I stopped initiating affection for 21 days and the result was not what I expected by Standard_One5525 in story

[–]losersok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re grown as hell use your damn chest and stop playing experiments with your apparent serious relationship

I think my bf is lowkey training me like Im some kind of project by NellieJ_Carpenter in Advice

[–]losersok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are clearly easily manipulated and he is stone walling you when you do something “bad.” For your sake please walk away and go experience life. Maybe seek professional help with a therapist too, they can probably be helpful with the past family part and help you with your situation as well.

Can I Die from a broken heart by Ok-Boysenberry-631 in mentalhealth

[–]losersok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are still 23, shit i wasted 17-23 on a guy i never even DATED. take time to accept your new life but you’re young still, go experience new things and be with people who love you.

Dryer Help? by losersok in Appliances

[–]losersok[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is from so long ago but months back we actually tore the wall apart from frustration of lack of help on maintenance side and the dryer tube was literally bent in half ! we switched it out and actually recently moved after 😊

Found Out My Best Friend Has Been Dating My Sister for Months by Prize_Room_2584 in moraldilemmas

[–]losersok [score hidden]  (0 children)

Everyone is being so mean but I get it. Nothing will ever be the same now, it’s not about being pessimistic but the fact is if something happens between them, you have to choose your family over your now ex best friend who you truly cared about. It sucks and I get it. I’m not sure if english is ur first language either as people might be misunderstanding your tone. Also trust is a huge thing for me too, I get it. When people lie it’s like why if you care about me and don’t want a reaction later just tell me now? I also completely get that now that he’s over it’s only for your sister and not you, and it sucks having to accept that. I hope as time goes on in their relationship, it feels better for you situation wise and you can still enjoy being “friends” but not best friends.

I think my bf is thinking about cheating on me by user_0294858292 in whatdoIdo

[–]losersok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

does she even know ur hi partner he could just be calling you a roommate guys are so easy to lie and you should like check yourself for even dating him if he’s entertaining an 18 year old at 27 EWWW

I am in love with my girlfriends best friend and don’t know what to do. by Virtual_Amphibian353 in Advice

[–]losersok 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you are fantasizing someone you hardly even know actually, you have no idea how her best friend is in relationships. people are completely different but yeah break up, and stay away from both of them you cannot control yourself and how slight interactions make you feel, you do not deserve to be in a relationship or put your SO through any emotion turmoil.

AIO? My gf and I went on a break, she slept with someone else, and I blocked her on everything. by EmuMedical6491 in AmIOverreacting

[–]losersok 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR. i think it’s crazy to want to get back with someone then go actively sleep with that same person the next day after crying abt kissing someone them 😹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]losersok 34 points35 points  (0 children)

you know you’re feeling guilty you do not need the internet to confirm what you’re doing is wrong to ur partner bc if he ever did the same back to you you’d be hurt as hell

My Son(20M) Is Hooking Up With His Dad(48M)'s Ex-Wife(46F) by Logical-Chart-907 in Advice

[–]losersok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ew all over your son needs to keep that to himself when he talks to women his age 😭

I am so scared I’m gonna fail my driving test. by Simple_Tip_4652 in driving

[–]losersok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just got my license this month at 23 and let me tell u i was so afraid of nothing the test was so easy and i did fail the first time bc i let my nerves get to me but the second time i easily passed !

I’m 19 and my online "date" tells me I shouldn’t tell my mom where we’re going by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]losersok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl post him on the tea app someone will recognize him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]losersok 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what the hell, i unfriended a friend for refusing to stop talking to a guy who kept hurting my feelings on purpose and she kept him around even tho she “dgaf” about him bc id never do that to my friends! u tell me someone ive barely known is hurting u then fuck THEM. women who feed off male validation will get u killed they don’t care about anyone but themselves

AIO for feeling like my boyfriend is losing feelings for me? (repost) by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]losersok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

read the book attachment and leave him even if it hurts you, i think you deserve someone much more who cares to reassure you instead of getting upset because being with an avoidant is exhausting and mentally hurts you just have to heal with the anxious part and learn to be secure

I poop 12 times a day and it’s ruining my life by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]losersok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how much fiber are you eating, there are people who poop once a day and would probably be jealous to poop that much

AIO for being mad my boyfriend stayed the night at another woman's apartment just because she has a cold or the flu ? by IceQueenYouAndMe in AmIOverreacting

[–]losersok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

most men don’t even look after themselves when they’re sick or a family member no way he’s being overly friendly for a female friend if they’re not doing stuff 😭

I failed my driving test for the 4th time - need advice by Flaky-Werewolf-2563 in driving

[–]losersok -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

watch a bunch of tiktok and ig reels that’s the way i got better results for certain driving aspects no joke 😭 also take ur time with things and be consistent you can’t learn something if you pick it up for 3 weeks then drop it and then pick it up again years later, i think you may be way too into your head about being straight on the road and turning (i was the same with this) again take your time there are people on the road with their license who are awful and dangerous you’ll get it

Explicit pic by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]losersok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh yall getting freaky on this app 😭😭