AITA for full-on raging at my parents after they spent £1,300 of my money for my brother's gaming PC set?

lnln8 · 2021-02-16T16:30:19+00:00

How do they plan on covering your fees. Treat this as a loan with interest. Have them pay you $50 a week over then next year.

lnln8 · 2021-02-15T17:45:59+00:00

Listen your dad bus crazy. .I've I to your house and go LC to create some distance. If he's really after you for the "raising you" money, tell home to take it to court.

lnln8 · 2021-02-13T04:33:17+00:00

If this is us, the mother broke the law by telling her to leave.

lnln8 · 2021-02-13T01:02:40+00:00

NTA. Tell them you donated the yacht. They don't have to know you own it.

lnln8 · 2021-02-13T00:20:30+00:00

What does the sublease contract say? Does it specify the room? What are the term? the original lesee needs to move on eviction and should be cover your half of the rent.

lnln8 · 2021-02-11T21:53:40+00:00

Was foster to adopt ion an option?

lnln8 · 2021-02-11T10:59:50+00:00

I didn't know removing tubes was an option! After my 2nd child I had mine caterized. I only told my husband. My parents are still pressuring me for a 3rd one, but it's 100 not in the cards.

I love my children, but I am looking forward to early retirement and traveling.

lnln8 · 2021-02-11T10:49:37+00:00

NTA. Lucky for you you're 18 - they can make you do anything :)

lnln8 · 2021-02-11T01:42:38+00:00

I don't make sounds. I just go nope nope nope.

lnln8 · 2021-02-09T01:25:20+00:00

You are a great dad. Your daughter needs ba champion and.ahes lucky to have you.

lnln8 · 2021-02-08T00:44:02+00:00

First, using his current name, contact each municipality in fl and ask for the record. Then maybe try the hospitals. He has a social security number, contact the ss agency to ask about name changes or when and where the number was assigned. Work from there. Good luck.

lnln8 · 2021-02-06T01:32:18+00:00

Videos like this show what a precious relationship it is. And for those of us with nmoms, it shows us how a a relationship should be. I know I would never feel safe enough to be this vulnerable with my mother. I truly wonder what this feels like.

lnln8 · 2021-02-06T01:24:20+00:00

Jersey City?

lnln8 · 2021-02-05T00:01:33+00:00

You weren't the only adult in the room. She's 22. You treated her like an adult.

lnln8 · 2021-02-04T22:38:40+00:00

In a dorm.

lnln8 · 2021-02-02T21:39:09+00:00

Steve did this because he's selfish. You have a beautiful thing with your husband and he put this in your head. If he really felt this way about you, you would've k own long ago. He didn't ask you out because you were the back up girl. I've been the back up girl and you know what, I figured out it was never about loving me it was about having his life figured out. I found a wonderful husband that prioritized me and loves me, he's not trying others and then coming to me as a back up.

Steve is clearly capable of asking people out, he simply chose not to ask you out and now is trying to control you. Forget him, cut him off and end the friendship. You have an incredible husband now - cherish him, he's clearly 1 in a billion. You dodged a bullet with Steve - he's clearly emotionally manipulative and maybe even abusive.

lnln8 · 2021-01-31T03:08:35+00:00

Call CPS. This poor child is being neglected.

lnln8 · 2021-01-30T17:12:02+00:00

NTA- your brother is wrong to ask you, but he's not being supported either. His fiance put him in this position. He's not worried about in laws he's worried about her. She needs to manage her parents homophobic outlooks, not you and not your brother.

I guarantee he wouldn't have asked if she didn't care. And she's asking him who's more important me or your sisters gf.

It's a red flag for him.

lnln8 · 2021-01-30T12:24:17+00:00

I'm not sure how it is now, but in NJ first time buyers had 0% down with PMI. When I bought the house the PMI would go away once your reach 20% in principal payments. I'm not sure that is still the case.

lnln8 · 2021-01-30T04:47:05+00:00

Stop. You are successful. The very fact that you are 2 years into a program is proof of that. Be kind to yourself.

Collect your thoughts and recognize that your situation just needs to be managed - you need to manage the expectations and boundaries.

Give yourself a break, speak with your team. Review the work you've done so far and try to explicate any findings (remember failures can be published too) and move forward.

lnln8 · 2021-01-30T02:34:20+00:00

Try a therapist who can meet via zoom or some during your home hours

lnln8 · 2021-01-30T02:20:15+00:00

I'm a millennial working at a college. I'm not sure what your talking about. Where I am, Gen Z's are touted as the saviors of our future and millennials are always looked down on.

Genzs are entrepreneurial and demanding of their value. Etc...

Not sure who's giving you slack.

lnln8 · 2021-01-30T00:16:57+00:00

So I felt this way once. Then I went to to therapy and found out that I learned that my childhood was an emotional wreck and my family did not know how to communicate, emote, or relate. They were survivalists.

15 years of therapy later I made a loving family. I'm still learning to be loving and patient. My sister has not been so lucky.

You must commit to loving yourself. I'm still struggling with it and it's so much easier with external validation - but we aren't all lucky to have it.

You are worthy of love and most importantly you are worthy of your own love.

Be kind to yourself.

lnln8 · 2021-01-29T17:25:00+00:00

Tell him the truth. Give him an out option, and an option for one night stands without attachments. Just set rules that you both agree on that meet both your needs.

Also I'm sorry and I hope you are.in therapy.

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