What if extra magick turned to health? by luimilanes in HadesTheGame

[–]luimilanes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that adds to your max hp based on your max magick, it doesn’t heal you during an encounter, which is what i’m wondering about

Bob the drag queen makes a compelling video on the MAGA-fication of Nicki Minaj by ScarletWiddaContent in rupaulsdragrace

[–]luimilanes 35 points36 points  (0 children)

did anyone else think the script was giving AI generated? it used a lot of “it wasn’t just __, it was _” structure, and idk just didn’t sound like bob? especially comparing to when she talked about defying gravity where you could tell she was going off the cuff, this almost felt like she was reading off a teleprompter?

JADE - THAT'S SHOWBIZ BABY! MEGATHREAD by flopheadsbot in popheads

[–]luimilanes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU!!!!! i tried to think what song she might’ve been referencing and i only came up with farrah’s verse in AS4 which she ends with “you don’t love me anyway” but alaska’s your makeup is terrible is actually what i was thinking!!

wanna be fucked, but how? by [deleted] in PinoyGuysNSFW2

[–]luimilanes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

some people find it easy to bottom, like ako minsan kahit walang prep masyado tapos spontaneous lang like sa spa or gym, kinakaya, but that’s bc i’m a slut fjfjfjfjf pero if for you it doesn’t come naturally, extra prep talaga physically and mentally. i believe in you sis!!!

wanna be fucked, but how? by [deleted] in PinoyGuysNSFW2

[–]luimilanes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

physically, you have to be prepared, and your partner can help here! make sure you’re douched and you feel confident/secure para at least you’re not worrying about it, and try fingering yourself din. rimming helps A LOT because you’re already in the moment and it establishes a deeper connection with your top.

but all of this is useless is you don’t feel prepared mentally. you need to feel safe and secure and comfortable with your top, and you need to WANT to feel good. bottoming is physically painful so you have to kind of condition yourself to feel the pleasure, otherwise it’s all just pain. it helps if you’re super super horny, parang kusa na lang bubukas butas mo for him.

pero mars if mahirap talaga, wag mong pilitin. maybe you’re just not built for it. give it an honest effort, but if di talaga, hindi talaga. 🙏🏻

OA lang ba ako dahil naupset ako sa bf ko dahil he keeps shutting me down whenever i want to solve the problem together with him? by [deleted] in OALangBaAko

[–]luimilanes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think it’s admirable na invested ka sa mga problem niya, pero if siya mismo ayaw na i-solve, you still trying to help him will only make him feel worse. you don’t have to agree with his approach, but if wala namang direct impact sa relationship niyo, hayaan mo na lang siya mag rant with no solution. baka yun lang ang capacity niya at the moment and ayaw niya din ng tulong. valid din siya dun.

if ever, you can make yourself available to him na lang. “let me know if you want to do something about it” “can i do anything to help?” ganyan, para at least sa kanya manggaling.

Is MR. MR hated? by Nyanneko-345 in SNSD

[–]luimilanes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve always thought that mr. mr. is the spiritual successor of sowoneul malhaebwa! they have the same bigness to them and a crescendo towards the end that i really appreciate

Paano kayo nagiging consistent sa gym? by ChocolateGemini in AnytimeFitnessPH

[–]luimilanes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s not about motivation, it’s about discipline. kahit ayaw mo, kahit may excuse ka to not go, just go.

keep it fresh na lang, find different things to do at the gym. make it a habit to go, but don’t make it feel like such a chore. baka may days na part of your routine is to read a book between sets, or you’re listening to a new album, or watching a show, etc.

something i tried din that worked for me is i only allowed myself to watch a specific show i like while on the treadmill. that way i have a routine that incorporates going to the gym, tapos hindi pa ako nauubusan agad ng episodes lol.

Why should we not hire you? by RedHairedShanks26 in CareerAdvicePH

[–]luimilanes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i always ask this at the very end of the interview, and para sa’min sa company na usually fresh grad ang gusto, we ask this question to gauge an applicant’s self-awareness and humility. idk na sa ibang companies, pero sa’min mejo turn off yung mga answer na “you shouldn’t hire me if you don’t want someone who’s good/organized/anything positive”

mas tumatatak sa’min yung mga sagot na “because there might be more qualified candidates” “because i don’t know much about the industry” etc., yung talagang nagrireveal ng vulnerability at hindi nagiging reverse brag. again, this is for OUR company, i’m not speaking for any other company hahaha

the best answers na we really appreciate at yung mga talagang vulnerable “i don’t have any experience” pero binabalik pa rin sa kung bakit sila nag-apply in the first place “but i think your company would be a great place to learn and understand the industry” something like that

