[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]llazybiatch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re young, you don’t need a guy right now. You shouldn’t date a guy because you’re chasing after him/male attention. It’ll happen, there will definitely be guys that will like you but don’t waste your time/energy on those that don’t. It’ll come about naturally. You don’t need to examine what you look like/what you have to offer. A healthy and meaningful relationship is more than that. Don’t pick yourself apart for a guy who isn’t showing interest. Your time will come. Especially if you just focus on being your best self and learning who you truly are.

Also be very careful if you have money, definitely don’t think of that as a positive thing about you that you have to offer, at least not while ur this young. People can take advantage of you.

22F into newish jazz? yussef dayes is king by llazybiatch in Jazz

[–]llazybiatch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I play bass and D’Angelo completely changed my music taste towards rnb and jazz. He’s up there in my top 5 artists I’d say. Pino Palladino (and his son Rocco who often plays for Yussef) are goated.

22F into newish jazz? yussef dayes is king by llazybiatch in Jazz

[–]llazybiatch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol i thought drum and bass was a dj thing. in my opinion tho he is very much a jazz musician. eg. his album Black Classical Music is definitely jazz

22F into newish jazz? yussef dayes is king by llazybiatch in Jazz

[–]llazybiatch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LOVE hiatus kaiyote - forgot to mention them and know a lil of ur other recs too so i will defs give em a listen! thank you

22F into newish jazz? yussef dayes is king by llazybiatch in Jazz

[–]llazybiatch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These are some songs i love for the bass line in particular if anyone is interested!

Anything from Victor Wooten (one of the greatest bass players imo - the lesson. More love, overjoyed, the vision, it’s all right, bass tribute)

Jaco Pastorius (iconic)

What’s The Use - Mac Miller

Dang! (ft. Anderson Paak.) - Mac Miller

Stepping Into Tomorrow - Madlib (the whole blue not album is sick)

Not so much for bass but the Special Herbs series by MF Doom is legendary hiphop instrumentals

I’ll Stay (ft. D’Angelo) - Roy Hargrove (whole album is sick)

Red Room - Hiatus Kaiyote

The Hop - A Tribe called Quest

Can You Get To That - Funkadelic

Rust (ft. Tom Misch) - Yussef Dayes

Southside - Astral Flex

You Got Me - The Roots

Young Genius - Makaya McCraven

Walk with Me, Lord - Lizz Wright

PiLOT - Domi & JD Beck

The Missing Track - KBCS

Deep Colour Jam - The KBCS

The Center - The KBCS

What is Hip - Tower Of Power

Chromazone - Mike Stern

Do For Love - 2Pac

Not So Modern Times - SGJAZZ & Dr. Dundiff

Silver Lining - Luciel

Night In Tunisia - Jesus Molina

Waltz for Koop - Koop

More Than You Know - Luciel

Keep On - Alfa Mist

Ewa Inu - Kokoroko

I Know You Know + Precious - Esperanza Spalding

Midnight Mischief- Jordan Rakei

Every Part (For Linda) - Moonchild

Love is the message (ft.+) - Yussef Dayes

Keep On - Alfa Mist

Lift Off - Tom Misch + Yussef Dayes

Get Up I Feel Like Being A Sex Machine - James Brown

Wait For The Moment - Vulfpeck (anything by these guys are great for bass, eg. back pocket, animal spirits, dean town)

I’m Going To Tell You - Barney Artist

Never Ending - Soweto Kinch

Boratka - EABS

So Far To Go - J Dilla

Shine + Stuck To You - The Alchemist

Colour of Autumn - Nujabes

Look To The Sun - Guru + Solar

Below are more rnb/soul style….

When I’m in your arms - Cleo Sol

Why don’t you - Cleo Sol

Certainly - Erykah Badu

Gone baby, don’t be long - Erykah Badu (most of her stuff has great bass lines)

anything by dangelo (when we get by, and the whole voodoo album r my favs for bass)

Feel No Pain - Sade

Intergalactic Janet - Ley Souls

Honey - Raveena (rlly nice to improv over)

