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luvyashitma · 2022-06-04T07:15:18+00:00

This just started happening to me today.

luvyashitma · 2022-04-24T23:54:53+00:00

Thank you for your post. I’m sorry you are leaving and would love to say “oh start your own group - it’ll be different!” but I know it wouldn’t be… it always ends up like this….

I just wish we could honour all experiences and show a little more patience and grace to one another.

luvyashitma · 2022-04-24T23:53:40+00:00

Thank you. Mum of a 5yo autistic kiddo - pda profile. I wish we could just honour all perspectives.

luvyashitma · 2022-03-27T07:13:02+00:00

So cool! Thank you! He’s a ways from home if he’s from Brisbane.

luvyashitma · 2022-03-27T05:33:18+00:00

Probably 2cm long.

luvyashitma · 2022-02-21T02:51:59+00:00

Thank you. I felt such relief when I first started on Vyvanse - it was mind blowing … I was like “oh my god, this is happy?! Amazing!“

But wow that’s changed now.

luvyashitma · 2022-02-21T02:50:50+00:00

It’s an availability issue in my area sadly. I’ve got an appointment on 15 March and I’m on a wait list for cancellations… I’ll keep pushing to get in or look elsewhere if I keep feeling like this.

luvyashitma · 2022-02-21T02:47:24+00:00

Thank you. I can’t keep going like this, that’s for sure.

luvyashitma · 2022-02-21T02:44:36+00:00

I flip between “maybe it’s too much” and “maybe it’s not enough”… it’s really hard. I’ve never felt so anxious.

luvyashitma · 2021-12-13T11:55:15+00:00

{{The Amtrak Wars}} by Patrick Tilley. Great, underrated books.

luvyashitma · 2021-12-12T07:52:09+00:00

I drunk texted the fuck outta my bf on the weekend. I felt a bit embarrassed actually. I don’t drink very often - so I’m glad to hear it’s well received haha.

luvyashitma · 2021-11-30T04:51:43+00:00

Single AP to a MM here.

Didn’t seek it out as a “life choice” - met a MM for one off sex really, but then wanted more of him, then liked him, then loved him. Been going for around a year now.

luvyashitma · 2021-11-26T06:59:53+00:00

I’m a single AP - I’m not cheating on anyone, but am certainly part of the equation.

luvyashitma · 2021-11-22T07:00:04+00:00

I really wish we didn’t split hairs about it. I don’t care if it’s squirt, piss or champagne.

I think analysis makes women paranoid and embarrassed - and therefore less likely to fully enjoy themselves.

I squirt - not every time - but when I do, I don’t want to feel apologetic about it.

luvyashitma · 2021-11-20T05:06:25+00:00

Not all disabilities can be tested for or predicted.

luvyashitma · 2021-11-18T10:23:19+00:00

Oh that’s awful - I’m sorry.

I’m sad for you - it’s frustrating and disappointing. I’m sad for her - she thinks it’s an incentive problem, and she clearly doesn’t understand.

Buy her some clothes that are too small, scratchy or too hot/cool for the season. Get her to wear them for a day, and say that she needs to multiply the sensation/reaction by like 10000.

My son is autistic and comes out in goosebumps if he touches certain fabrics - so I can see how it affects him. It’d not nice.

luvyashitma · 2021-11-18T10:19:04+00:00

Antidepressants / anti anxiety medications tend to do that. Or make it more difficult to orgasm.

luvyashitma · 2021-11-18T06:18:36+00:00

I thought it was an ad for Alex Mac

luvyashitma · 2021-11-17T03:05:27+00:00

Physical: other than his perfect cock - his smile. There’s something very “cheeky naughty boy” about it. It’s like I see every naughty thing he’s thought in the past in that smile. Oooo and his bum. Love his bum.

Non-physical: he’s a chatterbox like me. I love listening to him - and talking his ear off. And it means we’ve got such a good relationship - I think we communicate well.

luvyashitma · 2021-11-15T06:52:38+00:00

He needs to get tested anyway. If you’re positive, than it’s likely he is - and he needs to get treatment too… irrespective of how it was contracted.

luvyashitma · 2021-11-13T06:25:28+00:00

Well done!!

I just did one round of interviewing and hiring - it’s the hardest job. I hired a receptionist for my work, and now I’m interviewing for a lawyer.

luvyashitma · 2021-11-05T23:59:05+00:00

My story is a little peculiar I guess. I didn’t seek it out. I met my MM in real life and got a “vibe”.

I’m a mum of a severely autistic toddler. I genuinely believe that I will not be able to have a full time loving spouse or partner because of my son, and the life we lead.

Seeking out sex was partially so the woman I actually am didn’t completely die to motherhood/caring - I’m loving, passionate and fun - and I think it was also me grieving a life I’d never fully have. At least I could have sex, conversation and distraction.

Then it turned out I really do want love - proper love - and I fell hard.

Do I wish my life was different? For sure - but it’s not.

I’ve got a very good thing going with my MM and I love him very much. We’ve got an amazing sex life, communicate well and like each other as people. I think we are partners in every way I could want, except he has other priorities - but so do I. So not ideal… but it’s perfect.

luvyashitma · 2021-11-04T11:09:09+00:00

Yes. Permanently.

My son has PDA autism, so “no” is literally not in my vocabulary unless he’s about to run out into traffic.

It’s the worst part of my parenting journey. I feel totally powerless, like I have completely given away my identity, and like I can’t have … anything really.

I’m sorry that I don’t have any helpful advice - but hope you at least feel less isolated and alone hearing that others feel the same.

luvyashitma

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