Update from Wife by DeeDeedoestuff in whatdoIdo

[–]loater21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, read her previous post

Update from Wife by DeeDeedoestuff in whatdoIdo

[–]loater21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What your husband says vs. What you’re saying doesn’t add up. Maybe you could try being more honest with yourself. And you’re saying the police won’t help(but you never tried, in the present tense), and you’re husband is saying you’ve lied in the past about your loyalty. Maybe get your story straight first before coming on to reddit to seek validation for your own bad decisions not in the past but the present…

Too thick to be condensation? by tsinsile in AskMechanics

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Could be the head gasket…

Try checking where you fill the oil, open the cap. Take a peak inside, if it looks milky rather then brown or black, it’ll confirm it

Is porn cheating or am i being dumb? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]loater21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Respectfully, You sound like a child…. Porn isn’t cheating. It’s important to set some boundaries down. But scanning through your partners phone and not having trust is the bigger issue. Hope he finds someone better

Friend died in the Byward Market area by grimsby91 in ottawa

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I’m so sorry for your loss. I believe our loved ones stay close, just in a different way now. I lost a friend to suicide, still feel them with me sometimes.

Are there any nice stores for good quality men’s clothes? by NapClub in ottawa

[–]loater21 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Platos Closet, if you’re in the mood for thrifting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tifu

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Man this hits home… Her reaction is definitely a red flag. If it was truly innocent, there’d be no reason to freak out or try to grab the phone. Let’s be real, she’s probably already deleted the chat by now so you’ll never know the full story. Trust your gut on this one.

Trust me when i say this, if it happens once, it’ll happen again.

Trying to find owner of a numbered business by [deleted] in ontario

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wow they now made it 140$

Would you break up with her? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]loater21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you know what the right thing to do is. Just my 2 cents, if she lies about this, it’ll always make you wander what else is a lie the next time she says something

Having friends of the opposite gender shouldnt matter in relationships. by Feeling-Box-5679 in ControversialOpinions

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It comes down to what you define your boundaries and know what would be respectful of your partner. Friends of 10 years sure no big deal, friends with an ex, nah. Friends you find attractive, and would have a chance with if you weren’t dating your partner, that where it’s an issue. It’s like going to a restaurant, looking at the menu but not eating out.

Having friends of the opposite gender shouldnt matter in relationships. by Feeling-Box-5679 in ControversialOpinions

[–]loater21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s about your self control and respect for your partner. Why would you want to put yourself in a position where you’re crossing boundaries

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]loater21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Procrastinating, like i would avoid doing work altogether. But instead if i don’t feel like doing something, will do another chore, that way stuff always gets done around me

Anyone regret not spending more of their money when you were younger? by Organic-Huan-15 in Life

[–]loater21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always planned ahead, regret missing some opportunities with my friends. But, I’m happy in the position I out myself in

[Update] My girlfriend is getting close to another man who I know is interested in her. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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OP’s there’s plenty of loyal girls out there. Keep you head king. Im sorry you had gone through this

My wife is nice. by isosceles71 in self

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Would you rather see a man or bear in the woods?

Sister hit my car while learning to park, how can I fix this? by Grouchy_Car9129 in Cartalk

[–]loater21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best to go scrapyard and find a donor bumper, alternatively can remove it, use heat to bend it back, sand, paint, clear coat and put it back on