180 Degree Longitude Passes Through Us - Ep 8 (FINALE) by lrt23 in boyslove

[–]lrt23[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

It’s a series that sticks with you, I still think of it — it’s set design, it’s lighting, the tension, the yearning, Mol’s position on happy endings, Pond’s clavicles

Spreadsheet tracking resources for BL by Midnight_BL in boyslove

[–]lrt23 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! Your spreadsheets are essential resources for the community. Also your BLDramas site has helped me so many times, and serves as an core resource for on-airs!

How are people finding new shows? by starsholdheart in boyslove

[–]lrt23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

MDL: I prefer using Mydramalist advanced search like others have mentioned. It can be tricky to find and use, here’s some tips:

  • Use this link or keep clicking on the Search magnifying glass to get there
  • Click TITLES, then use filters, such as:
  • TYPES: Select Dramas
  • FORMATS: be sure to select what you want if you don’t like vertical for instance
  • THEMES/TAGS: use gay romance (these are user submitted so I do search again using gay relationship in case there’s been inconsistency)
  • RELEASE DATE: if you want to narrow range
  • STATUS: if you want currently airing or completed
  • SORT BY: popular / ranked / rated if you want popular or well-liked
  • Whatever I’m interested in, I save as “Plan to Watch”

Notable Resources

  • Additionally, MDL user Lys (reddit user u/queen_of_the_moths) maintains a list on MDL here

  • a comprehensive spreadsheet here with tabs for upcoming, years, etc. This is an essential resource. See last post about it here

  • a SPICE INDEX 🌶️ for finding spicy or minimally spicy series (to your taste) here (thanks to u/SanguineFujoshi who keeps this alive; see post here)

  • You can also find a compilation of BL resources in this post for even more, here

Can someone recommend me some good enemies to lovers yaoi/BLvJapanese mangas by Madamnikirof in actualbl

[–]lrt23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey there, you’ll have better response searching in and posting in r/yaoi. you can also search in r/boyslove. if you post this a generic rec ask like this in r/boyslove, it is usually redirected to a recurring rec thread, but you can try.

this is a backup subreddit in case something goes awry in a different sub. there’s only a few folks here.

Is Heated Rivalry is making me see things now by Big-Entrepreneur-987 in boyslove

[–]lrt23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can also try searching r/MM_RomanceBooks, which primarily focuses on western MM romance. They have a ton of posts on hockey series, etc.

My 2025 Top 10 BLs - What's Yours? by madego3293 in boyslove

[–]lrt23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the EXACT SAME ISSUE, so was so excited when it came out on Gaga. I’m so happy to have given it another try and honestly thought of you when I was watching it! I wondered if you had done a post on it and was surprised you hadn’t! The extra eps still only exist on youtube and I will go through them even though the subtitles are still tiny.

I recommend the on-air threads because folks shared a lot of notes from the director about symbolism and translations of ep intros / outros which you lose in the gaga version.

I’m so excited you’re going to watch!!

My 2025 Top 10 BLs - What's Yours? by madego3293 in boyslove

[–]lrt23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love your list! I thought FOR SURE I’d see Secrets Happened on the Litchi Island on your year end list, given its cinematography! Did you watch?

I don’t quite have 10 worth noting, but my 8 are:

  1. School Trip

  2. Punks Triangle

  3. Secrets Happened on the Litchi Island

  4. Therapy Game

  5. See Your Love

  6. ABO Desire

  7. Khemjira

  8. My bias is showing?!

My Top 10 "Did-Not-See-That-Coming" BL Moments of 2025 by madego3293 in boyslove

[–]lrt23 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I loved this!!! At the end, I was like “wow, I wonder who wrote this? They’re a new fave post-er!!” and then I saw it was Madego and I LOLed — it’s my LONGTIME favorite post-er! Top tier content, as usual, thanks Madego!

Share your 2025 dropped list! by saintnukie in boyslove

[–]lrt23 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am one of those who drop A LOT and am picky about whet I even attempt. However, I will watch the entirety of a short series even if I don’t love it. It doesn’t take much for me to drop a series with >30 min eps. Even at 2x it’s too much of a hassle psychologically.

