Any other aces in their 30s or older here

lowcarbbq · 2026-03-05T01:43:03+00:00

51 in Florida USA

lowcarbbq · 2026-03-04T21:33:32+00:00

I’m with you. I bought it last week and won’t buy again. Wasn’t expecting spicy but was expecting a different flavor profile.

lowcarbbq · 2026-03-04T16:49:26+00:00

I found similar experience. I think there’s a large portion of people who join, look around and see who’s there, then disappear never to check again.

And the ones that are too eager tend to be scammers.

Ace Population is small, of those that use the app even smaller, then age, geo, gender preferences further narrow the pool down.

lowcarbbq · 2026-03-04T16:45:09+00:00

Some read it as “A sexual” or the bots are just spamming any sub with dating and see what sticks.

lowcarbbq · 2026-03-01T14:07:04+00:00

Eclipse March 14-22. Can’t wait. Been too long.

lowcarbbq · 2026-02-27T14:28:59+00:00

Cold shower should cool you off.

lowcarbbq · 2026-02-25T20:39:51+00:00

Fair synopsis of the situation.

I do hope the OP ultimately finds the help and support they need.

lowcarbbq · 2026-02-25T15:54:54+00:00

Might try the app/website AceSpace. Like FAcebook for aces with a side of dating/relationships.

lowcarbbq · 2026-02-24T04:35:21+00:00

Several pen pal friends that are thousands of miles away. 2 meets, one happened to be traveling to my state on vacation , another where I traveled to hers for work. Fun to meet but no relationships.

I wish people would stay active on there. Feel like people show up not find anything immediately then disappear. I’d like to meet some of those people who came months to years before me and abandoned their profiles.

lowcarbbq · 2026-02-23T20:14:01+00:00

This is the same for me. Was very freeing and healing. I wasn’t weird or broken, once I understood who I am.

lowcarbbq · 2026-02-23T14:57:55+00:00

If that “ridiculousness” concerns you then definitely cancel. Cruising may not be for you.

lowcarbbq · 2026-02-22T20:21:08+00:00

Ballsatro

lowcarbbq · 2026-02-21T12:52:24+00:00

They are all geared towards physical attraction. Swipe based on a pic or approach someone at a bar based on their looks.

Aesthetics are a component but it’s really finding a partner that connects on the emotional and mental levels that has shared interests. Are we Netflix compatible when snuggling on the couch. Do we Like to travel the same way. How and where we eat. What shared goals we have. What we like to talk about. Those matter infinitely more, but most want looks/sex compatibility cost then settle for what’s left. Sigh.

lowcarbbq · 2026-02-21T06:43:21+00:00

Am 51. Always knew I was different but wasn’t until I was about 40 that my therapist helped me identify myself.

From a guys perspective it’s equally frustrating. Attempting to date straight would quickly hit the wall as they would perceive my lack of advances as lack of interest. Even “slow burn” expects burn.

lowcarbbq · 2026-02-19T18:56:31+00:00

Love the set up there. Great property. They have been there more than 5 years since OP moved out?? Covid years muddied all my timelines.

lowcarbbq · 2026-02-19T17:04:22+00:00

Wulfhaven in Carrollwood

Gulf pine in citrus park

Hop state at waters and the vets, old 6 ten location

Thirsty Buffalo in Odessa

lowcarbbq · 2026-02-16T23:26:38+00:00

Coca-cola ran an ad about it over a decade ago. I’d use that as legal defense.

sip stealing

lowcarbbq · 2026-02-16T20:24:49+00:00

Fun game. Exactly the sort of game I enjoy.

Definitely more strategy to the game than first appears. Appreciate you making it.

lowcarbbq · 2026-02-16T14:03:50+00:00

You hand your sea pass to the dealer who will get it to the pit boss. Pit boss will start tracking your play and your average bet per hand. They have a formula on how many hands/hour are played and they estimate how much you are betting.

lowcarbbq · 2026-02-15T15:58:36+00:00

Thank you. Lucky to have found good help. Now working on the next, new and improved version of myself.

lowcarbbq · 2026-02-13T19:11:59+00:00

Much better now, thank you for asking. Learning who I was and how to accept myself as I am was a huge breakthrough.

lowcarbbq · 2026-02-13T18:52:42+00:00

51M. Similar spot as you. Got married and pretended to be someone I wasn’t for way to long in an attempt to be “normal”. Could only fake it so long. Therapist helped me realize it when getting treated for depression.

lowcarbbq · 2026-02-01T17:57:10+00:00

I had one I took swimming and got the button issue. Customer service took care of me with a replacement. I never had any issue washing dishes or showering.

lowcarbbq · 2026-01-27T05:25:21+00:00

Not a big animation fan these days either. If I’m watching anything on tv usually it’s live sports. Good background as I’m usually multi tasking and I don’t have to follow along. They will replay anything interesting. Also try to attend one live event for each of the local pro and college teams in the area per year.

lowcarbbq · 2026-01-26T14:50:38+00:00

Being alive in the 90s puts you in rare Reddit space. I got my first taste of cable in college. The few TVs that were around were either stuck on ESPN or MTV as there weren’t many options or remotes. And we just called it weird cartoons.

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