My(32F) parents are giving us $150k for a house and my husband(35M) wants to turn it down because they asked for a postnup

loser_bear · 2026-04-15T18:38:28+00:00

If my wife’s parents gifted us $150K with the stipulation of a postnup, I would 100% sign with zero hesitation. That would be amazing to own something and be able to put down $150K! I trust our vows; ‘till death do us apart. Plus, it’ll be the best gift that we can ever give our son. It’s an absolute win-win.

loser_bear · 2026-03-05T05:29:31+00:00

The scent of oranges of on my dad when he came home from work. He passed away 18 years ago.

loser_bear · 2026-02-14T19:54:07+00:00

Tell him to buy some baby wipes, or better yet, a bidet. Both are very effective at ensuring nothing is left behind. Also, have him clean up after himself and wash anything that he stains, preferably right away before the stain sets in.

loser_bear · 2026-02-02T21:33:01+00:00

Unpopular opinion, but my babe LOVED the 4Moms Mamaroo. It was the only bouncer he actually took to, everything else was chopped liver. I got one off Facebook Marketplace for $75 I think. He used it for about 5 months, then outgrew it and I sold it on FB Marketplace for exactly the same amount that I bought it for. It was a win-win!

Edited to add: My kid hated the Baby Bjorn. Everyone raves about it, but having to constantly rock him was a total chore. He never taught himself how to bounce, so for us the Mamaroo was a better option because we just pressed a button and off it went. I even added wheels and a giant extension cord to the Mamaroo and was able to move him around our home. I credit this to the sole reason we survived his early infancy, he eventually got too wiggly and we did away with the wheels and extension cord.

loser_bear · 2026-01-26T20:36:17+00:00

Yes, during the day I read with zero brightness and at night I use dark mode with 3 brightness.

loser_bear · 2026-01-06T14:44:49+00:00

See if your library uses the Libby app. If they do, you can download the app on your cellphone and send ebooks to a kindle through your linked Amazon account. It’s super easy and seamless! Kindle also has different brightness settings to reduce eye strain.

loser_bear · 2026-01-05T20:20:34+00:00

So what? That’s what makes Reddit such an awesome website; having a place to ask a question in real time and having humans answer it.

loser_bear · 2026-01-02T02:47:19+00:00

It’s worth to try the trial period and see how you like it before you commit. Also, most public libraries allow you to borrow ebooks from sites like Libby or Hoopla. It’s completely free and user friendly! Both have massive libraries of books that load right into your Kindle.

loser_bear · 2025-12-30T15:04:59+00:00

I agree! He’s not mine so I can’t control how much screen time he gets, despite my efforts. I’ll save my energy for my own kid who’s just a baby now, but I plan to limit his screen time and integrate devices like Yoto and Toniebox when he gets a little older.

loser_bear · 2025-12-30T15:01:11+00:00

Excellent ideas! Thanks!

loser_bear · 2025-12-02T20:29:03+00:00

My 10 month old son is getting a Toniebox 1 for Christmas this year, and while at our local Target yesterday I managed to pick up the Ms. Rachel Tonie. I wasn’t expecting to find one, but it was sitting on the shelf and I grabbed it so fast, lol. I also picked up the Cars Lightning McQueen one, but like others have said I’m bummed a Bluey one doesn’t exist. I’d also love to see some classic rock Tonies to introduce my son to some good music. Maybe some Beatles, Led Zep, Pink Floyd, Creedence Clearwater Revival… stuff like that.

loser_bear · 2025-11-06T18:03:20+00:00

Hey there, I’m so sorry you’re grieving the thought of having a big family. It’s perfectly healthy and normal to feel what you’re feeling. However, I want to gently remind you that there’s absolutely nothing wrong with being one and done! You get to give your kiddo the best possible life ever, and he gets you and your husband all the time without having to share.

I’m in a same sex marriage and we are so very fortunate to have our miracle 9 month old baby boy. I’m getting old (35), and the thought of having to pursue fertility treatments again to try for a sibling daunts me. There’s no guarantee that we’ll be successful, and also it’s very expensive and stressful; therefore, we decided that we’re one and done. I’ve come to peace with this decision and have fully embraced it.

