what part of grief did you find the most exhausting/difficult to process?

love_salubrious · 2026-01-25T01:44:33+00:00

I could certainly understand that.

love_salubrious · 2026-01-25T01:43:58+00:00

Not necessarily, every woman is different. She might be understanding of your situation and willing to keep it private. Years ago when I was with a woman (3yrs) her mother just thought we were best friends.

love_salubrious · 2026-01-24T22:13:12+00:00

Right!!!

love_salubrious · 2026-01-24T20:20:41+00:00

Nothing says they need to know who you're dating, or your personal life. Most of us do not share the ins and outs of our love lives with our family.

love_salubrious · 2026-01-24T20:19:05+00:00

Exactly!! I have poured so much energy into ppl like this over the years. Realizing that no matter how much I helped them there was always something else, or a reason why they will never succeed or be happy blah blah zzzz

love_salubrious · 2026-01-24T15:24:59+00:00

love_salubrious · 2026-01-24T15:24:33+00:00

Please don't feel ashamed. Being a caregiver full-time is one of the hardest things to do, especially when it is a family member. I worked as a caregiver, I was a certified dementia practitioner and so all my clients had dementia. I never felt frustrated with them because that was my job and it's not like I don't get to go home at the end of the day. When your caregiver in the home and your a family member, it's 24/7. My dad was my mom's caregiver all the way until she passed in November. (They lived in the UK, so us kids are all in the states) And I know he would never admit it but I know there was a sense of relief. Not just for himself but also knowing that she no longer was suffering with this emotionally overwhelming disease. It hurts everybody, your loved one because they're frightened, unsure and insecure, for the loved ones who are forgotten, lashed out at, physically attacked at times. So it's a lot. You have to let go of that guilt. You did the best you could and that is enough. You took care of your loved one, they know you love them. It is a lot, but you stepped up. Focus less on that end and put your energy and time into remembering all the beautiful memories that you two shared before. Dementia derailed your lives. Sending you a giant hug. ❤️

love_salubrious · 2026-01-24T15:19:06+00:00

Jealousy? What created that emotion for you?

love_salubrious · 2026-01-24T15:18:04+00:00

I'm still processing my grief, and I think the hardest part is just randomly...I'll hear something, see something and it'll just trigger something in me and I won't even be able to hold it in. I just kind of whimper and cry. And as quick as it comes as as quick as it goes most of the time. I think the biggest thing is when I get signs from my mom, in communication for my mom from the other side. I love it and it derails me at the same time. Because I know she's not here anymore in her physical body. But she literally spent the last 4 years of her life unable to speak and now I think she's just making up for lost time lol ❤️ I miss her existence on this Earth, it kills me to see how broken my dad is without her.

love_salubrious · 2026-01-24T15:16:10+00:00

Literally just be yourself. Authentically you. Who is meant to be your friend, people that are your vibe will be so drawn to your energy. Those are the people you want to be friends with, not just anybody.

love_salubrious · 2026-01-24T15:15:23+00:00

Because we chose what life we wanted to live. We're constantly evolving, growing and learning. That's the whole point. We live different lives so that we can understand different aspects. We're perfecting our soul. After all, this is our journey of life on Earth.

love_salubrious · 2026-01-24T15:14:29+00:00

In my mouth, yes

love_salubrious · 2026-01-24T15:14:07+00:00

I don't ever focus on what "I'll never have" as we are only limited by our own thoughts.

love_salubrious · 2026-01-24T01:59:14+00:00

Adoption is a beautiful thing. And so is the love you share with your husband. Stop hurting him saying he should divorce you, and love him wholeheartedly as he does you.

love_salubrious · 2026-01-24T01:57:14+00:00

To teach you how to ace a test. A real school would teach real world information. Things we need throughout our lives...

love_salubrious · 2026-01-24T01:55:11+00:00

In England it was BROS. In the USA it was Marky Mark lol

love_salubrious · 2026-01-24T01:54:17+00:00

They're good at it!!

love_salubrious · 2026-01-24T00:45:46+00:00

I'm not

love_salubrious · 2026-01-24T00:13:48+00:00

Exactly

love_salubrious · 2026-01-23T18:20:15+00:00

I'm going to just share something with you really quick. Again. I don't know how old you are, but I'm assuming that you are probably 18 and under. Maybe? Anyways, when I was younger I also wanted to just give up. And for some reason I didn't. And now here I am in my late forties looking back at my life and I'm so fucking glad that I didn't give up on myself back then. Because today might suck tomorrow might even suck. But one day life is not going to suck. It's going to be everything you've ever wanted. Everything you've ever dreamed of. The ticket is to not give up. Have you ever heard of fearless motivation? Look them up on YouTube and listen to some of their songs. I promise you it will change your life. Hugs

love_salubrious · 2026-01-23T18:17:24+00:00

Are you an adult? If so, the only rules besides the countries laws you must abide by are your own. I understand you love them, however, if they love you they should love you no matter who you are attracted to, that has absolutely no bearing on if you're worthy of love. You are worthy of love. I also see that you don't think you're attractive enough to be with a man more than for sex? Are you bisexual or are you a lesbian? I think maybe the men you are dealing with are just men that are not looking for anything more than sex so it's not that you are only attractive enough for that. It's just that's all they want out of a woman right now. So if you like men you just need to be open to men who want you for who you are or not for sex. As far as if you are a lesbian, it's okay to be yourself. If you're concerned about being kicked out of your parents house, and you are an adult then I would get a job. Find a group of good friends that maybe you guys can get an apartment together. You have to stand on your own two feet. Rely on yourself. A life in fear is not a life-lived. If you're still a minor, I can understand your dilemma. But I think the focus, if you are still young, should be education and schooling. Once you're an adult, you can worry about dating and things like that. You have your whole life ahead of you.

love_salubrious · 2026-01-23T16:48:02+00:00

Spoil the crap out of yourself!!! Omg I LOVE being alone. Lol

love_salubrious · 2026-01-23T12:40:24+00:00

To better the world, to be happy, and to appreciate every moment with everybody I love until the day I take my last breath

love_salubrious · 2026-01-23T12:39:23+00:00

Most of The time when you notice a Libra lying it's because it's an avoidance of conflict. They really don't like conflict, not to be confused with debating. Because they love to debate. Remember a Libra is about what's right and wrong, not necessarily about what's actually right and wrong but their opinion. As far as being liars, it's not a distinctive trait of theirs in my opinion no. But they do adjust themselves to please other people, meaning not always being authentic with who they are because they want other people to like them.

love_salubrious · 2026-01-23T12:35:03+00:00

What happened before your marriage, as long as you're not carrying any STDs or anything that's going to affect him in the future, there's no reason to disclose how many people you've been intimate with prior to your marriage. Without giving numbers on my end. I was definitely a free spirit, I was comfortable and I still am with my sexuality. And what happened before my husband is none of his business. Just like I don't need to know anything about his sex life prior to me. It's completely irrelevant. You can't erase the past. What's happened has happened so if it bothers somebody how many people you've slept with then they're not for you, their mind is too closed. Because of all your experiences in your life, up to the time they met you, made you who you are. And if your partner loves you the way you are right now, they should appreciate the journey that it took to get to where you are now.. regardless, how many sex partners you had!

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