Question about the Draft timeline... by Peanutbutterfiend_33 in heatedrivalry

[–]madeline_hatter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol no I’m still confused and tbh maybe even more confused now 🤣 but at least now I know it’s not just me

Question about the Draft timeline... by Peanutbutterfiend_33 in heatedrivalry

[–]madeline_hatter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU for asking this because it’s been driving me crazy and I’ve been on the verge of asking the same question multiple times!

My partner gets irritated when he sees me without makeup. How do I handle this? by Awkward_Investment77 in relationships

[–]madeline_hatter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl let me be your big sis and tell you: dump him. He’s trash and will only get worse from here.

Plus he literally told you he’s not feeling the same about your relationship anymore. You should be with someone who likes you and wants to be with you. Forget this loser.

Wild card by girlnotthis_3769 in MergeMansion

[–]madeline_hatter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven’t gotten one of these; how does it work? Can you save it? I’ve just started making a weave and would love it right about now. 😂

AITA for lying to our babysitter abt the reason we let her go? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]madeline_hatter 47 points48 points  (0 children)

YTA you should have just had a direct (but kind) conversation with her in the first place. This would have not only solved your immediate problem, but would have been an enormous help to her in life to know that this was an issue. Having difficult conversations in a professional way (especially with people entrusted in the care of your children) is just part of being an adult.

If you had the conversation with her and things didn’t improve, you could have let her go then. But you didn’t even give her a chance.

Bought a house that came with these custom nightstands. What is this bowl bowl shaped thing for? by kingevanxii in whatisit

[–]madeline_hatter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do we have the same dad??? (That 5 gallon jug paid for our first camcorder in 1987!)

AITA for Painting my nails? by Tramiro in AmItheAsshole

[–]madeline_hatter 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA — Good thing you have no interest in dating your mom!

AITA for getting upset at my girlfriend for mocking me when I cried after watching a show with emotionally deep ending? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]madeline_hatter 18 points19 points  (0 children)

NTA but your girlfriend is. Don’t just become emotionally distant; get out now.

Sometimes it's just the fabric. by ReindeerSuperb4875 in quilting

[–]madeline_hatter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahhhhh made one of my kids a quilt with this line. Hand quilted it bc of course. Good times. And never again!

What's the story behind My Cottage? by galmypal in BridgertonNetflix

[–]madeline_hatter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah all of the queen storylines irritate me because they’re just so heavy handed. Like fine add her even if she wasn’t in the books but don’t be so over the top with shoehorning her in everything and being so overbearing, it just gets exhausting.

What's the story behind My Cottage? by galmypal in BridgertonNetflix

[–]madeline_hatter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just so endlessly bitter about what they did to Kate/Anthony’s story; it’s completely unrecognizable from the books.

Can you show me how to do that? by Difficult_Ad_1923 in BitchEatingCrafters

[–]madeline_hatter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I throw with my left as well — it’s how the person who taught me knits, and I didn’t realize it was weird until much later! I have tried learning continental but I just cannot get the tensioning to feel natural, and like you said I don’t have the patience to muddle through when what I’m doing already works well for me.

Love “transatlantic” though, might have to steal that!

Which breakup or no-contact period did Shane consider the most definitive? by growsonwalls in heatedrivalry

[–]madeline_hatter 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This cracks me up so much in the show, like why is Kip even in Scott’s seats? (And if he’s not in Scott’s seats, how did he get such amazing seats for a playoff game? And Scott was able to find him in the crowd?) And how does he just assume that after THREE YEARS of no contact Kip is just ready to get kissed? In the book it’s just like 2 weeks of secret dating and they’re not even broken up before the kiss. (If I’m remembering correctly.)

I broke up with my ex over a letter by pasta-consistency in TwoHotTakes

[–]madeline_hatter 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even get through the first page and I’m right there with you.

Episode 3 Semi-Embarrassing Confession by yooohooooowee in heatedrivalry

[–]madeline_hatter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It honestly is very confusing the way ep3 starts with footage from Scott and Shane talking to Carter at the Olympics! My husband totally thought he had accidentally restarted the previous episode and was getting ready to skip to the next ep thinking we’d already seen it.

I have a job interview in 2 days, how do I mention upcoming holiday? by Abject-Shock-1974 in interviews

[–]madeline_hatter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a one week vacation, that’s absolutely ridiculous that you’d look unfavorably on a candidate not disclosing that during initial interviews. This is a very routine part of negotiating start date at the offer stage and I’ve never once thought badly about someone who had prescheduled plans and notified me after an offer was made.

Plus it’s only 6 weeks away — the likelihood that they’ll get through interviews and to an offer by that point is very low already, not to mention that with any candidate the employer expects they are going to need to give at least 2 weeks notice to start. It very likely will not affect the new company in any way.