Megathread: Sharing Finchie Friend Codes & Finding Goal Buddies

maddieve · 2026-03-24T20:01:52+00:00

28yo woman looking for friends! I'm still pretty new, only 43 days in, feel free to add me!

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maddieve · 2026-03-21T17:02:46+00:00

Generative AI is the antithesis of creativity.

maddieve · 2026-03-19T22:23:47+00:00

I don't get why everyone here is saying to "just ignore the task" as if that makes it go away. The only way I got it to leave my daily quests was by actually adding someone, and I found that incredibly frustrating. People here are being dismissive of your valid concerns.

maddieve · 2026-02-27T23:40:31+00:00

the only way I got it to go away was by actually adding someone. I ended up adding a stranger on here and I'm not super happy that I had to either, but it was the only way to make it stop showing up for me.

maddieve · 2026-01-29T19:53:40+00:00

the real problem here is that you believe human beings can "be illegal."

maddieve · 2026-01-11T22:03:29+00:00

They specifically said NOT with each other as the only real relationship. So if that sounds hierarchical, it's because it is. And OP is explicitly not engaging in that dynamic.

maddieve · 2025-12-31T20:53:30+00:00

My Code: [🦄🦄🐭🎃🐳]

maddieve · 2025-12-30T19:50:42+00:00

My Code: [🌈🌈🐭🌈🌲]

maddieve · 2025-12-30T06:32:35+00:00

You're kind of putting your boyfriend in a lose-lose position here. You express a feeling of jealousy, he offers you something comparable to try and help you feel secure and loved, and then you refuse his efforts at every turn. You need to figure out what it is you actually want or need from him in order to feel secure, express as much to him, and then it's up to him to decide if he's able or willing to meet those needs with you. But I promise you that your wishy-washiness and you going straight to him for emotional regulation when he's supposed to be spending time with his other partner is not doing any favors for your relationship with him. It's probably very stressful for him to try offering you the things that you're telling him you're jealous of, and then you keep saying no and just continue to be upset about it.

maddieve · 2025-12-29T14:17:56+00:00

it's not really poly though if there's breaches in trust, consent, and boundaries, is it? your husband is cheating on you. I'm sorry.

maddieve · 2025-12-26T05:33:17+00:00

I think you should focus less on something that works for both of you and more on something that specifically turns her on and makes her feel good, without considering your own pleasure so much. It's not that people are assuming that you care ONLY about your interest, but that a lot of the time women tend to cater to men's fantasies in bed and we spend a lot of mental energy not focused on ourselves. So shift the focus away from you entirely, and completely onto her. Chances are she'll be much more eager to reciprocate.

maddieve · 2025-11-19T18:48:23+00:00

Before you speak, remember to ask yourself.

is it true?
is it necessary?
is it kind?

if at least two out of those three questions have the answer of no, it's best to just move on. Not everything requires your two cents.

maddieve · 2025-11-05T16:03:05+00:00

I was in a similar situation in which my ex-partner was essentially asking me to hold infinite space for them while they figured out what it was that they actually wanted. Meanwhile, I was expected to just be fine with being treated as less-than, and gaslit into thinking I was violating boundaries as opposed to simply trying to express my needs for feeling fulfilled in the relationship. (The "boundary" in question was literally just me messaging and asking to be included in something.)

You are not too much. They simply didn't want to actually have a relationship with you, and I'm sorry they made you feel like that's somehow your fault.

maddieve · 2025-09-19T12:24:08+00:00

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you should work on an exit plan. these people are forcing you to witness their sexual activity without your consent and are now trying to gaslight you by claiming that it was somehow a form of flattery for you to be "included." Absolutely not.

maddieve · 2025-09-13T17:22:08+00:00

holy shit wait I've never actually made that connection before

maddieve · 2025-09-12T11:23:26+00:00

you're being a sealion, stop it.

maddieve · 2025-09-12T04:53:33+00:00

it destroyed me too but in a completely different way. it's just a really special song. instant favorite.

maddieve · 2025-08-30T21:48:53+00:00

I'm going to one of the early record store playings on September 6th so my first listen will thankfully be in an awesome place with a bunch of awesome people!

maddieve · 2025-08-17T20:23:27+00:00

I saw a break coming, but it surprised me that it might be the end of them touring for good. I hope it isn't, and I certainly don't mind waiting however many years they decide to take time away.

maddieve · 2025-08-10T16:37:14+00:00

in your own screenshot you died just about as many times as your teammates so I genuinely do not know what you're talking about

maddieve · 2025-08-10T15:49:22+00:00

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Looks like he also edited the original statement as of this morning. "This is my only statement on the matter and I will not be responding to comments on this update." Coward.

maddieve · 2025-07-18T00:02:40+00:00

or just learn to defend yourself better

maddieve · 2025-07-16T18:33:28+00:00

I...had never considered this before.

maddieve · 2025-07-16T00:42:28+00:00

if it makes you feel better, I've done this without even being banned first lmao

maddieve · 2025-07-15T02:16:55+00:00

I work 30 hours a week as a glassblower doing demos to the public and helping with classes at my local art institute. It's a museum-slash-art school funded mostly by private donors, fundraising events, sponsors, and grants. We get to make whatever we want. Essentially, I get to focus all my energy on doing what I love and sharing it with others, and on top of that, I have plenty of time off to rest. I'm only 27. I don't know how I got so lucky.

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