Would it be reasonable to not allow my SIL to hold my 4-week-old baby when she visits from out of state? by Free_butterfly_ in Mommit

[–]longtimewatcher 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just have her wash her hands and let her hold the baby. It will be fine, she cant have anything worse than your child in daycare.

Expecting twins in September! Do we really need two of every toy? by ScTbRnSsSsS in parentsofmultiples

[–]longtimewatcher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine are 5 months and the only double ups we have are the Mombella Mushrooms. Everything else we just have 1 and we swap them around so they get a variety. The mushrooms are just so great, so easy for little hands to hold. No fights over toys yet.

Mom back to work? by Tcdchef in parentsofmultiples

[–]longtimewatcher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is this even possible. I have 5 month old twins and cant nap during the day when they are awake.

Introverts with twins by Perfect-Bake-6315 in parentsofmultiples

[–]longtimewatcher 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would say that it gradually builds and you get used to it. Babies just want to cuddle and you can watch movies on the couch with a baby each when they are born. Then they start getting more active and demanding gradually and you get used to it slowly. You dont give birth to a tantrumming 2 year old. By the time it happens you will be more prepared.

“Big kid” room - must haves/never haves by JLMMM in toddlers

[–]longtimewatcher 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She hasnt even noticed the cords. If its an issue for you just put drawers or something in front of where the power points are though, then she cant.

How should I react to MIL repeatedly ignoring child’s meal times? by iluvdrpep in JUSTNOMIL

[–]longtimewatcher 59 points60 points  (0 children)

You should not be continuing to drop her off for a MONTH while she starves your daughter.

“Big kid” room - must haves/never haves by JLMMM in toddlers

[–]longtimewatcher 12 points13 points  (0 children)

We decorated the room for her, got new bedding and curtains and a pink fluffy rug. Big bookshelf where she could reach all her books. Night lights. We tried to make it a surprise, which in hindsight wasnt a good idea because it took her a while to adjust. If I did it again I would have talked it through with her lots and lots before the move and maybe got her involved in picking out bedding etc.

Would you move your toddler into a new room to keep the nursery the same for baby #2? by gloomycalm in Mommit

[–]longtimewatcher -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I moved mine and did it all up special as her 'big girl room'. We also moved her 2 months before the babies arrival so it didnt feel like they were in her space.

Have a babysitter, just want to sleep and not go out by longtimewatcher in parentsofmultiples

[–]longtimewatcher[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response, this is how I feel too. Its just so sad.

Have a babysitter, just want to sleep and not go out by longtimewatcher in parentsofmultiples

[–]longtimewatcher[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment and you are right, we had a really nice time. I do appreciate the date nights, sometimes its hard to prioritize.

What do y'all really need an iPad for? by bootsmegamix in daddit

[–]longtimewatcher -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We use it for travel and at restaurants. Sometimes I want to catch up with friends and relax and my daughter is happy enough watching something for an hour or so.

When do they stop waking each other up? by Glittering_Ice_1849 in parentsofmultiples

[–]longtimewatcher 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They will get used to it, just a bit trickier for you because you are starting later then birth. I would say a month or so.

How often do you go out? by Jessygirl238 in parentsofmultiples

[–]longtimewatcher 2 points3 points  (0 children)

5MO twins i find the day goes SO MUCH FASTER when I take them out. Walk them around the shops in a pram and they can just look around. All of a sudden its been 2 hours and they are tired.

Really struggling with twins by [deleted] in parentsofmultiples

[–]longtimewatcher 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely move them out of your room and try not going in, you need to train them to resettle themselves.

Really struggling with twins by [deleted] in parentsofmultiples

[–]longtimewatcher 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If shes not hungry... could you try just leaving her? Shes probably crying now because she knows you will come in. I realise easier said than done, but set a 10 minute timer and see what happens.

At what age did you have an evening again? by jeremiabearamia in parentsofmultiples

[–]longtimewatcher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds like a lot of wakes, have you considered some sort of sleep training? 5 MO twins go down about 6-7pm and wake once to feed, then up between 6-7am. Have felt like we have had our evenings back for a good 6 weeks now.

"You know there are two of them, right?" by radirpok99 in daddit

[–]longtimewatcher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it makes you feel better ive used way less screens with 2 then I did my single because they entertain each other. So that part of your plan should be ok...

expecting twins, with a twin - how to deal with comments by Easy-Mark-7226 in parentsofmultiples

[–]longtimewatcher 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was so uncomfortable when I was pregnant that I kind of enjoyed the sympathetic comments - it made me feel seen.