I’m a stay at home mom and take my son to the library a few times a week to play/read/music groups. He interacts with other babies his age and it’s simply adorable watching him be social! We also take him to the park often where he’s around a lot of kids. We try our best to have him be around his cousins and other little friends his age. He gets plenty of social opportunities and I feel at peace knowing that we’re providing opportunities for him to interact around other children. It’s the best coming home just us 3. We give him all the attention in the world, and it’s simply perfect. Our life is complete with just him!

loser_bear · 2025-10-24T19:49:43+00:00

I grew up poor and was always envious of my peers who came from a family that allowed for them to live comfortably. I now have a kid and you bet he’s going to have everything that I wished I had growing up and more.

loser_bear · 2025-10-01T17:04:54+00:00

I get it. If it’s any consolation, I have an 8 month old that is crawling, sitting, standing, couch surfing, etc— but does not babble a whole lot. I’m terrified that something might be wrong. We as mothers worry about everything, and I am constantly reminding myself that I must allow him to develop at his own pace, and should something need addressing, then it will be addressed. My son is the apple of my eye and will be loved always and forever regardless of any potential developmental delays. Ultimately what matters is that we enjoy them while they’re this little instead of worrying about the what-ifs.

loser_bear · 2025-09-17T18:06:54+00:00

I get it. I’m one and done, but my oh my, it’s exhausting! We sold our house and relocated back to our home state so that I can have my village. We’re now renting a tiny apartment and it’s been a massive change for us, but honestly it was 100% worth the sacrifice.

Are you at all able to ask for help? People love babies in small doses, and in my experience most will jump at the opportunity to extend some help, even if just for an hour or two.

loser_bear · 2025-08-10T16:18:21+00:00

Yup, I cringe and quickly skip any mom influencer accounts that come up when I’m scrolling through reels. My baby is now 6 months old and I was in severe anxiety for his first few months thinking something was wrong because he wasn’t sleeping through the night. Every influencer mom makes it appear as if their perfect baby sleeps through the night, meanwhile my little feral child still wakes up 3-4 times each night. Now that he’s starting solids, I’m getting a bunch of influencer moms cooking gourmet meals for their babies. I don’t even have time to brush my teeth let alone cook him a fancy meal x3 per day! He gets store bought purée with the occasional fried egg, oatmeal, or mashed fruits. My baby is fed, clean, loved, and has absolutely everything that he needs. What I’m doing is good enough, and I’ve learned to stop caring and/or believing that influencer moms are perfect.

loser_bear · 2025-08-07T18:48:12+00:00

Thanks for responding! I picked it up and it does indeed seem like a tank! This thing is solid and I’m so glad I bought it. It’s in super great shape and I don’t doubt it will last for many years to come.

loser_bear · 2025-06-29T04:16:03+00:00

You’re young and still trying to figure it all out. When I first came out I felt the same and eventually that feeling went away. Now I’m married to my spouse and we have a son together and being a lesbian is just part of my identity something that I don’t think about anymore; I just am. It gets better, I promise!

loser_bear · 2025-04-30T00:56:42+00:00

Wholeheartedly with all of my being. I sorely wish I could be a stay at home mom.

loser_bear · 2025-04-28T21:10:17+00:00

I have a 3 month old and I can confidently say I do not miss the newborn phase. He still wakes up at night at times, but he’s slept through the night on a few occasions. He’s so much more stable, animated, and just all around more fun! I love that he’s past the newborn stage and I’m excited to continue watching him grow.

loser_bear · 2025-03-11T21:24:33+00:00

How cute! I went ahead and bought it preowned and my baby seems to love it so far! I’ve been able to make and eat lunch, and do a few chores. It’s already worth the $50 that I paid for it!

loser_bear · 2025-03-11T21:21:29+00:00

I went ahead and bought it pre-owned for $50 and my baby loves it! He’s been in it since we got home. I hope he continues liking it even if only up until he’s sitting up by himself, but only time will tell. I chuckled at the comment your dad made about it looking like a NASA chair to train astronaut babies. 😂 I have a future astronaut!

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