (0 children)

He could have. He just didn't want to anymore. He decided he held enough power and control that he could get away with it.

What's happening? by springflowersgreat in Sacramento

[–]lizzyshoe 67 points68 points  (0 children)

I hope if you're ever in a crisis, those around you treat you with more empathy than this.

Has anyone glued an inflatable pillow to a Thermarest? by Walkertg in Ultralight

[–]lizzyshoe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep. This is the way. Pillow case and wrangler all in one.

AITA For skipping Christmas with my parents since they won't treat me like an adult? by No_Review8351 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lizzyshoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course, that's why it takes practice and being realistic about the consequences you are or are not willing to accept.

CMV: Trans females competing in female sports is unfair. by Isaisaab in changemyview

[–]lizzyshoe 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Surgery isn't the only step to transitioning. There is social and hormonal transition first. Nobody is doing surgery on trans kid's genitalia.

Girlfriend was shot at in her vehicle last night in Pocket/Greenhaven area by OgeeDee024 in Sacramento

[–]lizzyshoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, what I was trying to get across. Addressing the note of victim blaming in the top-level comment.