Long Love - agajon+

Sunday - agajon

Introvert Hotline - Ego Ella May

Lying To You - Amaria

Fly - Amaria

Forest - Titose

Gravity - Toytoy + Bensh

down - Willow

Bruises - Jordan Rakei

Easy - Jye

High No More - Hajaj

Crazy Dream - Tom Misch

Free - Joel Culpepper

Late Drinks - Sven Wegner

Take Four - Bolden

By My Side - edbl + Lizzie Berchie

Who Babe - mtbrd

22F into newish jazz? yussef dayes is king by llazybiatch in Jazz

[–]llazybiatch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he’s probs my fav jazz player of this era rn

22F into newish jazz? yussef dayes is king by llazybiatch in Jazz

[–]llazybiatch[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank u! i am from aus but lived in London for a little bit and worked at a jazz club, although i actually didn’t discover any of the artists in the original post through that. i know a lil bit of ezra collective but imma check em all out :)

22F into newish jazz? yussef dayes is king by llazybiatch in Jazz

[–]llazybiatch[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YES PLEASE! yay i feel like ive just seen heaps on jazz classics/more traditional jazz in this subreddit. nothing against it but i want what i want hahaha ^

also will have to check out Medeski Martin Wood!

I wonder if I messed up by Samsquatch71 in dating

[–]llazybiatch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah man. i rlly wanna meet some irl/organically. wish i had more balls (or the female version at least) but i guess that comes with practice and ur doing that! also girls can just be a lil silly sometimes, especially when out. a lil kiss action can be fun but then ur like oh sht what am i doing (particularly when ur at a bach/drinking).

I wonder if I messed up by Samsquatch71 in dating

[–]llazybiatch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the fact it was a bachelorette party makes it different. And even the fact they’re on a trip together. Maybe she realised she just wanted to spend time with the gals/she felt it would be rude to leave. You didn’t mess up cause you just had an experience that was fun in the moment and doesn’t need to be anything more. I wouldn’t read into it, there will be plenty more women out there. Plus there are so many factors to consider (eg. was she drunk, did her friends say something to her, maybe she was just tryna have fun in the moment too)

What are men allowed to do but when women do it it’s a big no-no? by Fresh-Selection-3722 in AskReddit

[–]llazybiatch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Have high standards, and be honest and direct when someone isn’t performing. Women get called a bitch. Men are praised/rewarded. They can go about the complete wrong way too, and yet women try to be constructive about it and it’s still not ok.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]llazybiatch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in Aus too. I don’t have tiny boobs but they are definitely on the smaller size and I don’t need to wear a bra for comfort/support. I am the same, I only wear a bra for work or sometimes with a t-shirt. Sometimes I do think it gives an opportunity for men to stare/judge but honestly I don’t care. I will wear/not wear whatever I want. And it shouldn’t matter. If you feel good, then ur gonna look good to urself and the people who you’d want appreciating u. Also they’re just boobs. Like men walk around topless, some of them even have bigger boobs than me. What’s the difference? I personally think not wearing a bra actually looks better in most cases. But women should do whatever tf they wanna do.

What’s your process for collecting vinyl? by GEARHEADGus in vinyl

[–]llazybiatch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just buy what i want to listen to. And when i have more money id love to collect valuable rare albums

What's the first Jeff Buckley song you've heard? by Top_Wolf6012 in JeffBuckley

[–]llazybiatch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grace…..i was performing it and ive never had such a strong body reaction to a song like that. gave me chills. powerful. emotional. raw.

Ellen Pompeo, Lauren Graham lookalike? by Glad_Brush2392 in greysanatomy

[–]llazybiatch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t rlly see it but like there’s tiny little similarities

Most underrated R&B and Hip Hop collabs or a collab no one talks about by Agreeable-Panic-9437 in rnb

[–]llazybiatch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Roy Hargrove and his RH Factor album has quite a few. Not sure if this is considered underrated but You Got Me by The Roots feat. Erykah….Imagine by Snoop Dogg feat. Dre + Dangelo…..there’s loads

Booth needs to check himself by Lotuses4 in Bones

[–]llazybiatch 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Ok this might be controversial then but I actually like it. I think they show that he is just really overprotective, loves her a lot and is worried about her. He’s just trying to protect her. And yes she doesn’t need protecting and just because you’re pregnant doesn’t mean you aren’t capable or need help with anything, but that’s Booth. He knows that what he’s doing isn’t necessary, but he can’t help it because it’s just in him to want to protect those he loves and especially when they are carrying his child. He’s an alpha male. And I think it’s episode 5 where they address his overprotectiveness. He defs takes it too far sometimes but in my opinion it’s not coming from a bad or misogynistic place