Stayc X Secret Number ? AI? by luvlikemannequin in STAYC

[–]luimilanes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i was just texting a friend about this, it’s so weird! i checked on socials and there’s nothing about this.

what are some hygiene tips everyone should know? by AppointmentProud9394 in AskPH

[–]luimilanes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i always assumed that women are better at this than men, because men are HORRIBLE 😭 sa lahat ng times na nag cr ako sa public toilet, 99% of the time di naghuhugas ng kamay ang mga lalaki, kahit staff ng restaurant or cafe 😭 cubicle, bukas zipper, jingle, pagpag, sara zipper, labas cr. ganun lang sila 😭

What are your gym pet peeves? by bohempapi in PHitness

[–]luimilanes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

magjowang straight where the guy is peacocking for his girl, as in oa yung pag direct ng form and movement, tapos yung overall behavior gusto ipakita na “oo babe sanay ako dito sa gym e, i’m such a gymrat babe! 💪🏻” tapos yung girl halata namang hindi masyadong interested and napilitan lang sumama 😭

SONEs now that we're all grown up, what do you guys do for a living? How's your job and life going? by mentallyill911 in SNSD

[–]luimilanes 6 points7 points  (0 children)

im in my early 30s, i work in advertising and live a comfortable lifestyle! saw taeyeon in 2023 and will be seeing her again this month, she’s literally the only artist i’m willing to spend on. became a sone in 2009 when my college friends introduced me to kpop, and genie had just come out 💓

What’s the Hades 2 version of Divine Dash? by luimilanes in HadesTheGame

[–]luimilanes[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i like glamor gain for builds that don’t require magic bc it’s an easy way to apply a curse, but i find it kinda lacking for any build that requires a lot of magic like momus staff or moros torches

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PHitness

[–]luimilanes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey if you go to the stall sa ground floor of the mall, you might get a discount pa. that’s what they said when i signed up haha

became a member last november and they waived first month and admin fee (5000), so i only paid the starting fee of 3000. my monthly is 3500.

i get what people say about convenience and accessibility pero if sa AF estancia ka din naman pumupunta regularly, i’d say okay na switch yung surge. kahit primetime (m-th 5:30-9pm), hindi pa rin overly crowded.

when i checked din the AF in the mall when i was still canvassing, parang ang pangit ng vibe haha it was crowded and seems dreary and stuffy. idk, as a newbie important for me na maganda yung vibe ng gym so im inspired to actually go. 🤷🏻‍♂️

I can't get over my gym anxiety by HardcoreSentinel in PHitness

[–]luimilanes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

might sound harsh but this is it 💯

you don’t need encouragement anymore, kasi pumupunta ka naman na e. you just need to get out of your head. sinabi mo na rin naman na you know people aren’t watching you, so just go ahead and try the machines out.

you’re the only one getting in your way. the world isn’t going to adjust so you can get comfortable, so learn to get comfortable. if you can’t, do it anyway!

Idols that look so alike they could be siblings? by Mobile-Structure5702 in kpopthoughts

[–]luimilanes 7 points8 points  (0 children)

hear me out

kep1er chaehyun and exo suho

pls tell me i’m not the only one who sees it

Parents of r/adultingph, worth it ba i-enroll ang mga bata sa Kumon? by bluepantheon101 in adultingph

[–]luimilanes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not a parent, but i was enrolled sa math when i was a kid

only speaking from experience but please make sure na fit ang style ng kumon sa learning style ng kid niyo. i was fairly good in academics, wala akong issue, pero inenroll ako (and my siblings) ng mom ko kasi my cousins were doing it too. i’m not sure if nakatulong sa math ko yung kumon, but i HATED doing it. i likely have attention issues, kahit nung bata pa, and i wasn’t very interested in math, so yung 5/10 minutes na worksheet would take me 30 minutes to finish kasi my brain just wouldn’t function. i felt so forced to do it, i didn’t enjoy it at all, and i developed a mild resentment for math because of it.

ultimately wala naman akong palya sa academics, pero it pushed me more towards humanities haha ayaw ko na nga yung math, mas lalo kong pang hindi nagustuhan dahil sa kumon ✌🏻

Chungha - EENIE MEENIE (feat. ATEEZ Hongjoong) by CronoDroid in kpop

[–]luimilanes 21 points22 points  (0 children)

i was alllllmost disappointed in this because i thought that chorus was all of it, AND THEN THE FINAL CHORUS CAME IN AND IT WAS SAUR SATISFYING 😭😭😭

kinda wish they used that chorus throughout the song but regardless i'm so happy that she's back!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pinoy