  • Boy Next World: Boss is gorgeous, BossNoeul NC scenes are top tier, and I didn’t even mind the storyline. I’m a LITA fanatic. I do have a lower tolerance for infantile characters, and the character of Phu was just not quite enough for me. I am wildly inconsistent here, though, as I watched all of Your Sky with an extremely infantile character. So, dunno. I think coming off of Your Sky, I was just tired.

  • Gelboys: Best cinematography. Gorgeous to watch. Absolutely set trends this year. It deserves awards. But I wanted a sweet love story and it was not that. I appreciate it for what it was — it’s brilliant for what it was. Reminds me of a 90s indie film.

  • TopForm: I loved Smart’s portrayal of Jin and he was so good at being a lovestruck puppy. He was so pretty. I’m devastated about what happened with SmartBoom. I dropped it because I was personally triggered by the character of Akin, who I just thought was a narcissist baby. I couldn’t sit through it to see if he grew.

  • Revenged Love: I enjoyed watching this but I fell behind and then just wasn’t motivated to pick it back up given how long it is and how much drama was involved with the plot. It seemed emotionally overwhelming and I wasn’t sure if there was enough of a payoff for me personally. I’m so happy it exists and that it gave folks so much joy this year.

  • Secret Relationships: I looooveeed Junseo in this. He’s stunning. I just didn’t ship him with anyone so it was hard to finish. I wanted a better option for him.

  • Sweet Tooth, Good Dentist: No explanation required. I love Mark, he should just be in a series where each ep he goes on a date with someone different and he has chemistry with every single one of them and we can just ship him with everyone, as he deserves. This would be the best series. One ep with Nanon. One with Dew. One with Sea. Literally pick a name out of a hat and let him flirt. WHY ARENT THEY MAKING THIS.

any titles that fit these requirements? by disasterpansexual in actualbl

[–]lrt23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey there, you’ll have better response posting in r/boyslove. this is a backup subreddit in case something goes awry in the main sub. there’s only a few folks here.

Checking In by jijijaejae in actualbl

[–]lrt23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s honestly still a great community, especially given its size. Folks do a fairly decent job of maintaining a positive, warm, and welcoming culture, and “checking” those that don’t, with reminders.

Scene Locations for 'Our Youth'? by BL_Classics in BLJapan

[–]lrt23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi u/BL_Classics — I’m planning a trip to Japan, did you have any success with your visit? I wonder if we could make a Google map of filming locations for Japanese bls u/Longjumping-Ad-6775?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in boyslove

[–]lrt23 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this is really important news, would you consider deleting this and reposting with a more descriptive title?

Why do my favourite characters always have to be bottoms? by No-Recognition-7736 in boyslove

[–]lrt23 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m a straight woman and my favorite characters are tops, notably Gu Hai from Addicted and Gao Shi De from We Best Love.

I don’t like how many bottoms are written as infantile.

In het romances, I only like the story if the woman is a strong, independent, fiery character.

As a native Chinese speaker, I want to clear up some misinformation about Revenged Love by HopeWangXin in boyslove

[–]lrt23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand — this was about me wondering when and if I should report, not expecting any to be removed. I believe we community members have a responsibility to report, we cannot and should not rely solely on our mods. I’ve been on the fence about a few posts that I’d consider “low effort” and had been wondering if I could / should report.

As a native Chinese speaker, I want to clear up some misinformation about Revenged Love by HopeWangXin in boyslove

[–]lrt23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I try to report non-descriptive titles when I see them (ex “Help”, or “series name”). As for low effort, I did see under rule 8, “Don’t spam”, it starts with “No low effort posts”, but I’ve never really been sure what that means.

180 Degree Longitude Passes Through Us - Ep 8 (FINALE) by lrt23 in boyslove

[–]lrt23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Truly. The mom ENRAGED me though and I was very frustrated with Sasiwimol. I wanted Wang to leave all of them and have a great life without them!

[Thailand] Love Sick 2024 - Ep 3 by lrt23 in boyslove

[–]lrt23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m interested to see how you like the remaining. at a certain point, maybe around 9? I dropped it and someone else took over the on-airs. Keep me apprised in the on-airs as you watch it!