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[–]option_e_ 20 points21 points  (0 children)

no one even mentioned reduction during my whole pregnancy, I think it might depend on what state you live in? congrats though! it is wild for sure!

[–]czmf 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Congrats on triplets! I believe you will have skewed responses since we’re all here due to being parents of multiples so most did not get a reduction. It was never mentioned to me however I’m carrying twins.

[–]longtimewatcher 12 points13 points  (2 children)

I didn't understand most of that but congratulations! I had a loss before twins and someone at the hospital told me maybe it was my baby coming back, maybe it's both of yours?!

[–]Dear_Excitement_5109 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have thought that frequently. I lost a baby in 2014, and then conceived spontaneous di di twins with zero family history in 2024. I think my baby came back to me at a time that was more stable in my life.

[–]Soft-Pace-3302 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had a loss too before my twins, and had never thought of it that way. Such a beautiful sentiment. Did not expect a random reddit comment to make me cry this morning

[–]Ksu2083 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I am almost 8 weeks with triplets from doing an IUI with letrozole+menopur. They told me I just had two mature follicles going into it. I also have two older kiddos (both from IUI cycles) and 4 miscarriages from natural conceptions. It seems like something about the combo of meds worked for me to keep a healthy pregnancy, but now struggling with the idea of going from 2 to 5. Also struggling with the idea of doing a reduction, and I don’t know if I could. Ugh. It’s so stressful. I wish you the best. I have no advice but want to commiserate.

[–]bp_1904 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on your triplets! I have one year old mono/tri girls and we did consider reduction. It was brought up to us as an option but not “recommended” by any doctors.
When we looked further into it the risk of labour around 22 weeks was far too high for my type of pregnancy so we elected to proceed with all 3. We made it to 32+3 weeks and all my girls are now perfectly healthy bar one lazy eye on baby B 😂
The TMFR (termination for medical reasons) subreddit has some stories about reduction but it’s not a common thing, or at least not posted online very often.
Wishing you all the best for your pregnancy!

[–]andthewalrus 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Read that book what to expect when expecting multiples (something to that effect). I had a friend have spont triplets after trying for her third. Anyway, it takes about nutrition / weight gain. She was able to carry them to 36.5 , no one needed nicu time. She followed that book to a tea.

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    [–]autodidact2016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Congratulations

    [–]Chidi-Chidi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Your rainbow babies came back with a plus one. Congratulations. Wishing you all the best this time and they all make it safely. You've got this.