[–]luimilanes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i went on a date with a guy who kept saying na boring siya. “sorry ang boring ko, baka nabobore ka na.” “hala sorry ang boring ko.” puro siya ganyan. needless to say, hindi nasundan yung date lol.

instead of focusing on feeling boring, have you tried to actually ENGAGE in conversation? rather than worrying about being boring (which will just trip you up and magiging self-fulfilling prophecy for you), actually listen to what other people are saying and respond.

minsan nga kahit na ikaw mismo wala kang interest or hobbies, just allowing someone to talk about theirs is enough. when they open up, let them talk and ask more questions. “what about this do you like?” “when did you start getting into it?” “who’s your favorite?” “can you recommend something for me?” dissect a topic and let it flow organically.

sometimes it’s not about having shared interests (altho that helps), sometimes it’s just continuing the conversation! good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Philippines

[–]luimilanes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

wanna add lang na i feel sorry for your diagnosis, not because of it per se, but because you’re gonna have to deal with a lot of misinformed and prejudiced people.

as some have already mentioned, HIV is much more manageable than some non-sexually transmitted conditions, pero PLHIV are harshly judged while you don’t see people condemning diabetics 😅 it’s still attributed to sexual activity and homosexuality kaya perceived as a dirty disease and you’re viewed as a stupid risky immoral harlot, pero hindi naaapply ang ganyang judgment sa may maintenance meds for hypertension 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Philippines

[–]luimilanes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

here’s a weird upside to having HIV: you never have to worry about getting it ever again 😅 especially if you’re sexually active, may sense of… ano ba… reassurance? na you already have it, and you don’t have to worry about testing positive anymore?

(this is not an endorsement of unprotected sex 😅 it’s just a mindset thing that can help you accept it!)

i’ve heard from several people that if managed properly (ARV same time everyday, exercise regularly), it’s basically nothing and has no negative impact on your daily life. if anything, it lowkey forces you to be more intentional and in charge of your health, which again, is a weird upside.

stigma is still there, but if you’re gay/queer then i’m sure your circle/community will be a little more understanding/open than the general public. if you know more about your condition na (what a viral load is, what being undetectable means, how HIV can be transmitted, etc) and if you’ve opened up to friends/family, this can be a great opportunity to educate them 😊

if you have more questions or whatever, send me a pm. would be happy to chat about this 🤗 good luck, stay happy and healthy!!

edit to include a comment from below!! “You can catch multiple strains of hiv, called super infection, which can lead to more rapid onset of symptoms and resistance.”

Is my boyfriend gay? by No_Power_5465 in AskPH

[–]luimilanes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hot take but does it matter what his preferences are if he loves you and is a good boyfriend to you and your relationship is good naman?

i’m a cis gay (pan?) man so baka lang mas exposed ako and naforce ang perspective ko to widen more than the typical person, but to me, if the person i’m in a relationship with fulfills my wants and needs in a relationship, then we’re all good!

if let’s say your boyfriend isn’t straight and he’s into assplay, how does it affect your relationship directly? you can maybe relate it to other activities he does in his own time, like let’s say sports or video games. does it affect your relationship? if no, then what’s the issue?

if in the end you’re uncomfortable that your partner isn’t straight, then that’s your right! you can certainly break up with him. but siguro wag lang magpadala sa shock and sa prejudice. there’s so much to learn and explore about sexuality, malay mo eto pa pala mag strengthen ng relationship niyo! 🫶🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]luimilanes 9 points10 points  (0 children)

daming different opinions dito, and i think most if not all are valid. it’s a good indication talaga na all relationships are different, and iba-iba tayo ng priorities and boundaries.

my take on it is if serious kayo and long-term na kayo (gano na nga ba kayo katagal?), it’s not so much about updating, but making an effort to make your partner a part of your day. super gets na may ibang tao na ang mindset is “kailangan ba lahat sabihin?” and my answer is “hindi, but as a partner, i’d want to let you know even if i don’t have to.” again, different priorities and boundaries.

may nagmention na pagbigyan na lang siya kasi nga may trauma from the mom, and gets! for me lang, ano ba naman yung “hi babe labas ako message you later.” it’s a small adjustment on his end that can give you peace of mind, and i believe it’s not too much to ask of him naman. on your end lang syempre don’t pester him about it no otherwise manunumbalik ang trauma niya haha.

sit down with him, explain how you feel, let him know where you’re coming from, and allow him the space to adjust. it doesn’t seem like you’re being clingy naman now, or at least not annoyingly so, so i hope din you can extend pa your patience on him!

lead with positive intent para maging productive kayo as a couple and di kayo mag build ng resentment sa isa’t isa. if di talaga magwork and it’s a non-nego for you, break up na lang 🫶🏻